Men are reacting to this video on why they stopped Cold Approaching for good
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Brother I am introverted af and at the very same time i have enough “cold approach” stories to write a book. You ever bagged a Ms America contestant?
That’s a common misnomer that Introvert vs extrovert is about skill or ability. It’s not. It’s about desire to socialize. Case in point…Ngga I have no desire to do any of this shyt.
Do you know how many airplane chit chats I’ve had. After a presentation chit chat with the presenter. Introverts like me can and have done it all. Enough so that we don’t want to do it again—-but we can do it with the best of them when we want to. And when we want to is if it’s a bad bytch.Again, no ngga. I’m not chatting up a ngga in line at chipotle to make friends,
but i will sell water to whale when I feel like it
Brother I am introverted af and at the very same time i have enough “cold approach” stories to write a book. You ever bagged a Ms America contestant?
Ngga I have no desire to do any of this shyt.
Again, no ngga. I’m not chatting up a ngga in line at chipotle to make friends,
Then you aren't like the dudes in the comments. Nor are you an incel. You talk to people, you talk to women, when you feel like it.
You don't just sit around not getting p*ssy, avoiding women and questioning why women just don't give you their p*ssy all while blaming tall men, thugs, white men, black men, light skinned men, rich men, men that sell drugs or use drugs, and every other type of men that get women and men that actually interact with women.
For me it’s the other way around. Really depends on what you’re looking for, age, city, etc
I will say tho in my experience the most success is late night, but outside the bar. On the strip/sidewlk. So you get the ‘let my hair down’ vibe of a club setting, but with the isolation of a grocery store, and no loud music. Most of my exes —-pre online dating—- I met that way
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Y’all make everything about being ugly. Ugly men outnumber handsome men 5 to 1. Some women who would instantly swipe left on “ugly” men on apps would be more open to entertaining an “ugly” man irl if he came correct.
Also, types do exist, which a lot of y’all seem to forget. An attractive woman who listens to metal, has blue hair, has face piercings and tattoos everywhere and dresses like a goth, would be far more interested in dating an ugly punk Travis Barker type of guy than a clean cut Channing Tatum type of guy.
It seems like men today struggle with this concept and think they’ll only get chose if they have a handsome face, a lot of money or get brolic. Meanwhile irl so-called ugly skinnyfat median wage men are eating good.
Also, types do exist, which a lot of y’all seem to forget. An attractive woman who listens to metal, has blue hair, has face piercings and tattoos everywhere and dresses like a goth, would be far more interested in dating an ugly punk Travis Barker type of guy than a clean cut Channing Tatum type of guy.
It seems like men today struggle with this concept and think they’ll only get chose if they have a handsome face, a lot of money or get brolic. Meanwhile irl so-called ugly skinnyfat median wage men are eating good.
I think a lot of men lack the ability to read the vibe, read the room, etc when cold approaching. Ideally you should approach a woman that has already given you the green light through her body language. If you don't, you should at least learn to recognize when she is not feeling you through her body language and smoothly abandon the mission. If not, that's when you start getting into creepy territory. It's very subtle and it takes practice to recognize.
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You forgot TalentOnly 3 types of ugly nikkas win:
1. Those who use that tongue like sword / mouthpiece …
2. The ones who have money / or fame …
3. Athletic ugly nikkas whose body talks to the women for them.
If this ain’t you - you’re scaring them …
women are attracted to talent a dude who’s a top chef university professor who might not be famous but is elite at what he does even if the bread isn’t $$$
a local artist can get groupies just because women enjoyed his performance
True
But talent usually leads to money and / or fame. But yeah you got a point.
Comments
- "Don't flirt with females. Don't compliment them Don't do anything just make your money and deal with people who deal with you."
- "Man! I told one woman she looked just fine with no makeup and her hair freshly washed that i would take her out just like that... she snapped on me. I'm NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU, AND YOU AREN'T PAYING FOR MY HAIR WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT IT?. WOW "
- "This is why I don't even talk to women I don't know. You can be kind and polite and she will make a big scene if she don't find you attractive."
- "She did a great job with her explanation. Chivalry is dead and women killed it."
- "That's why they say women are TERRIBLE COMMUNICATORS. THEY JUST LIKE TO TALK A LOT. there's a difference"
damn
As a Cold Approach breh I can't relate, but I can definitely empathize where they are coming from
I mean, when I was 13, I was getting my ass grabbed on when I was playing table hockey at a D&B type shyt with go karts. I kept looking back and didn't see anyone. She did it again, this time she didn't run. The bytch was bad af and looked like Mya. From that point on, I've been on. When it's like that, you just smile at a bytch and she's down. It is what it is. Women like men like want to fukk. That doesn't mean they can't and won't lose interest because if you corny or coming off wack, they will lose interest but you gotta be corny or wack for them to do that and even then, it's too late if she done already fukked or gave you head.
Game is always a champion but that takes time, awareness, and patience. You put a bytch on a pedestal even if you claim not to.
One nikka on AHH had one of the best games I've seen from a nikka online. He would write their bday down, knew their important shyt and was really good at connecting. He truly valued a woman. Most nikkas is not like that. Women was a true hobby for that nikka. He was an Oakland nikka. Them nikkas just more enthralled to the game
