MEN, how do you do it? [relationships]

[MikelArteta]

The argument I hear often is that men disassociate sex from emotional attachment but im not sure I believe that or else they would be ok with their significant others sleeping with dudes on the side.

I think guys have sex as openly because society is more accepting of it than they are of women.

dont believe it?
every day women are going home crying that they were played because a guy didnt return their call after he got their nut.

Every woman i've ever slept with developed feelings, even if i felt nothing for them

 

[#1 pick]

Because women feel like it's dehumanizing, women don't wanna hear you say you just want them for their body. They want you to hear you say you care about their interests & opinions on things.They love the lie & we love the cooch. That's just the game.

They actually do want you to ask them for it and be upfront but if you don't know how to get p*ssy, lying is the only other option.

 

[BocaRear]

They actually do want you to ask them for it and be upfront but if you don't know how to get p*ssy, lying is the only other option.

So you just go up to broads & tell em gimmie that p*ssy? , that has a lower success rate than easing em into it with lies & BS

 

[Malted Milk]

Thank the lawd for #teamrainbow. Judging by the BS purported on this thread, I don't know how y'all deal with females. OMG

 

[Yup]

dont believe it?
every day women are going home crying that they were played because a guy didnt return their call after he got their nut.

Every woman i've ever slept with developed feelings, even if i felt nothing for them

Have you ever had a girl that you were more into than she was into you? And do you lie to gt sex or are you up front? Just wondering.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

this is mostly aimed at men..

I respect and appreciate every female poster who contributes here at thecoli, please call me on my bullshyt if you spot it.

[I don't proclaim to sit on some moral high horse, nor do I intend to come off as pointing fingers, I'm just as fukked up as some of the worst of those of you reading this.]


..how do you do it?

..how do you have sex with a woman you can't have an intellectual conversation with, a woman who you can't lay with postcoitus and talk about something meaningful or fulfulling with?

how do you psychologically abuse a woman to the point she's willing to do anything in the world for you because she's afraid of losing you?

have you ever sat up late at night and imagined that the fukked up shyt you just told her, just might have really hurt her feelings?

do you get a funny feeling in your tummy when you're doing something that you wouldn't want her to find out about?

Those who "know" me, know that I'm pretty open about my emotions and don't mind discussing them openly, all I ask from you is that you be honest, I care.

i subscribe to this: i treat people how i would wanna be treated...i firmly believe that the energy you put out into the world comes back to you

 

[Yup]

wtf are you talking about? The guy their woman is messing with might not give a fukk about her but she's more than likely gonna like the dude

That's true for some but that's not true for all...more young women are getting detached from sexual activity and see just as an adult recreation. These are the same women thay yall complaing of not being faithful isnt what chros brown's song all about.

I would say that was true for most women like 10 years ago but now it becomes less true. Don't you all say that women enjoy sex just as much as men but cannoy openly admit out of fear of being labelled a whore.

Well then I see that changing and guys being salty because y'all want your cake and eat it too. Truthfully, I think men like the fact that some girls get attached...its an ego boost that they like to complain about later.

 

[Yuzo]

I think what have saved men throughout history is that society has pressured women to believe that they are not meant to enjoy sex...it is a man's activity. Therefore, guys play up the double standards because it is advantageous to them.

But society constantly changes what happens now when women become more open sexually and no longer ashamed to have multiple partners and also no longer care about getting a ring and having kids. What would happen then? Cause these women do exist amd increasingly so...

men completely would stop getting married for one thing

 

[Grifter]

"how do you have sex with a woman you can't have an intellectual conversation with, a woman who you can't lay with postcoitus and talk about something meaningful or fulfulling with?"

Meaningful conversations post sex?


Have I been fukking wrong?

 

[Dwolf]

this is mostly aimed at men..

I respect and appreciate every female poster who contributes here at thecoli, please call me on my bullshyt if you spot it.

[I don't proclaim to sit on some moral high horse, nor do I intend to come off as pointing fingers, I'm just as fukked up as some of the worst of those of you reading this.]


..how do you do it?

..how do you have sex with a woman you can't have an intellectual conversation with, a woman who you can't lay with postcoitus and talk about something meaningful or fulfulling with?

how do you psychologically abuse a woman to the point she's willing to do anything in the world for you because she's afraid of losing you?

have you ever sat up late at night and imagined that the fukked up shyt you just told her, just might have really hurt her feelings?

do you get a funny feeling in your tummy when you're doing something that you wouldn't want her to find out about?

Those who "know" me, know that I'm pretty open about my emotions and don't mind discussing them openly, all I ask from you is that you be honest, I care.

Simp.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

If I'm attracted to a girl and we can have engaging intellectual discourse, I'm usually gonna want something more than sex.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I find that most men don't give a shyt about a womans feelings unless they deeply care about them, or love them and even then they still don't care sometimes. I can't speak on what women do cause I don't have romantic involvement with them.

A man will tell you anything to have sex with you.

The same could be said about women.That's a character flaw many people possess.It's not gender specific.

People just have a gutter mentality.The whole aim & purpose of relationships is fukked up nowadays.

"My main squeeze" ..."My side boo"...."My jump off"...People are selfish and only care about what makes them happy.That's the main culprit.."Happiness"...people base their relationships off self gratification & an entitlement to "happiness".They expect their mate to make them feel the "happiness"

With men, it's sex...With women, it's the whole gold digging aspect.That's the funny thing about a lot of women.They lament "love", but most of the time, they select a mate based on superficial shyt.

He had money.....he was the most popular....he had swag...he had a nice car....good hair/we'd have some pretty babies...etc

It's plenty of women out here getting involved with men who they really care nothing about.They only care about who he is on the surface or how other people react to him.That's called being superficial.Pursuing men based on superficial qualities is a vain conquest.In turn, that leads to men treating them like a ho.Women pursuing you based on your material attachments, that's the male version of being objectified.Both genders objectify each other in some way..They cancel each other out IMO


The big secret is that a lot of women don't really want the nikkaz who have their shyt together.He's a threat to her independence.They might not be ready to submit to his leadership.They'll say he's too "controlling" or some shyt.


They'd rather take their chances on finding that diamond in the rough, so they go out and find a somewhat broken man, and try'n "dust him off".That way, they can keep their independence intact, and still have control of the situation.

And even in that situation, she might not care anything about the dude.He's just an accessory at that point.All for dress up.She can say "I got a man", avoid loneliness, and still maintain symbiotic control.

Some men who get stuck in that position start to feel powerless.What do men do when they feel powerless? They go out and try'n conquer other women.


Strictly speaking from the male perspective

 

[KinksandCoils]

The same could be said about women.That's a character flaw many people possess.It's not gender specific.

People just have a gutter mentality.The whole aim & purpose of relationships is fukked up nowadays.

"My main squeeze" ..."My side boo"...."My jump off"...People are selfish and only care about what makes them happy.That's the main culprit.."Happiness"...people base their relationships off self gratification & an entitlement to "happiness".They expect their mate to make them feel the "happiness"

With men, it's sex...With women, it's the whole gold digging aspect.That's the funny thing about a lot of women.They lament "love", but most of the time, they select a mate based on superficial shyt.

He had money.....he was the most popular....he had swag...he had a nice car....good hair/we'd have some pretty babies...etc

It's plenty of women out here getting involved with men who they really care nothing about.They only care about who he is on the surface or how other people react to him.That's called being superficial.Pursuing men based on superficial qualities is a vain conquest.In turn, that leads to men treating them like a ho.Women pursuing you based on your material attachments, that's the male version of being objectified.Both genders objectify each other in some way..They cancel each other out IMO


The big secret is that a lot of women don't really want the nikkaz who have their shyt together.He's a threat to her independence.They might not be ready to submit to his leadership.They'll say he's too "controlling" or some shyt.


They'd rather take their chances on finding that diamond in the rough, so they go out and find a somewhat broken man, and try'n "dust him off".That way, they can keep their independence intact, and still have control of the situation.

And even in that situation, she might not care anything about the dude.He's just an accessory at that point.All for dress up.She can say "I got a man", avoid loneliness, and still maintain symbiotic control.

Some men who get stuck in that position start to feel powerless.What do men do when they feel powerless? They go out and try'n conquer other women.


Strictly speaking from the male perspective

U dudes get in contact wit a few ratchet women and then think u know everything about all women.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

U dudes get in contact wit a few ratchet women and then think u know everything about all women.

When did I say all women?

 

[KinksandCoils]

When did I say all women?

U said a lot of women, which is completely untrue. One min y'all talking about women being gold diggers and wanting guys with fancy cars the next min you guys talking bout how women want men that ain't established or don't got shyt. Which is it? Y'all are getting real annoying with your stereotypes.