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Men, are we really this unfair to our women?
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I agree with the idea that some sisters love the role of being a victim and traumatized. Heck, trauma porn is a thing for a reason. I am a bit concerned that in showing the faults of women, you still reverted back to using men as a foil. Meaning their faults are essentially not saying no or disagreeing with male wishes. That can be a fault for sure, but I do believe there are other faults a lot of ladies can have that do not require men to be the locus of its creation even if men are a peripheral component to them.To be fair, even tho I’m HOB (hard on bros), I’m just as frustrated at women for a lot of the shyt they do.
In the past, I’ve often said that men are having problems adjusting to the age of equality b/c of rigid adherence to outdated, archaic gender norms.
But imagine the idea that women are stuck in the same silly ass boat.
I’ll never gloss over the fact that many men are unfair to women. But, damn…a LOT of women…are in LOVE with being victims.
So consider some of the common issues I mentioned in my former post like women feeling an alienation of affection from their partners. Sure the men doing that aren’t cool for that shyt. But a lot of women are too scared or in love with the “silent sufferer” role to even address it or communicate about it. Why? If you in a relationship where you scared to bring shyt up, why you with that person?
Holding stuff in until you snap and become disrespectful isn’t cool. Thinking it’s your role to “endure” shyt isn’t the way.
If the sex is wack, talk it out. Women constantly green light a lot of wack shyt men do to stroke egos or because they are afraid of what men will call them or say about them.(I’m not talking about those dealing with the real threat of violence.) I’m talking about chicks still being hurt and bothered by labels to the extent they don’t confront nonsense or allow societal rules to control or shape their destinies. I’m sorry but if you were cumming all your life and made to this one dude who got wack dikk, why the hell would you just let that go?! Hell nah.
“B-but he’ll think I’m a hoe or argumentative…” SO?!
Somewhere, right now, there is a woman living a life she really didn’t want to live, but hating men and the world b/c she obeyed out of fear of being called a bad name. That shyt is crazy to me. How you gon let a word strip you of your existential agency?!
I can hold men accountable without hate or bitterness, partly b/c I never allowed men (or women) to sway me in what I wanted for myself.
Men say “get married young”.
I say “NOPE!” If I’d followed that silly ass advice I wouldn’t have had nearly as much fun, nor traveled as much or made the money to do what I wanted if I was saddled with kids too early growing up. My ass was riding tigers and elephants in foreign lands in my 20s. The thought of being married they young makes me dry gag.
Men say “you need to fukk and screw on the first date or he gon ghost?”
I say “NOPE!” I fukk when I want to. I do what’s best for me. That’s it. Ain’t shyt else to talk about.
Men say “Only fukk one man for the rest of your life, or you a hoe!”
I say “NOPE!” Once again, I do what I want with my body. It ain’t your business.
Men say….about 80 dozen other silly ass things to try to control women. But in 2022, in an age where females arguably have more power than ever seen in 3000+ years of civilization, you mean to tell me, these chicks STILL afraid to live life on their own terms?!
Nah. I can honestly say that I don’t mind accountability for myself because I’ve always lived my life on my own terms. So if I fukk up, I’m cool because at least I did it my way. And so far, the decisions I’ve made have afforded me a beautiful life.
I won’t even get into the “she still sukkin dikk for rent” conversations about women, b/c I got a list of hustles that don’t require that if u aren’t oriented towards that lifestyle, but chicks still outchea playing victim. There’s a lot more we could get into psychologically, but the love affair a lot of women have with victim mentality in an era of opportunity is. Don’t get me started about these heifers walking around without being armed and protecting themselves.
Victim. Mentality.
Examples,
1. Many women have a disconcerting problem of throwing what a man tells them about his feelings back in our face later on in an argument. This can lead to men shutting down, because the men fear that anything he says to her can be used against him later in the court of their relationship. This can cause the woman to think we lack emotional language skills, but really it is just that we don't want what we said in a time of weakness to be used later as a means to win an argument or to hurt us by the woman we are in a relationship with.
2. Many women do like excitement and want to chase after the most socially exciting and attractive guys in the area, which is fine in and of itself. Where the problem comes in is that the consequences of that chasing leads to her being used by those very guys whom she knew were not good men, but they were fun men. Too many woman will not accept their part in those consequences nor responsibility for their own actions that lead them to where they presently are. So we end up with some bitter women making general statements about the poor quality of men in general, when in fact their depictions mainly cover only the men they were attracted to and suffered consequences from being with. This can all be seen from some women knowingly choosing to be impregnated by men who have multiple children by multiple women, are known to be unable to maintain a job, are known to be in criminal activity and so will be in and out of prison, or the man made it clear that he was not seeking a deep relationship and/or child with her yet she has one with him anyway.
3. This comes to my endpoint. Too many women have a lack of self-awareness and non-acceptance of their own agency. Their problems are not analyzed for what they can do to avoid them again, they are seen as something that just happens to them from an outside source (men, society, family, etc..). While men have that problem too, men are not allowed by others to remain blindly ignorant of their myopic viewpoints and lack of self-awareness. Men have to actually stubbornly ignore information exposing them to their faults and poor decisions, while women are allowed to shift the blame of their poor decisions and outcomes on others. It leads to some women figuring out their faults way to late in life, and some never realizing them at all. They were never encouraged by those they respect and/or like to actually look within and analyze themselves; so too many think they are fine, what they are doing is fine, but wondering why their outcomes are so bad. And again, since they are not encouraged to take direct responsibility for their own decisions, they choose to look external to themselves for something or someone to project the blame on to. I again have to admit that men fall into this trap, but a man falling into this trap requires the man to be absolutely stubborn and hard-headed to do it. He will be told his thinking is wrong, his actions are wrong, and his outcomes are what he deserves. The women will be consoled and patted on the back by her sisters (though they may talk about her behind her back), and told she is perfectly fine the way she is or how she thinks.
Men and Women both have foibles and outright mental weaknesses that we must overcome to create healthy relationships and healthy societies. As you can see with the way the relationship scene is and how sick our society is at present, I am confident enough to say that we are failing dramatically at it. Personally, I am of the opinion that we both contribute to our success or our failures when it comes to our interactions with each other. We are imperfect beings so failures will probably always be experienced. What we can do is at least try to recognize where our imperfections are and steadily work on them to lesson them bit by bit.
Last, nothing I said is all encompassing about women over-all. Women are very diverse and can wear many hats and outlooks. What I stated instead was some of the major faults of women I have come across in life and media. It is perhaps also a general indictment on some aspects of our culture that encourages those faults some women are found to possess. Which is a similar thing to what some aspects of the culture encourages men to have our different yet also similar in outcomes faults.
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I've noticed this a little bit
Aint nuffin bout my virtual PAWGs imaginary
richbosszar
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no one cares, women in 2022 are strong and independent
Fillerguy
Veteran
Its a conversation modern men aren't ready to have. Ask dude said, men today, are taking advice from single men on how to get a wife. These men can only teach you how to fukk, not keep and grow with a woman.
Crayola Coyote
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Nope. I didn’t click it ether. By the way florida gators are winning a natty
Son Goku
Great Sage Equalling Heaven
This is the part of the story people will overlook.
I don't have time for these long winded talks because the expectation is on me to just go with the lies and omissions.
Women are not stupid. They are capable of placing men into a fukk, marry or kill category. Speak to them long enough and you will know that they intentionally pick out certain men because they fall into the fukk category, i.e there is no expectation of commitment.
It is not the fault of men in general when they catch feelings. We don't need to accept fault so that they can play the victim when they intentionally pick options that won't work out.
Nah. Alot of it is from experience. These woman will run over you if you on that sucker stuff from my experience.
If dudes want to simp that's there business we know how it's going to end. They are probably a percentage of woman that would reciprocate if you simped. Question is would you be attracted physically to those woman.
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Exactly, I dont even know why dudes are going back and forth on this. They need to just say women have agency and should be treated like children.
And you are spot on, they are disingenuous as fukk when it comes to who they fukk and who they wont fukk.