Yes. But if any man admits to it, he’s accused of pandering or simping.
For a lot of women, marriage to the average man just isn’t a good look.
They don’t want to be reduced to an over glorified maid. They don’t want to take care of children by themselves while being in a whole relationship. They don’t want to cook and clean for a man who thinks she’s inferior or worthless. And they don’t want to throw away their dreams to defer to someone who doesn’t respect them. And the icing on the cake is doing all of this and not even being able to expect any sexual pleasure from the deal. Fukking the same dikk for the rest of your life, whether you want to or not. And then possibly dealing with cheating on top of that, while you work to contribute just as much financially as the husband does.
But it doesn’t stop there. Some men get married and completely alienate their wives. Like literally don’t want to spend time with them. So the wives are away from their support systems or too busy catering to their families to interact with them anymore. But the men they left those support systems for doesn’t want to spend time with them outside of sex. No intimacy. Being made to feel like you are a burden or bothersome if you want to experience something new with them.
To some men, even as they bytch and whine about wanting submissive wives, they don’t want the humans attached to these roles. In their minds, women stop being human beings once they transition to the title of “wife”. So a lot of men view their wives through a lens of utility and necessity, instead of enjoyment and companionship or friendship. So many men attach negative connotations to their wives (I.e. nagging, ole ball and chain). They view the same women they pursued as burdens and nuisances once they get them.
So now, those women only get the worse parts from the men who view them as less than. They get sweaty bodies, farts, demands, hunger, something to clean up after and cook for, somebody they gotta screw whether they enjoy it or not, somebody splitting bills. And they sometimes watch these same men give their best to their boys or even to get attention from different women. MeanWhile she still primarily at home, letting her mental and physical health deteriorate, letting her identity become swallowed by the title of wive and mother.
That’s the real reason 70% of women initiate divorces. And it’s also the reason why generations of women are ignoring decades of social conditioning telling them to get married at all cost and saying “hell nah”. These chicks looking at marriage now a days like it’s a trap. A lotta dudes treat mistresses better than their wives and women see this shyt. Unless you got a good, smart and emphatic dude or at least somebody with some sense…you ass out. And none of this matters if you are getting with a CEO or a thug or a nerd or just a regular guy. These types of Men from all walks of life still hold these attitudes towards women, and it can make a woman’s life hell if she allows herself to fall for it.
But a lot of women are waking up. They demanding more from their relationships and letting people know they don’t care about threats of loneliness in their old age. Because being by yourself can be an upgrade in comparison to being with some of these jokers. To all the married men with sense and emotional intelligence holding it down, I salute you. We need more of you in these streets. To the women, vet carefully and be happy no matter what it takes. Life is too short to do anything less than that.
Miserable fukk responses:
“TLDR”
“Feminist bytch!”
“B-but what about women?!”
“You just hate men!”
“Grrrrrr!”