Ya'll be thinking you so deep and going on rants but missed what I said completely. I'm not talking about weave. I am talking about natural textures. Now go back and reread what I said. And no not one Black man has said they prefer kinks hair texture .
Your statement was "
Most BM prefer straight or curly hair. I have never in my life heard a BM say he prefers a bush/kinks/naps. EVER!" And you wrote that to defend black women buying other people's straight hair from hostile koreans.
I replied (in a nutshell): black men would still want black women even if they all wore their hair naturally kinky ...and you don't
care what BM want, so that's not really the issue.
Subsequent posts in this thread by black women confirm this. These women specifically say they are going to do what they want period. You can't have it both ways in this debate -- saying "we do it for black men" and then dapping posters who say "we don't care what you want -- we're going to do what we want."
The latter IS true -- that is, you simply do not CARE what black men want, so you're going to continue to enrich hostile, nazi koreans in exchange for someone else's hair to wear on your head.
Yes -- we're hopeless as a culture, because we can't cooperate on even the most BASIC stuff -- in large part thanks the
complete lack of respect black women have for black men. Vanity is more important to most black women than how running to koreans for weave negatively reflects on our culture. Straightening the hair of their young daughters is more important than the way this might affect their daughters' minds.
And that's fine. I just want young black men to understand this, so that they're not bewildered or demoralized by these things and so that they understand decent women are few and they shouldn't waste time.
That's the real conclusion we need to come to. Whether it's swirling or handing money to koreans for weave, black women are going to do what they want, no matter what black men think. That's should be the take-away for black men.
