Men, are we really this unfair to our women?

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Women have every single advantage in the dating market. Everything is setup FOR women in dating. A man can't even filter out the chicks he doesn't want on the dating apps. If they can't find a man, it's their own fault.
 

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Ur really the only hob on the coli

I respect that even tho I don't agree with some

U will say things on here other women won't say

Cause they scared to get ganged up on

Cause this site is male dominated
Pretty much. Men have always been comfortable criticizing women since the dawn of time. But that ego needs to be confronted for the sake of their own growth. Men literally don’t see how or why women wouldn’t want to deal with most men on a daily basis.

But if somebody was bytching in your ear about “SUBMISSION! You INFERIOR! But I still want you to cook, clean, wipe my ass, put up with wack dikk and POLYGAMY, and STFU?! While u not even getting a nut from dealing with them…and you contributing just as much financially as they do these days? Would you honestly stay in that situation?

I blame women for not refusing that shyt sooner. I blame men for thinking it’s was a cool paradigm in the first place.
 

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Love it all!!

This is what true accountability looks like, and it is actually scary for many women because being vocal and taking up space may make others uncomfortable and affect relationships. It may also force you to take more responsibility for your life and outcome. It may also force you to discover yourself and find out if you’re just following the path set for you, or doing what you actually want to do. And if you realize you aren’t actually happy, then YOU have to do something about it. And if you choose to be in a relationship, you have to actually show up and be intentional, and be strong enough to walk away with your dignity if it’s not working.

You said a whole lot, here.


I think dynamics are changing rapidly and a lot of men and women are caught in the middle. Not quite traditional, not quite modern. We have to figure out how to make the puzzle pieces fit with someone who is trying to figure it out the same way we are.
Yeah and that’s something else you hit on. We can literally fly to the moon, but you mean to tell me we can’t take what worked from traditions, leave behind what didn’t work and forge a new path for ourselves?!

Some people so stupid that they lack the imagination to envision a future beyond the same ole traditions they’ve been forcefed. Just b/c ur parents did it, don’t mean you have to do it or SHOULD do it. The past isn’t destiny. But people refuse to adapt. They keep applying the same ideas even if they don’t work. And even worse they try to force it onto everybody.

People doing what they think they supposed to do, instead of being true to themselves. Marriage is just another stomping grounds for that lack of vision and direction to play out on.
 

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Men are selfish??

Women don’t know what men want

I want nikkas to listen to a podcast where a man host ask women what does a man want and it’s :lupe::why::francis: I I I don’t know

Ask a woman what they want from a man and it’s more pages than the Malcolm X biography

Every man knows what a woman want because they broadcast it everywhere ..

Women will only say a man want sex and that’s it

Some listening to the bullshyt
 
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…. it’s about 33 minutes


But you can start where I marked it …



If you’re impatient go to 10:55

If you really want to save time start at 12:55


Cliffs:

Women are miserable and we are selfish …

We (high performing men) only think about about our own needs and wants and basically just judge women …

Often unfairly

… if we (men) had to live the lives of women with all the responsibilities and men often talking down to you would we like it…

The state of relationships are terrible because men are not stepping up and leading and at the same time being an emotionally intelligent, compassionate leader …

We focus too much on money and not relationships and understanding what women need …

They also talk about how men call them simps for respecting women

Coli bonus

The word fatherless is used

:unimpressed:


Chicken or egg situation.

A lot of brehs can be straight up dogs....flip side is that those men often have the most success (short term/casual) with women.

For a long term relationship, you gotta be a solid dude with just enough "dawg" in you that your woman doesn't think you're weak...but not so much that she never trusts you.

The nice guy shyt works for really attractive men (looking for casual sex) because women will almost be amazed that a handsome 6 figs/6 certs breh is a "good guy." Average and ugly dudes have to play dirty or they would end up with nothing but a cramped right hand...for casual sex at least. If a dude has crazy game, he's probably average. If a dude has women throwing themselves at him..he's either rich or handsome.
 

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Didn't watch, but yes a lot of us are :manny:

Lot of men are emotionally unavailable, a lot of men cheat on their girl, a lot of men beat or abuse their woman, etc.

Doesn't mean all of us do, and that doesn't erase that they have shyt to clean up too.

We're all a mess but no one wants to clean up.

shyt don't change until you get up and wash your ass :ufdup:
 
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