MEN, how do you do it? [relationships]

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:yeshrug: sorry, but yall respect white men on a different level.(same goes for BM, yes i know) i dont know if its the nature of our history, or simply because they give us employment; but BW have learned that its okay to submit in relationships w/white men.

same way a BW will turn on her "polite" voice for a white man on the phone, same way y'all act in relationships with them
black women stick to black men even though it has been proven that black men lust for other races of women more than any other race of men. Now you are saying black women dont respect black men like they do white men? GTFOH most black women arent even checking for white men like that.

stop trolling me.
 

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Women are terrified of the truth. It's easier to lie to them.

No, we would rather have the truth in order. Many men are afraid to be direct and HONEST in asking for what they want. That's indicative of a lack of TRUE confidence in men.

All women who would say yes to sex with no strings attached are not h0es but are women indulging in their own sexual desires....and the idea of this frightens men. So they would rather lie to seduce girls rather than have consensual sex with sexually self aware women.
 

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black women stick to black men even though it has been proven that black men lust for other races of women more than any other race of men. Now you are saying black women dont respect black men like they do white men? GTFOH most black women arent even checking for white men like that.

stop trolling me.
this isn't about trolling, you didn't even attack my point. there's plenty of BW/WM relationships, marriage rates not so high though. hell, y'all divorce rates w/WM are lower than their own race of women.
 

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:yeshrug: sorry, but yall respect white men on a different level.(same goes for BM, yes i know) i dont know if its the nature of our history, or simply because they give us employment; but BW have learned that its okay to submit in relationships w/white men.

same way a BW will turn on her "polite" voice for a white man on the phone, same way y'all act in relationships with them

Why does each and every conversation turn into "y'all don't think/say/do that about white men"....damn but some of you are so obsessed with white men.
 

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this isn't about trolling, you didn't even attack my point. there's plenty of BW/WM relationships, marriage rates not so high though. hell, y'all divorce rates w/WM are lower than their own race of women.
My bad. I thought it was clear that i was disagreeing with you.
 

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Why does each and every conversation turn into "y'all don't think/say/do that about white men"....damn but some of you are so obsessed with white men.

usually because its 100% spot on.

now why does every BW on here pretend this is a forum full of fat white woman chasers?
 

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this isn't about trolling, you didn't even attack my point. there's plenty of BW/WM relationships, marriage rates not so high though. hell, y'all divorce rates w/WM are lower than their own race of women.

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WHY are you bringing up WM/BW relationships???? That is NOT what we are discussing. We are talking about men and women in general.
 
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:yeshrug: sorry, but yall respect white men on a different level.(same goes for BM, yes i know) i dont know if its the nature of our history, or simply because they give us employment; but BW have learned that its okay to submit in relationships w/white men.

same way a BW will turn on her "polite" voice for a white man on the phone, same way y'all act in relationships with them

Do you think it's fair to stereotype black women in this fashion?

Let me ask you a quick Q: Are you accessing this website from prison right now? Statistics show that most black men are incarcerated, so I refuse to believe you're any different.
 

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Do you think it's fair to stereotype black women in this fashion?

Let me ask you a quick Q: Are you accessing this website from prison right now? Statistics show that most black men are incarcerated, so I refuse to believe you're any different.

i dont think they allow prisoners to visit forums of this nature, wouldn't be a safe bet.
 

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WHY are you bringing up WM/BW relationships???? That is NOT what we are discussing. We are talking about men and women in general.

because BM are often under the impression BW dont know how to submit. truth is they know how to submit, just not to dudes they perceive as valueless.
 
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because BM are often under the impression BW dont know how to submit. truth is they know how to submit, just not to dudes they perceive as valueless.

Hmm, this is very interesting.

Are you saying deep down black men don't feel worthy?They feel 'valueless'
:ohhh:

Why do you think this is? Do you blame the racist infrastructure embedded into society? The gang-culture mentality? The high unemployment rates? Or female's placing a greater value on future financial security rather than love?

Give us your perspective? Although, I already know it'll be seasoned with every bw stereotype there is, lol.
 

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because BM are often under the impression BW dont know how to submit. truth is they know how to submit, just not to dudes they perceive as valueless.

But this is not exclusive to black women. Generally speaking, most women (of any race/ethnicity) will not submit to a man that they do not perceive as being worth submitting to....why would they?

But more importantly, why do you deem black men as "valueless"? That is very disturbing and wreaks of low self esteem.
 

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Enlighten us....

Learn the game, that's it. Capitalize on how the world works and use that knowledge to get the best possible partner. A lot of people spend more time DISCUSSING dating than actually dating, once you've been doing it for a while its not nearly as complicated as some of you make it seem


I wish posters like @kevm3 and @Turbulent posted more, they would shut down all these dating threads with a quickness :ld:
 
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