i was referring ONLY to the part about you saying "there's plenty of girls out there...."
and yes maybe i spoke incorrectly
you are exactly right... there are plenty of other women out there...
what i'm trying to say is, men don't really want them in the first place... we do enjoy the chase.. we do enjoy getting something out of our league.. to say to a woman, yea i'm just trying to smash and have fun... and for her to say yea me too... i mean ain't too many dimes out here saying that... so while there's plenty of women.. there's not plenty of quality women who will accept that shyt
my fault for the confusion...
and yes... when we trying to smash something great, their feelings don't matter... i mean they do or we wouldn't take the time to lie to them.. we'd smash.. say "got ya" and bounce... or just be fukking reckless... instead we crafting lies to the high heavens, praying you never find out, just so we can keep you around and NOT get you mad, upset, hurt and angry enough to leave us
Oh ok I see, I thought so at first but I wasn't sure that was just what you were responding to. I think I responded to the men not wanting that type of woman.
I disagree. Most of the type of men that would lie like that think they have plenty of options. Men don't want a hoe, they just want women to act like hoes. They will a "hoe" or a woman open about her sexuality. Then lie to a woman who doesn't want to be one, treat her like one. Then call her stupid and a hoe if they succeed.
My whole thing is the lack of care for the other person. It is really just having zero respect, because I know a man who has any dignity doesn't want to be lied to and strung along. Every man I have run across sees lying to them is disrespect. Stringing a woman a long means you care nothing about them as a person and that is f'd up.