MEN, how do you do it? [relationships]

[GiGi]

fake like the second one aint true if you want to

Its not. But I am assuming that either you deal mostly with uneducated, lower class women or you have spent too much time watching misogynistic hip hop videos (or both)

 

[Kenny West]

Its not. But I am assuming that either you deal mostly with uneducated, lower class women or you have spent too much time watching misogynistic hip hop videos (or both)

or I live in real life. keep your basic ass assumptions and to yourself, they're worthless

I know more than a few women in abusive relationships and marriages. some within the family. I know what type of men women cheat on, use, curve and dump. I know which type of men women they'll defend against the opinions of their families, friends and anyone trying to talk sense into. I know what type of dudes women go "b-but you don't know him like I do!" "he can change"

Consider that something like battered wife syndrome exists, but an inverse for simps doesn't .

you can get in a huff if and deny if you want but the actions always speak louder than the words. sad truth but oh well, im not the one dating these dudes so

 

[↓R↑LYB]

..how do you have sex with a woman you can't have an intellectual conversation with, a woman who you can't lay with postcoitus and talk about something meaningful or fulfulling with?

Cause I wanted to get a nut . shyt ain't that complicated breh. You meet a girl, you let her know you trying to fukk, then y'all keep fukking.

how do you psychologically abuse a woman to the point she's willing to do anything in the world for you because she's afraid of losing you?

If a broad scared to leave you, that's not necessarily abuse breh. Might just be I'm that nikka and she know she can't find another like me

have you ever sat up late at night and imagined that the fukked up shyt you just told her, just might have really hurt her feelings?

These hoes get that type of treatment cuz they deserved. My ex was a straight demon, and I called her bytch more than her actual name. Been with my girl for bout 1.5 years and couldn't imagine using that word on her.

Basically, most these bytches ain't shyt/

do you get a funny feeling in your tummy when you're doing something that you wouldn't want her to find out about?

Not really

 

[GiGi]

or I live in real life. keep your basic ass assumptions and to yourself, they're worthless

I know more than a few women in abusive relationships and marriages. some within the family. I know what type of men women cheat on, use, curve and dump. I know which type of men women they'll defend against the opinions of their families, friends and anyone trying to talk sense into. I know what type of dudes women go "b-but you don't know him like I do!" "he can change"

Consider that something like battered wife syndrome exists, but an inverse for simps doesn't .

you can get in a huff if and deny if you want but the actions always speak louder than the words. sad truth but oh well, im not the one dating these dudes so

That's you and the people that YOU know. Sorry but abusive relationships are not a part of my experience. I didn't see abuse in my 2-black parent home and I did not witness it amongst my aunts and uncles or other relatives.

But your post explains the reason that you have such a bitterness on the subject. If abusive relationships are your norm then I'm sure that anything else seems like a fairytale fabrication.

So, again I must say that NO women do not want to be abused and it isn't the NORM. But continue to stay sick with that mentality if you wish. A man with such a belief would never be relationship/marriage material (unless he has undergone intensive therapy). But it will only repeat the cycle in your own life to continue to think in such a dysfunctional manner about what is acceptable behavior in relationships.

 

[Kenny West]

That's you and the people that YOU know. Sorry but abusive relationships are not a part of my experience. I didn't see abuse in my 2-black parent home and I did not witness it amongst my aunts and uncles or other relatives.

But your post explains the reason that you have such a bitterness on the subject. If abusive relationships are your norm then I'm sure that anything else seems like a fairytale fabrication.

So, again I must say that NO women do not want to be abused and it isn't the NORM. But continue to stay sick with that mentality if you wish. A man with such a belief would never be relationship/marriage material (unless he has undergone intensive therapy). But it will only repeat the cycle in your own life to continue to think in such a dysfunctional manner about what is acceptable behavior in relationships.

go burn your armchair psychology degree, it's as worthless as your opinion

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I agree, but does anyone ever feel like they're taking advantage?

would you continue to have sex with a person who can't mentally stimulate you, if so, isn't that person reduced to a sexual object?

let me tackle this..... you don't get in the relationship in the first place...

most women will tell you.. SOMEWHERE during the first fukk and the last... he told you many many times he didn't want nothing serious..

he might cuddle with you... play with your kids... eat your food.. stay the weekend... but he never actually ever said, lets be together baby

so as a man, knowing i laid down that rule... it's officially the woman's fault when she hits you with "but i thought we was gonna be together" cause i specifically told you i wasn't




now that may be fukked up... but it is what it is...


then you have guys that just lie their ass off.. they will get in a relationship, fake it all the way through, while fukking each and every broad they see... yea they might THINK about the wrong they are doing... but at the end of the day, they keep doing it anyway...

so really..... NO.... they don't give a fukk... cause if they did, they'd stop

they might like you... they might care about you... but that's not gonna stop them from getting new p*ssy.. and when they tired or get caught, they'll simply leave you alone, and go with the other 23523 broads they smashing.. and do the same to them



basically.... there is NO man out here fukking bytches AND feeling bad about it... that's a real sex addict and i don't even believe in the concept... you out here seeing, walking over to, laying game down to, taking home, AND fukking women and the whole time you thinking "i don't want to do this" then go do it again the next week

nah them nikkas love it... they just don't love getting caught.. or losing that girl to another nikka.. so they cuff her

 

[Max Power]

No, we would rather have the truth in order. Many men are afraid to be direct and HONEST in asking for what they want. That's indicative of a lack of TRUE confidence in men.

All women who would say yes to sex with no strings attached are not h0es but are women indulging in their own sexual desires....and the idea of this frightens men. So they would rather lie to seduce girls rather than have consensual sex with sexually self aware women.

Yeah, you don't know what you're talking about.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

People are selfish and don't want to deal with what comes with the truth. Men don't want to deal with not getting what they want, awkward convos, women's feelings, being the bad guy etc...I don't understand wanting to trick someone, when there are plenty of women who will do whatever willingly without being tricked. Women don't want to hear...basically what they don't want to hear so they try to make something happen when you really can't.

I appreciate everyone who is honest with me. Some much less drama that way. Feelings may be hurt but I would rather deal with just that, than with that in addition to lies. I never understood how someone could be that cruel or uncaring about another person, but more people than I thought are like that.

cause that's not true

yes there are plenty of women who will do anything with anyone...

but as a man... you're only 1 man..

are their plenty of women that will do just anything with YOU

do you want those type of women?

do those type of women look like the type of women who are about some shyt and only want the best of the litter?

like say i just want to fukk... and i meet a dime and she wants to be together first.... now am i supposed to turn her down when the past 3 years all i've got was 6's?? am i gonna risk losing out on this dime to try and convince her to just fukk me?? probably not

i'm gonna say, ok sounds good to me... and go along with whatever


or at least... young me would... old me is like fukk all that... i need to save my time and money.. can't be chasing 5-6 bytches at a time...

but i still understand the theory.. usually the best demand the best

 

[Raava]

cause that's not true

yes there are plenty of women who will do anything with anyone...

but as a man... you're only 1 man..

are their plenty of women that will do just anything with YOU

do you want those type of women?

do those type of women look like the type of women who are about some shyt and only want the best of the litter?

like say i just want to fukk... and i meet a dime and she wants to be together first.... now am i supposed to turn her down when the past 3 years all i've got was 6's?? am i gonna risk losing out on this dime to try and convince her to just fukk me?? probably not

i'm gonna say, ok sounds good to me... and go along with whatever


or at least... young me would... old me is like fukk all that... i need to save my time and money.. can't be chasing 5-6 bytches at a time...

but i still understand the theory.. usually the best demand the best

Please refer to the part of my post where I referred to people as selfish and men lying because the don't want to not get what they want. If you have to lie, you aren't the best. She was the best demanding the best and just got a liar I also don't see how you what you typed made what I typed untrue. If anything you proved it. Another person doesn't matter as long as you get yours.

 

[GiGi]

Yeah, you don't know what you're talking about.

(hits the ignore button)

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Please refer to the part of my post where I referred to people as selfish and men lying because the don't want to not get what they want. If you have to lie, you aren't the best. She was the best demanding the best and just got a liar I also don't see how you what you typed made what I typed untrue. If anything you proved it. Another person doesn't matter as long as you get yours.

i was referring ONLY to the part about you saying "there's plenty of girls out there...."

and yes maybe i spoke incorrectly

you are exactly right... there are plenty of other women out there...

what i'm trying to say is, men don't really want them in the first place... we do enjoy the chase.. we do enjoy getting something out of our league.. to say to a woman, yea i'm just trying to smash and have fun... and for her to say yea me too... i mean ain't too many dimes out here saying that... so while there's plenty of women.. there's not plenty of quality women who will accept that shyt

my fault for the confusion...

and yes... when we trying to smash something great, their feelings don't matter... i mean they do or we wouldn't take the time to lie to them.. we'd smash.. say "got ya" and bounce... or just be fukking reckless... instead we crafting lies to the high heavens, praying you never find out, just so we can keep you around and NOT get you mad, upset, hurt and angry enough to leave us

 

[lurkandmurk]

"how do you have sex with a woman you can't have an intellectual conversation with, a woman who you can't lay with postcoitus and talk about something meaningful or fulfulling with?"

Meaningful conversations post sex?


Have I been fukking wrong?

I never actually thought about this

Spoiler

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

black women stick to black men even though it has been proven that black men lust for other races of women more than any other race of men. Now you are saying black women dont respect black men like they do white men? GTFOH most black women arent even checking for white men like that.

stop trolling me.

Lust for. But not all necessarily want to settle down and have kids with these other races.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

i was referring ONLY to the part about you saying "there's plenty of girls out there...."

and yes maybe i spoke incorrectly

you are exactly right... there are plenty of other women out there...

what i'm trying to say is, men don't really want them in the first place... we do enjoy the chase.. we do enjoy getting something out of our league.. to say to a woman, yea i'm just trying to smash and have fun... and for her to say yea me too... i mean ain't too many dimes out here saying that... so while there's plenty of women.. there's not plenty of quality women who will accept that shyt

my fault for the confusion...

and yes... when we trying to smash something great, their feelings don't matter... i mean they do or we wouldn't take the time to lie to them.. we'd smash.. say "got ya" and bounce... or just be fukking reckless... instead we crafting lies to the high heavens, praying you never find out, just so we can keep you around and NOT get you mad, upset, hurt and angry enough to leave us

I don't enjoy the chase, it led me to get blackout drunk and nikkas to try and jump me and try and rob me cause I was an easy drunken target i've been on a 6 year dry spell, I've even been to college and not gotten p*ssy. You want one easy one to get you back into the flow of things.

 

[Broad Street Bully]

Because women feel like it's dehumanizing, women don't wanna hear you say you just want them for their body. They want you to hear you say you care about their interests & opinions on things.They love the lie & we love the cooch. That's just the game.

There you go. Simple as this brehs.