Men who got married, aside from religious grounds....

[BasketCase]

But he chose to marry her anyway. Does that bother you?

What part of what I wrote leads you to ask this question? You're normally a descent poster but you're an emotional wreck in this thread.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

The fact that grown people think that another adult person has to provide them with a self-qualifying answer to a matter that doesn't involve them is the most hilarious, yet pathetic thing about this board.

The inflated sense of self/one's opinion on the internet is . Doubt you would go around trying to challenge people's life long commitments in real life, which is obvious due to you posting the question here and expecting a serious response.

What is stupid though is someone asking for "the reason" someone wanted to do something and the person responding with "because I wanted to",

You all act as if people on here are kids who have to explain themselves. As an adult, doing something because you want to is perfectly fine as long as you aren't intruding on anyone else/breaking the law.

You are telling people to get over the question when maybe you just need to get over their answers.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Don't defend them on here then. Even though folks were wrong for telling yall your answers to the ops question "isn't good enough", there is nothing wrong with people asking for the reason why yall wanted to get married, especially on a forum meant for discussing relationships.

What is stupid though is someone asking for "the reason" someone wanted to do something and the person responding with "because I wanted to", or posters complaining about other posters making enquires about marriage on a forum that was created for that very purpose. A lot of yall older cats came of as straight dumb and immature in this thread.

Like I said, MFers are tired of defending their marriages on here. You cant expect MFers to troll and shame the most important things going in people's lives and then be surprised or angry when the people getting shamed do not respond amicably. Especially when these people have been engaging in this nonsense for damn near a decade

What part of what I wrote leads you to ask this question? You're normally a descent poster but you're an emotional wreck in this thread.

:userious:

 

[Steve Piffler]

Love.

 

[daboywonder2002]

i just dont understand people who get married and dont want kids. i mean isn't that the main purpose to get married. to start a family? Also i told my girl already i wanna go to counseling first. but my co worker said he went to counseling at his church. but they just talk about marriage from a religious aspect. scriptures and the duties of a husband and wife. they dont talk about real life situations. so you also need to go to a real marriage counselor. not just your pastor .

 

[concise]

Or those people could just not make them... we can play this stupid game all day

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[Mountain]

You all act as if people on here are kids who have to explain themselves. As an adult, doing something because you want to is perfectly fine as long as you aren't intruding on anyone else/breaking the law.

You are telling people to get over the question when maybe you just need to get over their answers.

Man what are you talking about? . If they don't want to explain themselves on here they don't have to, I've made that clear already, nowhere have I told people they 'must' explain themselves. Also I never said doing something because you want to (provided you aren't intruding on anyone else/breaking the law) isn't fine.

Like I said, MFers are tired of defending their marriages on here. You cant expect MFers to troll and shame the most important things going in people's lives and then be surprised or angry when the people getting shamed do not respond amicably. Especially when these people have been engaging in this nonsense for damn near a decade

I understand where you're coming from. My point is, if you want to get at people attacking your marriage, go ahead, but you shouldnt berate people just because they want to know the reason behind peoples desire to get married.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

The only difference with marriage is the legal stuff (tax benefits, etc).

The etc. is 'trust'. Would you trust someone that went to many of the classes to become a doctor, but didn't graduate and is just calling himself one?

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[Zapp Brannigan]

NOT GOOD ENOUGH

@DaygoTaco disappeared

I do other things besides post on the coli during my weekend.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

what ive already posted...but you obviously havent comprehended:

also i never said you would be afraid to be alone at 40...i said you wont think the same way at 40 as you do at 20...theres a lot of living in that 20 years....but hey maybe as a college sophomore you'll be the same mentally as you would be when youre entering middle age ....

and i dont know you but i promise you...you know more people that have been married for 20 yrs than people that have been simply living together for 20 yrs...but this being the internet...ofcourse you'll be the anomaly

this is why i typically avoid these threads...cats misunderstand what you say and you spend 3 more posts having to clarify...what should have been plainly obvious



edit:

ive also answered why i got married....twice....go back and read it. AGAIN.

You keep saying that I'll "think differently" or throw out some other vague reason, but you don't really give a good breakdown of what motivated you.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Not the OP, but people are asking others to justify why they got married. See below:



Why are people so pressed about why other people chose to get married?

Pretty sure that was the basis of the original post. If you don't want to answer or don't like the fact that nobody seems to have a good answer, don't enter the thread.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Also I never said doing something because you want to (provided you aren't intruding on anyone else/breaking the law) isn't fine.

Yeah, but you called it stupid as if somehow what's stupid to you matters to anyone else. Like, you're pulling some back handed, back track shyt right now. Get your panties out of a bunch and stop thinking that adults have to qualify their personal life to your standards/wants/etc.

You aren't that important to anyone on here, I'm sure. No one is; get over yourself.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Here is 1,138 "reasons"
http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d04353r.pdf

Any further questions?

 

[Grifter]

She's pregnant.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You keep saying that I'll "think differently" or throw out some other vague reason, but you don't really give a good breakdown of what motivated you.

Why does he owe you one?