Let me walk you through it. I think I understand the disconnect here, and I think it might explain the missing link btwn bedwenches and natural hair.
Fact: Compared to other men, black men have fewer resources.
Fact: That small percentage of bm with resources
appears to prefer sharing those resources with women who either have long hair or looser textured hair.
Therefore,
1. Bw seeking bm look at the market objectively and 'advertise' themselves accordingly.
2. Bw NOT seeking bm (usu bc of resources, real or assumed) 'advertise'
themselves accordingly.
The current paradigm won't change until one of two things happens: either those few bm with resources start rewarding bw with natural AFRO textured hair OR more bm get resources and those bm reward bw with natural AFRO textured hair.
I'm obv generalizing like crazy, but we're talking about milliions of ppl, so... we do the best we can.