Men are reacting to this video on why they stopped Cold Approaching for good

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Can we also acknowledge that most women have types? A lot of brehs having trouble arent even ugly they are just not the woman's type. You could be ugly to an Asian chick looking for skinny white men with blonde hair and handsome to a latina chick looking for medium built black men with dreads. it just depends. Can't take rejection personally.
Lastly sometimes you not in where you fit in. I know as black man statistically speaking I'd pull more hoes in Detroit than in Salt Lake City, Utah.

Truly ugly men got it rough and they know pretty early.

yeah alot of people are out of their lane, and not in proximity to a place where they would do well.
 

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In simple terms

Know the arena u are in

If you are in a arena with where the woman is kelly Rowland looking you better be the 90% of coli brehs 6’6, morris chestnut smile, matt barnes hair with a WWE steriod body approaching them women


Now the homely broads, broads who stomach stick out more than they ass, the one with a few kids, then the A game is optional
 

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- "Don't flirt with females. Don't compliment them Don't do anything just make your money and deal with people who deal with you."

- "Man! I told one woman she looked just fine with no makeup and her hair freshly washed that i would take her out just like that... she snapped on me. I'm NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU, AND YOU AREN'T PAYING FOR MY HAIR WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT IT?. WOW "

- "This is why I don't even talk to women I don't know. You can be kind and polite and she will make a big scene if she don't find you attractive."

- "She did a great job with her explanation. Chivalry is dead and women killed it."

- "That's why they say women are TERRIBLE COMMUNICATORS. THEY JUST LIKE TO TALK A LOT. there's a difference"



:francis: :mjlol: damn

As a Cold Approach breh I can't relate, but I can definitely empathize where they are coming from

That's how i feel. Women like interacting, not communicating. Interacting leaves fuzzy edges so you can backpedal or reinterpret at will.
 

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True and that's only because back in the day, women could only choose from the men in their vicinity.

They quickly saw the best men get snatched up in front of their faces and had no choice but to pick from the leftovers.

The popularity of social media killed that as women were able to get their validation outside of their circles.

It created hope and a false sense of abundance.



We can bet money on this if you'd like



Stop it. You nikkas need to start providing proof of this bullshyt. Celebrities don't count btw.

Women care about physical attraction too. Even more than men. Bad bytches are NOT fukking ugly dudes who aren't rich or famous.

Just because YOU, a straight man, say a guy is ugly, does not mean he is ugly.

The problem with your logic is ‘ugly’ and ‘bad bytch ‘ is highly subjective and based on your own insecurities.

You say celebrities don’t count yet your entire premise seems to be based on celeb/social media bubbles.
Irl most people fall somewhere in the middle. Including women. I’ve literally been dating women and been like ‘eh, she cool’. Then look at her IG like damn, that’s me ?!. Social media is a snapshot of their absolute peak. If you go by that, you will have a skewed perception of what “bad” is. Makeup. Makeup. Makeup.

And conversely, what you consider ugly as man —-which is hella weird btw——can decrease as you age. Your acne clears up, you grow a beard, you stopped dressing like a lil boy, you’re more confident, got contacts, etc. Women don’t judge on rote looks like we do. They value blanket traits like being dark skin. You can be “ugly” but the right complexion to them, and a good wardrobe, and voila you become attractive pause

Long story short, your post and posts like it expose insecurity and not being outside.
 

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I'll just leave this here:

Black Panther's Anti-Incel Guide for Success With Women
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I've pulled more women on accident than from deliberately cold approaching. :mjlol:
 
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Game is always a champion but that takes time, awareness, and patience. You put a bytch on a pedestal even if you claim not to.

One nikka on AHH had one of the best games I've seen from a nikka online. He would write their bday down, knew their important shyt and was really good at connecting. He truly valued a woman. Most nikkas is not like that. Women was a true hobby for that nikka. He was an Oakland nikka. Them nikkas just more enthralled to the game
Scumbag Stew?
 

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Last shorty I messed with was a cold approach at the bus stop while waiting for my shuttle to work.

Just this Saturday I cold approached a cute lady at the grocery store right after I finished playing soccer. Saw her around the store a few times then pulled up and legit said “Hey I just want to introduce my self, my name is phcitywarrior, what’s your name?”

Got her name, talked a bit about what was in her cart, got her number and bounced.

Even this morning I got the iG of this cute chick I see at my gym in the AM. Ran into each other as we were leaving.

What is happening outside and what happens online aren’t the same from what I’ve observed anecdotally.

Approaching in person is more of an “even playing field” so to speak.

:manny:
 
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Online dating gives women the upper hand and that’s unnatural.
This. It’s why I tell my younger cousins it’s better to meet women in person through social groups and the like. Much more of an even playing field. You can work the tangibles and intangibles.

Can we also acknowledge that most women have types? A lot of brehs having trouble arent even ugly they are just not the woman's type.
Also this. You can have it all on paper but some women have a “type”

Lastly sometimes you not in where you fit in. I know as black man statistically speaking I'd pull more hoes in Detroit than in Salt Lake City, Utah.

This, too. Location is big thing, especially here in the US where there’s not a homogenous population and demographic splits aren’t even distributed.

If your lane is East Asian women, you’d do well in Cali but may struggle in Arkansas.
 

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Y’all make everything about being ugly. Ugly men outnumber handsome men 5 to 1. Some women who would instantly swipe left on “ugly” men on apps would be more open to entertaining an “ugly” man irl if he came correct.

Also, types do exist, which a lot of y’all seem to forget. An attractive woman who listens to metal, has blue hair, has face piercings and tattoos everywhere and dresses like a goth, would be far more interested in dating an ugly punk Travis Barker type of guy than a clean cut Channing Tatum type of guy.

It seems like men today struggle with this concept and think they’ll only get chose if they have a handsome face, a lot of money or get brolic. Meanwhile irl so-called ugly skinnyfat median wage men are eating good.

@Worthless Loser 🤔🤔
 

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I don't get it.

IF you think she is bad, fukk whatever the internet is talking about.

IF you HIM and you think you HIM, you talk to shortie where ever she is at. :pachaha:
She sees the porsche or the challenger.
She sees the watch.

She is not dumb.

IF she's choosin, you gettin' chose.

If not, fukk her and go on about your day.

Win some.
Lose some.
 

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Stop it. You nikkas need to start providing proof of this bullshyt. Celebrities don't count btw.

Women care about physical attraction too. Even more than men. Bad bytches are NOT fukking ugly dudes who aren't rich or famous.

Just because YOU, a straight man, say a guy is ugly, does not mean he is ugly.

If you can't go to your local Walmart or target or Costco or Sam's club and find married ugly men shopping with their wives, kids in tow, holding hands with another woman then I don't know what to tell you.

Cause these incel dudes don't just want baddies they want average, hell they'll take below average, but they end up with nothing because they just want to make excuses and blame the world.
 

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If you can't go to your local Walmart or target or Costco or Sam's club and find married ugly men shopping with their wives, kids in tow, holding hands with another woman then I don't know what to tell you.
No, the dude I responded to SPECIFICALLY said that ugly dudes get BADDIES all the time.

I never said that ugly dudes can't get a wife on their level or reasonably attractive.
 
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