This. I remember seeing a thread on lsa where a bunch of women said that they noticed that when they wore their natural hair straight, or wore weaves, the attention they got was crazy, meanwhile when there hair is natural they didn’t get the same amount of attention. Now don’t get me wrong I see plenty of men with natural women these days. But I see just as many men with women wearing weaves.
I watch what men do, not what they say. Clearly women with weaves are getting wived everyday, so someone is checking for them. Meek talking about not wanting to see wigs, when he was in a relationship with a woman that wears nothing but wigs the whole damn time he was with her.
I wear my hair straight—no wigs, or weaves, but if I want to I will. It’s weird asf how men are even concerned with other women’s hair. Unless these men want to get up with these women and do their hair everyday, detangle that shyt, and style it every day to look the way the women want, and everything else that comes with hair care—then how these women choose to do or wear their hair should not be their concern. Y’all aren’t dating them, so who cares? Find the woman that looks the way you want and Kim. The only person that needs to be concerned about their hair is them and the man they are dealing with.
It’s strange how it’s about to be 2019, and there are so many natural hair bw out and about, and yet you have men still complaining about the hair choices of women they’ve already said they would not date. There are so many natural bw out there now, that it makes no sense to focus on the women that still wear weaves. If your not going to date them, then don’t worry about their hair.
So many statements from men saying anything but natural is problematic and they only date women with natural hair—so great, why the fukk are y’all concerned then with what non natural hair women are doing? You ain’t checking for them anyway.