Street Messiah
Banned
if we want to be real, men are scared to vulnerable, so terrified of being hurt and embarrassed so we just say we're gonna do us and be selfish hell.
Men, are we really this unfair to our women?
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Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
With all due respect, you're missing the part where the women choose these men.Yes. But if any man admits to it, he’s accused of pandering or simping.
For a lot of women, marriage to the average man just isn’t a good look.
They don’t want to be reduced to an over glorified maid. They don’t want to take care of children by themselves while being in a whole relationship. They don’t want to cook and clean for a man who thinks she’s inferior or worthless. And they don’t want to throw away their dreams to defer to someone who doesn’t respect them. And the icing on the cake is doing all of this and not even being able to expect any sexual pleasure from the deal. Fukking the same dikk for the rest of your life, whether you want to or not. And then possibly dealing with cheating on top of that, while you work to contribute just as much financially as the husband does.
But it doesn’t stop there. Some men get married and completely alienate their wives. Like literally don’t want to spend time with them. So the wives are away from their support systems or too busy catering to their families to interact with them anymore. But the men they left those support systems for doesn’t want to spend time with them outside of sex. No intimacy. Being made to feel like you are a burden or bothersome if you want to experience something new with them.
To some men, even as they bytch and whine about wanting submissive wives, they don’t want the humans attached to these roles. In their minds, women stop being human beings once they transition to the title of “wife”. So a lot of men view their wives through a lens of utility and necessity, instead of enjoyment and companionship or friendship. So many men attach negative connotations to their wives (I.e. nagging, ole ball and chain). They view the same women they pursued as burdens and nuisances once they get them.
So now, those women only get the worse parts from the men who view them as less than. They get sweaty bodies, farts, demands, hunger, something to clean up after and cook for, somebody they gotta screw whether they enjoy it or not, somebody splitting bills. And they sometimes watch these same men give their best to their boys or even to get attention from different women. MeanWhile she still primarily at home, letting her mental and physical health deteriorate, letting her identity become swallowed by the title of wive and mother.
That’s the real reason 70% of women initiate divorces. And it’s also the reason why generations of women are ignoring decades of social conditioning telling them to get married at all cost and saying “hell nah”. These chicks looking at marriage now a days like it’s a trap. A lotta dudes treat mistresses better than their wives and women see this shyt. Unless you got a good, smart and emphatic dude or at least somebody with some sense…you ass out. And none of this matters if you are getting with a CEO or a thug or a nerd or just a regular guy. These types of Men from all walks of life still hold these attitudes towards women, and it can make a woman’s life hell if she allows herself to fall for it.
But a lot of women are waking up. They demanding more from their relationships and letting people know they don’t care about threats of loneliness in their old age. Because being by yourself can be an upgrade in comparison to being with some of these jokers. To all the married men with sense and emotional intelligence holding it down, I salute you. We need more of you in these streets. To the women, vet carefully and be happy no matter what it takes. Life is too short to do anything less than that.
Miserable fukk responses:
“TLDR”
“Feminist bytch!”
“B-but what about women?!”
“You just hate men!”
“Grrrrrr!”
Entire generations of men have been raised by mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and female teachers during their formative years. They're taught what they learned about women from women. They're told to be selfless, active listeners, and they're taught to believe in "happy life happy wife" when they get married. They're taught to put the woman they're interested in first and treat her like a queen. These men open doors, pull chairs, pay for dinners, send good morning texts etc. These men get cheated on, dumped with flimsy or even no reasoning, literally told they're too nice and that's why she can't stay with him, divorced out of the blue, or left on read and never even get a 'yes' to a date.
Those men get roasted by men AND women online and characterized as weak, pathetic simps. These men grow up watching all the shyt their mothers and teachers told them getting them absolutely no where whilst callous and uncaring men drown in p*ssy. These experiences turn these men towards the direction of the Red pill and manosphere and they figure 'it must be BECAUSE that guy was an a$$hole that women liked him. I need to emulate his behavior'.
Women often ask "where did the good men all go?" And men say "nowhere. Y'all just don't want them".
I don't disagree with your points, but I don't want to deny women's sense of agency here. They make bad choices in men and somehow its men's fault. There's always a simp waiting, they always have that as a back up. Us men jump without a safety net. Unless you're a platinum, executive member of handsome gang, you'll likely never encounter a female simp.
Look far enough and you'll see behind every cold man is a person who made him feel ashamed for being vulnerable. Whether it's a parent that whooped his ass even harder when he cried, or a group of boys bullying him for being soft or a woman making him ever regret saying something personal by throwing that at him in a fight. A lot of women THINK they want their man to be vulnerable and then when he is, she has no idea what to do with what he just shared with her at best and at worst will actually be disgusted at his weakness.
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Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
99.9% is very specific to use. A majority can be just a bit above 50% if there are two-sides. Even so, I still disagree. I've worked with plenty of different brothers and men of other races in my life. What you stated is not what I have experienced at all.
Also, no where in my statement that you quoted did I state or even imply many men are waiting around for superwomen to save them. I pointed out that men can fall into the same traps, and have the same expectations when it comes to happiness and whom should be supplying it. I then gave examples to support my position. That was what my statement was about in response to your post. We both can have unreasonable expectations on the other, since we are both human.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
The FOH
SuaveyBoi115
All Star
Bingo!
Bop Gun
Turn Me Loose, We Shall Overcome
Too many men and women today have no idea what they realistically want in a mate. Social Media has really distorted what relationships are truly about.
The men and women struggling to find decent mates need to look deep inside themselves for the answers. Blaming each other does absolutely nothing to solve the issues.
Very simple, if a man refuses to handle his responsibilities which help to invite decent women into your life, he deserves to be alone or with uncooperative females. If a woman has unrealistic/absurd expectations for the men she meets, her future is most certainly that of a human condom and fur mommy.
The men and women struggling to find decent mates need to look deep inside themselves for the answers. Blaming each other does absolutely nothing to solve the issues.
Very simple, if a man refuses to handle his responsibilities which help to invite decent women into your life, he deserves to be alone or with uncooperative females. If a woman has unrealistic/absurd expectations for the men she meets, her future is most certainly that of a human condom and fur mommy.
If dude can come up with a couple more bits like this he needs to do comedy. This would be a great closing joke.
UncleTomFord15
Veteran
The overwhelming majority of "problems" that happen during dating or marriage; is the women's fault.
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different experience=different perspective*
KingTut
Green diamonds like a dill pickle
So men need to specialize in being emotionally intelligent, making enough money to pay all of the bills + then some, lead “compassionately”, and twenty other possible standards 24/7… while women just need to hand out sex and cook/clean a few hours a day.
Sounds like a terrible existence. Sign me up.
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Cel 510 kid ados forever
Veteran
Yes. But if any man admits to it, he’s accused of pandering or simping.
For a lot of women, marriage to the average man just isn’t a good look.
They don’t want to be reduced to an over glorified maid. They don’t want to take care of children by themselves while being in a whole relationship. They don’t want to cook and clean for a man who thinks she’s inferior or worthless. And they don’t want to throw away their dreams to defer to someone who doesn’t respect them. And the icing on the cake is doing all of this and not even being able to expect any sexual pleasure from the deal. Fukking the same dikk for the rest of your life, whether you want to or not. And then possibly dealing with cheating on top of that, while you work to contribute just as much financially as the husband does.
But it doesn’t stop there. Some men get married and completely alienate their wives. Like literally don’t want to spend time with them. So the wives are away from their support systems or too busy catering to their families to interact with them anymore. But the men they left those support systems for doesn’t want to spend time with them outside of sex. No intimacy. Being made to feel like you are a burden or bothersome if you want to experience something new with them.
To some men, even as they bytch and whine about wanting submissive wives, they don’t want the humans attached to these roles. In their minds, women stop being human beings once they transition to the title of “wife”. So a lot of men view their wives through a lens of utility and necessity, instead of enjoyment and companionship or friendship. So many men attach negative connotations to their wives (I.e. nagging, ole ball and chain). They view the same women they pursued as burdens and nuisances once they get them.
So now, those women only get the worse parts from the men who view them as less than. They get sweaty bodies, farts, demands, hunger, something to clean up after and cook for, somebody they gotta screw whether they enjoy it or not, somebody splitting bills. And they sometimes watch these same men give their best to their boys or even to get attention from different women. MeanWhile she still primarily at home, letting her mental and physical health deteriorate, letting her identity become swallowed by the title of wive and mother.
That’s the real reason 70% of women initiate divorces. And it’s also the reason why generations of women are ignoring decades of social conditioning telling them to get married at all cost and saying “hell nah”. These chicks looking at marriage now a days like it’s a trap. A lotta dudes treat mistresses better than their wives and women see this shyt. Unless you got a good, smart and emphatic dude or at least somebody with some sense…you ass out. And none of this matters if you are getting with a CEO or a thug or a nerd or just a regular guy. These types of Men from all walks of life still hold these attitudes towards women, and it can make a woman’s life hell if she allows herself to fall for it.
But a lot of women are waking up. They demanding more from their relationships and letting people know they don’t care about threats of loneliness in their old age. Because being by yourself can be an upgrade in comparison to being with some of these jokers. To all the married men with sense and emotional intelligence holding it down, I salute you. We need more of you in these streets. To the women, vet carefully and be happy no matter what it takes. Life is too short to do anything less than that.
Miserable fukk responses:
“TLDR”
“Feminist bytch!”
“B-but what about women?!”
“You just hate men!”
“Grrrrrr!”
The women who get mistreated in relationships mainly date dusty street dudes
They front like it's ceo and nerds but most women complaining have never dated that kind of dude
Also alot of women don't clean and cook anymore
Alot of couples both the man and woman work
Not to many women are house wives in 2022
So that ain't women issue
Especially modern women
These chicks aren't traditional but want they husband to be traditional
And it doesn't work that way
U want equal treatment
But don't put no effort on ur side of the bargain.
That why alot of men don't want to be married it's no gain,
u putting more effort in something that not beneficial financially or emotionally to u.
See as a man I see it from a diff angle than u books
Women want u to
Work all day
Pay all the bills
Fix everything in the house
Take the kids to school
Pick em up
Make sure they homework done
be there emotionally for them
and than please her sexually all in a 24 hr span
while she work maybe
cook and clean maybe
Help the kids with homework maybe
See books I love u
But ur a old head
Ur talking about women from 1970-2010
Not modern chicks who arent with the traditional marriage format
Game diff today