Men are reacting to this video on why they stopped Cold Approaching for good

[Ahadi]

Find your market and build yourself up in every area possible.

But you also need to be able to have awareness.

 

[H. Selassie]

To all the “if you ugly gang, tough luck” comments:

All of that is 100% subjective. You’d be surprised how many dudes pull bad chicks off sense of humor/social skills. Some kind of intangible that gives them a cool factor. Find out what that is for you and tap into it.

As far as tangibles…If you can afford a gym membership, routine trips to the dentist, a decent wardrobe and a barber and you’re not using those…I got no sympathy for you AT ALL.

 

[#1 pick]

I was still cold approaching a few years ago up until I met the girl who eventually became my wife.

It’s really a low risk, high reward game especially if you live in a big city and there’s a 98% chance you may never stumble across that person again so that severely reduces the fear factor. The key is knowing how to IMMEDIATELY stand down once they show they’re not interested. Don’t leave room for it to become awkward or embarrassing. Expeditiously keep it pushing to the next.

I am glad you mention that. I've cold approached plenty and the times I've lost is where I CA a girl and it just didn't work out for either of us but then I went to another in the same area and I guess they talk and I got blackballed from all of them. That shyt was wack. That's why I was selective when it comes to CA. Because if you are at a church. The girl you shoot your shot at better be the only one or you will take a massive L.

 

[H. Selassie]

I am glad you mention that. I've cold approached plenty and the times I've lost is where I CA a girl and it just didn't work out for either of us but then I went to another in the same area and I guess they talk and I got blackballed from all of them. That shyt was wack. That's why I was selective when it comes to CA. Because if you are at a church. The girl you shoot your shot at better be the only one or you will take a massive L.

Yeah you gotta be careful in those shared environments where word travels fast. Even when I was cold approaching in college, rarely did I ever approach multiple girls who ran in the same social circle/friend group.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Only 3 types of ugly nikkas win:

1. Those who use that tongue like sword / mouthpiece …

2. The ones who have money / or fame …

3. Athletic ugly nikkas whose body talks to the women for them.

If this ain’t you - you’re scaring them …

I'd argue that an ugly man can't negotiate attraction out of a woman any more than an ugly woman can negotiate attraction out of a man.

If a woman finds you disgusting, you can't trick her into finding you attractive. She might have just thought you're kind of mid but she might be interested. Then when you stand out by making her laugh, think, and feel comfortable then she'll choose over a guy who has the looks but is boring, mentally unstable, or just generally a headache to deal with.

Same thing with a woman that's a plane Jane but says stuff to you that legit gets you laughing and gives off some undercover freak signals with some of the comments and jokes she makes.

Genuinely ugly nggas need to just accept their lot in life. They can still meet women that find them attractive because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but they gotta go out and live life with no expectation of female interest. Afterall, if there really was no chance for short men, men with receding hairlines, etc. Then those types of men would've been eliminated from the gene pool. Most men would be walking around at 6'2 with perfect skin, teeth, hair, shoulders, jawline and able to put on muscle easily and struggle to gain fat.

 

[Phitz]

I'd argue that an ugly man can't negotiate attraction out of a woman any more than an ugly woman can negotiate attraction out of a man.

If a woman finds you disgusting, you can't trick her into finding you attractive. She might have just thought you're kind of mid but she might be interested. Then when you stand out by making her laugh, think, and feel comfortable then she'll choose over a guy who has the looks but is boring, mentally unstable, or just generally a headache to deal with.

Same thing with a woman that's a plane Jane but says stuff to you that legit gets you laughing and gives off some undercover freak signals with some of the comments and jokes she makes.

Genuinely ugly nggas need to just accept their lot in life. They can still meet women that find them attractive because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but they gotta go out and live life with no expectation of female interest. Afterall, if there really was no chance for short men, men with receding hairlines, etc. Then those types of men would've been eliminated from the gene pool. Most men would be walking around at 6'2 with perfect skin, teeth, hair, shoulders, jawline and able to put on muscle easily and struggle to gain fat.

This is bad logic, because all this rejection is recent.. Most people were in good natural shape before 2000. Height was not a huge issue, and most people had a nice body regardless of what their face looked like , so most of the world was naturally sexy looking even ugly ones. Evident in all the old pics and videos.

 

[TEH]

I'd argue that an ugly man can't negotiate attraction out of a woman any more than an ugly woman can negotiate attraction out of a man.

If a woman finds you disgusting, you can't trick her into finding you attractive. She might have just thought you're kind of mid but she might be interested. Then when you stand out by making her laugh, think, and feel comfortable then she'll choose over a guy who has the looks but is boring, mentally unstable, or just generally a headache to deal with.

Same thing with a woman that's a plane Jane but says stuff to you that legit gets you laughing and gives off some undercover freak signals with some of the comments and jokes she makes.

Genuinely ugly nggas need to just accept their lot in life. They can still meet women that find them attractive because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but they gotta go out and live life with no expectation of female interest. Afterall, if there really was no chance for short men, men with receding hairlines, etc. Then those types of men would've been eliminated from the gene pool. Most men would be walking around at 6'2 with perfect skin, teeth, hair, shoulders, jawline and able to put on muscle easily and struggle to gain fat.

You probably never seen it happen. There a nikkas with legit golden mouth pieces who can charm and make a woman laugh and cry and whatever else to smash. Seduction is a real skill and I’ve seen it happen on a surface level no homo.

I don’t want to get too deep but look it up. It’s a light weight form of sorcery on some level. Do some research on it. No cap - I’m only giving daps

 

[Ziploc]

Primarily a new thing with younger women. Time is undefeated and looks can be bought. If anything,I blame the tsunami of (young) men with no game that either got their hands in some money or lack the self confidence to not be so damn agreeable to anything with a vagina walking.

 

[acri1]

I'd argue that an ugly man can't negotiate attraction out of a woman any more than an ugly woman can negotiate attraction out of a man.

If a woman finds you disgusting, you can't trick her into finding you attractive. She might have just thought you're kind of mid but she might be interested. Then when you stand out by making her laugh, think, and feel comfortable then she'll choose over a guy who has the looks but is boring, mentally unstable, or just generally a headache to deal with.

Same thing with a woman that's a plane Jane but says stuff to you that legit gets you laughing and gives off some undercover freak signals with some of the comments and jokes she makes.

Genuinely ugly nggas need to just accept their lot in life. They can still meet women that find them attractive because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but they gotta go out and live life with no expectation of female interest. Afterall, if there really was no chance for short men, men with receding hairlines, etc. Then those types of men would've been eliminated from the gene pool. Most men would be walking around at 6'2 with perfect skin, teeth, hair, shoulders, jawline and able to put on muscle easily and struggle to gain fat.

That's all true, but there are also dudes who aren't ugly that aren't eating for various reasons bad at talking to women, women find them boring, broke, lack of confidence, live in an area where it's hard to meet women, etc. Looks are important but not necessarily the end all be all.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

"us women aren't doing a good job of explaining why it's different"

i don't have to explain shyt with regard to why it's different
as long as i indicate it is unwanted then stop, and it won't be "harassment" because it stopped. it's that simple!
now of course there has always been some guys that come out the gate with something that could be considered harrassment just because what they say would be generally offensive. that needs to be explained to them by their parents when they are children, not a random woman just minding their business.

tldr: grow tf up.

 

[cheek100]

Game is always a champion but that takes time, awareness, and patience. You put a bytch on a pedestal even if you claim not to.

One nikka on AHH had one of the best games I've seen from a nikka online. He would write their bday down, knew their important shyt and was really good at connecting. He truly valued a woman. Most nikkas is not like that. Women was a true hobby for that nikka. He was an Oakland nikka. Them nikkas just more enthralled to the game

This is the simp card damn her birthday. I’m no good online i need to be right in her face.
I don’t value nothing about her in the beginning she’s either on board or she can walk. When u face to face u have to sell charisma. Online dating gives women the upper hand and that’s unnatural. When they choose u, it should be bc u left them no choice. Theyre enthralled by your humor, smell, touch, swag etc- your looks are last

 

[cyndaquil]

Can we also acknowledge that most women have types? A lot of brehs having trouble arent even ugly they are just not the woman's type. You could be ugly to an Asian chick looking for skinny white men with blonde hair and handsome to a latina chick looking for medium built black men with dreads. it just depends. Can't take rejection personally.
Lastly sometimes you not in where you fit in. I know as black man statistically speaking I'd pull more hoes in Detroit than in Salt Lake City, Utah.

Truly ugly men got it rough and they know pretty early.

 

[Armchair Militant]

I guess it depends on how picky you are. For me, it seems like a waste of time.

 

[Braman]

I'd argue that an ugly man can't negotiate attraction out of a woman any more than an ugly woman can negotiate attraction out of a man.

If a woman finds you disgusting, you can't trick her into finding you attractive. She might have just thought you're kind of mid but she might be interested. Then when you stand out by making her laugh, think, and feel comfortable then she'll choose over a guy who has the looks but is boring, mentally unstable, or just generally a headache to deal with.

Same thing with a woman that's a plane Jane but says stuff to you that legit gets you laughing and gives off some undercover freak signals with some of the comments and jokes she makes.

Genuinely ugly nggas need to just accept their lot in life. They can still meet women that find them attractive because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but they gotta go out and live life with no expectation of female interest. Afterall, if there really was no chance for short men, men with receding hairlines, etc. Then those types of men would've been eliminated from the gene pool. Most men would be walking around at 6'2 with perfect skin, teeth, hair, shoulders, jawline and able to put on muscle easily and struggle to gain fat.

Yall nggas are weird I promise it ain’t that complex

1- Blindly referring to brehs as “ugly” or repeating the whole ‘short gang’ trope shows you putting p*ssy on a pedestal. Or you’re just shooting WAY too high, bc the world is LITTERED with avg looking women for avg looking men…Also 9/10 “ugly” can be cleaned up with grooming, wardrobe, swag, etc. Not to mention money, status, etc. So your post sounds cacish/young/intimidated by women

2- Bc so many of you are weird, it creates value for simply….not being weird. Those ballon pop shows are a perfect illustration. Dudes will get no pops when they walk out, clearly women find them attractive. Yet once they start talking it’s gunfire left and right. I’m as critical of chicks as anybody, but one thing I will also admit is yall nggas are weird. We tend to take for granted the simple ability of being normal and endearing around women. A lot you make it so easy for regular brehs to eat, ugly or otherwise

 

[How Sway?]

There's nothing to figure out. If you ugly watch how you approach a female. THAT'S IT! A nikka know he ugly or not by his 20s

Facts