Men are reacting to this video on why they stopped Cold Approaching for good

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Back in the day women knew which men were at their level more or less.

True and that's only because back in the day, women could only choose from the men in their vicinity.

They quickly saw the best men get snatched up in front of their faces and had no choice but to pick from the leftovers.

The popularity of social media killed that as women were able to get their validation outside of their circles.

It created hope and a false sense of abundance.

I could talk her out the drawls. Looks ain’t shyt.
Good game is undefeated.

We can bet money on this if you'd like

nikkas is scared. Ugly nikkas fucck bad biitches all the time. They are resilient. Men today are incredibly weak and can't handle hardship. nikkas are too entitled. Women too for that matter.

Stop it. You nikkas need to start providing proof of this bullshyt. Celebrities don't count btw.

Women care about physical attraction too. Even more than men. Bad bytches are NOT fukking ugly dudes who aren't rich or famous.

Just because YOU, a straight man, say a guy is ugly, does not mean he is ugly.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

There's nothing to figure out. If you ugly watch how you approach a female. THAT'S IT! A nikka know he ugly or not by his 20s

Do the same rules apply if u PAWGIN? I’ve seen some ugly brehs with some decent PAWGS

 

[WesCrook]

A coupla summers ago, there was a thick Mexican girl at the gas pump.

I told her "Your tank is already full"

She didn't take it too kindly. I was just fukking around with her anyway.

I used the same line a few more times with Black girls and they were flattered by the wit.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Full clip for context

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

I could talk her out the drawls. Looks ain’t shyt.
Good game is undefeated.

Post ur pic

 

[Swirv]

Hollering at chics ain’t for the faint of heart. I know a lot of scared dry dikk crybabies. Keep shooting and you’ll be aight

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Sounds like incel babble. However, cold approaach just isn’t efficient

She can like you….But have a bf. She can like you…but have a kid. And that wouldn’t come up til later

Plus you really gotta put yourself out there be awkward, in front of other people, etc. Just to be treated like it’s a pleasure for her to talk to you.

With online dating, there is no confusion: she is looking for a man bc she’s on the app, and she finds you attractive bc yall matched. That’s undeniable and you confirm it immediately. Also the new MO is bytches hate talking on apps at all and just want you to literally message them ‘let’s go out’ and they down.

So yea I’ll cold approaches she’s really fine. But anything avg I can get online it ain’t worth it.

I will approach at the bar but not at the grocery store

 

[acri1]

It is what it is.

Personally I'm decent looking but just don't have the social skills to be cold approaching successfully that's something I accepted a long time ago

 

[H. Selassie]

I was still cold approaching a few years ago up until I met the girl who eventually became my wife.

It’s really a low risk, high reward game especially if you live in a big city and there’s a 98% chance you may never stumble across that person again so that severely reduces the fear factor. The key is knowing how to IMMEDIATELY stand down once they show they’re not interested. Don’t leave room for it to become awkward or embarrassing. Expeditiously keep it pushing to the next.

 

[Kunty McPhuck]

One size does not fit all

That's what she said.

 

[Rasille]

If a woman gives you signs that’s your hint to go speak to her. But simply walking up to a random woman I wouldn’t suggest it.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

As already mentioned: this isn't a problem for you if you're not ugly.

Women know if they're ugly or not. It's quite easy: if men aren't matching with you on dating apps, and men you find attractive arent approaching you, you're ugly.

With men it's harder to know, especially since female coworkers or relatives might tell them that they have great qualities and a woman would be happy to be in a relationship with them, and yet their dating profiles are ghost towns and every woman they talk to has a boyfriend, isn't interested or is married.

But then someone tells that man that his problem is that he doesn't know the right pick up lines or doesn't have the right esthetic. He listens to that advice and he still doesn't get anywhere.

Then someone eventually just tells him the truth: "sorry man, you're just ugly"

Hearing that harsh truth will make their failures make sense. But the problem with that is the side effect is depression, anger, and bitterness. The alternative is to accept the situation and just learn to enjoy life knowing that you can't compete with other men when it comes to that aspect of life.

The worst that can happen to you if youre a woman and approach a man is he will tell you he isn't interested. The worst that can happen if youre a man and approach a woman is she will tell you she isn't interested and then post about the interaction online and you go viral for being desperate. This happened recently when a woman sent a picture of a note she got from a guy saying he thought she was attractive and he would like to take her out on a date. They went IN on dude over social media, shyt was brutal to watch.

The risk is just too much now that social media is part of the game.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Stop it. You nikkas need to start providing proof of this bullshyt. Celebrities don't count btw.

Women care about physical attraction too. Even more than men. Bad bytches are NOT fukking ugly dudes who aren't rich or famous.

Just because YOU, a straight man, say a guy is ugly, does not mean he is ugly.

Cuh, how do you not find the irony in this?

Like be for real, how many times have you saw a couple out in public, and asked yourself, "Why is she with him? He's ugly"

 

[re'up]

Looks and social skills...and reading people. My friend asked me the other day how I met someone, a neighbor and I couldn't even remember how we ended up planning a date, so I thought about it and it was this simple:

We lived in the same area and waved hi for awhile, one night she was dressed nicer and waiting for an Uber and i said HI, and told her I had never seen her outside of workout clothes and complimented her. She told me she was going to dinner with friends. Said goodnight, walked around the corner and met my date lol

Later that week I asked her where she went, we talked about that spot. Talked about food, we both like omakase sushi and connected on that. Told her all the places I've been in SD. I said do you want someone to go with?

and she's like intimidatingly attractive. Pornstar type body, but is probably like a bio tech sales or something like that.

 

[re'up]

but all that aside, there is no doubt that a lot of people's in person social skills are blunted, and social norms are changing. You see people, men and women look at each other and you, like they are shocked and annoyed to be even seeing another person in their line of sight. Like you are infringing on their experience. It's a phone/social media byproduct.