SF has turned into a rich person's city. A lot of tech/engineer/professional money, and most younger people have roomates.
This is why Oakland is gentrified as fukk now, because lot's of people commute to SF for the cheaper cost of living across the bay.
There's no way i'd live like a bum just to live in SF proper, although it is an amazing city and a lot of fun.
The problem is, most places outside of SF are boring as fukk. When I lived in the bay, i'd take the train into the city almost every weekend.
If you don't have a roommate, I hope you're pulling at least 100k a year and have no kids/CS. Otherwise
The lack of regulation of rent control and rich foreigners coming in buying up everything jacked up the cost of living. Guess Trump was onto something when he wants immigrants gone from America
But seriously, all that nice weather and comfortability just ruins it for everyone. You got nearly 160 million people (half of America) living off of 4% of the land, mostly in coastal cities. If that was the case, I don't even want to be in Cali, even as a multi millionaire. That "nice weather" and artificial demand killed the incentive for me to move there.