Men, are we really this unfair to our women?

[SunnyD]

On the web y’all are unfair as hell. Terrible. Black men bad. In real life some of y’all are dope as shyt. .. couldn’t/wouldn’t want to live without you.

 

[HARLEM AL]

He's hustling, Get your money homie........

 

[Uachet]

She listed all the faults in that post.

Genesis 3:16
To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.”

women suffer under this curse. It’s why many prefer Fboys when given freedom. Fboys give them plausible deniability and a way out of accountability, as Eve wasn’t accountable, blaming the serpent.

That’s the reason most women can’t stand a good man in the West. It shines a light on their deficiencies as a woman. Many are under a Jezebel spirit.

That is a biblical perspective, and it is fine if you see her statements as supporting that perspective. I want to actually read her perspective as a woman and what she thinks are the faults of women during these modern times.

 

[TEH]

Yes. But if any man admits to it, he’s accused of pandering or simping.

For a lot of women, marriage to the average man just isn’t a good look.

They don’t want to be reduced to an over glorified maid. They don’t want to take care of children by themselves while being in a whole relationship. They don’t want to cook and clean for a man who thinks she’s inferior or worthless. And they don’t want to throw away their dreams to defer to someone who doesn’t respect them. And the icing on the cake is doing all of this and not even being able to expect any sexual pleasure from the deal. Fukking the same dikk for the rest of your life, whether you want to or not. And then possibly dealing with cheating on top of that, while you work to contribute just as much financially as the husband does.

But it doesn’t stop there. Some men get married and completely alienate their wives. Like literally don’t want to spend time with them. So the wives are away from their support systems or too busy catering to their families to interact with them anymore. But the men they left those support systems for doesn’t want to spend time with them outside of sex. No intimacy. Being made to feel like you are a burden or bothersome if you want to experience something new with them.

To some men, even as they bytch and whine about wanting submissive wives, they don’t want the humans attached to these roles. In their minds, women stop being human beings once they transition to the title of “wife”. So a lot of men view their wives through a lens of utility and necessity, instead of enjoyment and companionship or friendship. So many men attach negative connotations to their wives (I.e. nagging, ole ball and chain). They view the same women they pursued as burdens and nuisances once they get them.

So now, those women only get the worse parts from the men who view them as less than. They get sweaty bodies, farts, demands, hunger, something to clean up after and cook for, somebody they gotta screw whether they enjoy it or not, somebody splitting bills. And they sometimes watch these same men give their best to their boys or even to get attention from different women. MeanWhile she still primarily at home, letting her mental and physical health deteriorate, letting her identity become swallowed by the title of wive and mother.

That’s the real reason 70% of women initiate divorces. And it’s also the reason why generations of women are ignoring decades of social conditioning telling them to get married at all cost and saying “hell nah”. These chicks looking at marriage now a days like it’s a trap. A lotta dudes treat mistresses better than their wives and women see this shyt. Unless you got a good, smart and emphatic dude or at least somebody with some sense…you ass out. And none of this matters if you are getting with a CEO or a thug or a nerd or just a regular guy. These types of Men from all walks of life still hold these attitudes towards women, and it can make a woman’s life hell if she allows herself to fall for it.

But a lot of women are waking up. They demanding more from their relationships and letting people know they don’t care about threats of loneliness in their old age. Because being by yourself can be an upgrade in comparison to being with some of these jokers. To all the married men with sense and emotional intelligence holding it down, I salute you. We need more of you in these streets. To the women, vet carefully and be happy no matter what it takes. Life is too short to do anything less than that.

Miserable fukk responses:
“TLDR”
“Feminist bytch!”
“B-but what about women?!”
“You just hate men!”
“Grrrrrr!”

So it’s really worse than what they’re saying. The older I get the more that I see the way some men are isn’t ok. The least we can do is treat women how we want to be treated. But I’ll tell you no lie … the call to that “fukk bytches get money” lifestyle is strong … even married men are caught up in it …

 

[Uachet]

He's hustling, Get your money homie........

He wrote a book with his Wife I think, so he has to get it exposed to the public somehow.

women need to remember their happiness is their own responsibility

figure out what's best for you & do that

men need to know if you get it in your head it's your job to make a woman happy you gonna be lost forever

both need to be happy with the true facts of life

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What you have written can work for both genders, because women can make the same mistake in thinking she must make her man happy and men can make the mistake thinking it is her job to do that.

 

[HARLEM AL]

He wrote a book with his Wife I think, so he has to get it exposed to the public somehow.

What you have written can work for both genders, because women can make the same mistake in thinking she must make her man happy and men can make the mistake thinking it is her job to do that.

Whatever is, I need him to get his paper. None of this shyt he saying is true and if he's getting paid from it. Im happy.......

 

[Commish]

OP..

Just going off your notes ..

Nah..

I can't take responsibility for something I didn't do. Therefore, I don't believe everything is on men. Of course men have responsibility on the things they have done towards women, but it can't be one sided!

The dynamics of relationships has changed a lot since I started dealing with women. So, as far as I am concerned, the only thing I am responsible for is whatever I did to contribute to whatever failures I experienced as a willing participant in a relationship. I will NOT assume full responsibility for EVERYTHING that happened because I didn't do everything by myself.

Not sure what dude was on with his points, but he is entitled to his opinion. I just know that he isn't speaking the whole truth. At best, a half truth and half conjecture.

 

[010101]

What you have written can work for both genders, because women can make the same mistake in thinking she must make her man happy and men can make the mistake thinking it is her job to do that.

fair

but from birth we are told you are on your own

men generally just looking for a woman to hop in the whip & ride in peace

be pretty be peaceful that's enough for 99.9% of dudes

it's a extreme minority of men who act like women & expect women to carry them

99.9% of men are fighting their war dolo mentally physically emotionally financially

& they are not expecting a woman to save them in any fashion

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[010101]

i tell her like this

girl i ain't do nothing to you

it's your fukked up unrealistic understanding of men that got you hurting

you believe the lies that men are lapdogs

granted most are for real

but you really want a wolf that acts like a lapdog

those don't exist

so you got me a wolf who acts like a wolf & is gonna let you know exactly that

choices are you make peace with reality or you love unhappily ever after at what is not never was & never will be real



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[ThatTruth777]

idgaf anymore

 

[010101]

i tell the bros like this

nikka your dumb ass is gonna suffer as long as you keep being dishonest

tryna give her the illusion of a fairytale when you know your dumbass ain't tryna act right

fake domesticated goofy

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[↓R↑LYB]

All that red pill/mgtow stuff is just a pipeline for men to start sucking dikk or worse.

Do I wanna know what the worse is

 

[Uachet]

fair

but from birth we are told you are on your own

men generally just looking for a woman to hop in the whip & ride in peace

be pretty be peaceful that's enough for 99.9% of dudes

it's a extreme minority of men who act like women & expect women to carry them

99.9% of men are fighting their war dolo mentally physically emotionally financially

& they are not expecting a woman to save them in any fashion

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Agree to disagree. I've seen and know too many brothers who expect more from the women they are with than just beauty and silence. From the ones using women for housing and food, because they do not have their own. To men expecting women to be their fantasy, and getting upset when they find out that she is unwilling to be that. Also men stating they would leave their wife if she is no longer fun for him.

I've been on this Earth for 52 years, and I know for a fact that men are not monolithic at all. There is no 99.9% of anything when it comes to any of us. We may be socialized a certain way based on the culture we are in, but that socialization is not all encompassing even within the same culture. So, I will just have to disagree with your premise on this point. I've seen too much in life and interacted with too many people to accept it.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Do I wanna know what the worse is

pedal + feel ya

 

[010101]

Agree to disagree. I've seen and know too many brothers who expect more from the women they are with than just beauty and silence. From the ones using women for housing and food, because they do not have their own. To men expecting women to be their fantasy, and getting upset when they find out that she is unwilling to be that. Also men stating they would leave their wife if she is no longer fun for him.

I've been on this Earth for 52 years, and I know for a fact that men are not monolithic at all. There is no 99.9% of anything when it comes to any of us. We may be socialized a certain way based on the culture we are in, but that socialization is not all encompassing even within the same culture. So, I will just have to disagree with your premise on this point. I've seen too much in life and interacted with too many people to accept it.

when i say 99.9% i am just saying the majority

not always meant literally

where you from that you know so many men waiting around for superwoman to save them¿ ha

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