"Marriage Isn't for Black Women"

[Anerdyblackguy]

How do you guys think the husband feels about this?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

So being married : bad

Being a single mother: fine

 

[CrownHeights]

Oh well.

Marriage worked for my parents

My mother found an ambitious nikka & she submitted



I aint getting married tho.... These bytches from this current generation are nothing like the women that raised me


I aint ever gon marry these hoes

Lets be real. Marriage is a commitment to settle, someone mafukas just can't settle down no matter what so I ain't for everyone. I'm willing to bet it ain't for most people and it's showing in a major way among this new generation.

My only beef is if you're not going to marry and you end up having a kid PLEASE BE IN THAT KIDS LIFE because there's nothing more important to a kid's growth than a present father.

My little one's don't know how good they got it

 

[DrBanneker]

Another note: I strongly dislike 'thinkpiece' culture. See below:
According to the National Center for Education Statistics, of associate's and bachelor's degrees awarded to black students between 2013 and 2014, more than 60 percent went to black women. Meanwhile, Michelle Alexander points out in her book The New Jim Crowthat there are more black men under correctional control today than there were under slavery in 1850—at least 1.7 million, to be precise—limiting their opportunities for education and employment. Black men are roughly seven times more likely to be killed than black women.

Even if black men overcome all this—if they survive, if they thrive—they do not want to marry a woman like me. Black men are twice as likely as black women to seek marriage outside of their race. Statistics collected by OkCupid reveal that black women are the least desirable demographic in the dating pool.

There are lies, damned lies, and statistics. Namely, though Black men are twice as likely to marry out as Black women, we still marry out less than men in every other minority demographic (Jews, Hispanics, etc.) except Asian men.

The problem is not enough of us (proportionally) are getting married. If a Black woman does get married she stands a better chance of the marriage being to a Black man than any other group except White people who are the majority. Committed Black men want Black women, it's this #GMB shyt that is hurting us.

Also correct me if I am wrong, but aren't Black men the second lowest demographic amongst males in these online dating sites following Asian men? It's not like people think that everyone is on our dikks. We aren't far above Black women. When I was single I remember 90%+ of the non-White/non-Black women's profiles often listed everything in a partner except Black and Asian.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

There are lies, damned lies, and statistics. Namely, though Black men are twice as likely to marry out as Black women, we still marry out less than men in every other minority demographic (Jews, Hispanics, etc.) except Asian men.

The problem is not enough of us (proportionally) are getting married. If a Black woman does get married she stands a better chance of the marriage being to a Black man than any other group except White people who are the majority. Committed Black men want Black women, it's this #GMB shyt that is hurting us.

Also correct me if I am wrong, but aren't Black men the second lowest demographic amongst males in these online dating sites following Asian men? It's not like people think that everyone is on our dikks. We aren't far above Black women. When I was single I remember 90%+ of the non-White/non-Black women's profiles often listed everything in a partner except Black and Asian.

This is true. These pawgs don't love us

But black women are more beautiful anyway so it's no loss

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

How do you guys think the husband feels about this?

I hear her husband is a Trinny. @Dip has the Caribbean knowledge - I don't know the pathology of Trinny men.

 

[generic-username]

When she says "black women" does she mean only Black American women? cuz all four of my Nigerian sisters seem to be doing well as married women.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

But it really takes a bytch nikka to allow a woman to choose them instead of them choosing you.

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[Blackout]

So instead of choosing better she rather become a single mother.

That’s just spitting in the face of good black men.

 

[Diondon]

SIngle broad babble. A good dikking down will set her straight

 

[BigMan]

I hear her husband is a Trinny. @Dip has the Caribbean knowledge - I don't know the pathology of Trinny men.

not trini but depends whether son is actually from trinidad or from somewhere else. in any case, marriage is not necessarily a big deal in caribbean cultures in comparison to africans/south asian etc. i can count the married couples in my family on one hand

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Its black men who do the choosing so its impossible to say that statement. If anything it would be marriage is not for black men thats why there are so many people planning a baby instead of planning an marriage, plus on here we have GMB.

I rather be GUN than leave myself open to a bytch getting half of what i earned just cause she wake up and change her mind.


I seen countless nikkas in the army, im talking about dudes who were in historic battles, multiple tours. Think after all that death and loss, think they were gonna retire and peace with their wives and lose half their retirement just like that.


THEY wanted to leave the households

THEY decided being the nuturers of the family wasn't good enough

THEY decided just being Mrs so and so wasnt good enough if it didn't have MD or DDS attached to it

They are more depressed, psychologically and emotionally dysfunctional

They are financially dysfunctional, none of this was at these numbers in our grandparents marriages
They mad about being pump and dumps and dont realize their packaging is so outputting , no sane man who aint a simp would consider anything more than



They allowed for the courts to treat us like money bags and expect us to remain emotionally open to them



50 percent in divorce, and 70% initiated by the woman. These brawds getting rings, they just choosing to leave




Fukk marriage I say this coming from a 2 parent household too

 

[Easy-E]

AAAGGGGEEEENNNNDDDDAAAAA

 

[Black Nate Grey]

And then when Black Men who want to get married and have kids and all that jazz are inevitably forced to find women outside the race to marry then they'll start bytching about that too.
Perpetually looking for reasons o be victimized and outraged. Just pathetic.