Lying and Pandering to Black Women is part of Black Culture and it has ruined them.

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Besides women aren’t “bad” or “good”. people do what’s in their best interests.

For example for some reason McDonalds and only McDonald’s is kind of a rest haven for homeless drug addicts.

Not Burger King not Wendy’s but any Micky d’s within five miles from the hood is a place where addicts hang out.

Addicts aren’t good or bad they have an addiction.

Women feel entitled because Men make them that way.

like a poster said people change Men understand that the tatted up THOT is for recreational use only and at some point not even good for that.

Why because dudes get burnt sometimes literally

women don’t get burnt from gonorhea because of their body parts so they don’t know they have it.

I promise you Vivica Foxx doesn’t know why she’s getting curved out here and If Kevin Samuels tried to tell her she’d discount it.

She’ll reach her epiphany stage in about 10 years.
She's 60...I'm pretty sure she's been through that. In fact she's admitted 50 was her true love and she couldn't let him be the man.
In general, I don’t think most want a thug—someone who’s been in and out of jail—DV charges, assault charges, drug cases, etc.

I’d say 10-up to maybe 20%

Most women like someone who is strong, confident, decisive, assertive, bold and lets his nuts hang… that doesn’t equate to thug… imo…they might like an edge too but that doesn’t mean thug

And to be honest I don’t even see thugs with a lot of hoes and if they got hoes these hoes are dusty as hell
Eh...in our culture the line between that tends to be thinner than others. And with those traits being prioritized, the thug is given a better chance.
 

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It’s 2024 now. You can’t use that fake excuse anymore. Their actions and social media has shown us that most of them are going out of their way to choose low quality men.
Pookie and Quantrell weren’t shyt when they met, so you can’t expect them to be good men/providers once they have kids.
Case and point @Robbie3000
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Rise up!

Reported for anti Sistahood babble :mjpls:
Clearly that man manipulated her and lied about being a responsible and reputable citizen to get that sista. As soon as he got her, he flipped the script :mjpls:

Where did you even find this? Y’all just love to hate black women. The BW I know never pick these guys:mjpls:
 

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People don't understand sarcasm and don't know the definition of the word "pandering"

Pandering means you are trying to gratify an immoral or distasteful desire.

nothing immoral or distasteful about encouraging black woman to see themselves positively.

:laff: Webster’s dictionary head ass

You aren’t really capturing the spirit of the word by going by the textbook definition—-Yet it still checks the box

The distasteful part is ego. It makes perfect sense. Black women—-as an over-correction to their own self esteem issues—-now have this very off putting arrogance and damn near God complex masked as self love. ‘The black woman is god’ :scust: Or, ‘There nothing harder than being a black woman’ . Word?! Like, nothing else at all on earth? Idk Being a muslim woman in the Middle East might like a word :mjtf:

Or, go on IG when did it become acceptable for people to give themselves the compliment. ‘Damn Im so pretty’. I only see black women do that cringey low self esteem shyt. They goofy :heh: And yes any man feeding into that and calling it ‘encouraging to see themselves positively’ is the textbook definition of pandering
 

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Terrible thread, “dawg”.

There is nothing wrong with venting, however, venting without an interest in positive resolutions creates an environment of self-loathing and hateful rhetoric. The problem with these discussions is that a lot of you guys hold personal resentment and contempt for Black women due to personal experiences within your lives that these threads are never made in good faith but rather a circle jerk to “vent” with each other and further spew disparaging manifestations about your counterpart, our counterpart, Black women.

See, a lot of you guys, as I've been saying lately, have underlying feelings of guilt for the things you have done or didn't do throughout your lives that might've had negative consequences for the relationships within your communities and family, among other things, including failed and/or tension-filled relationships, platonically and romantically with Black women.

Instead of facing these internal issues within your souls, many of you chose to compartmentalize these thoughts, past, and future actions to justify and, in some ways, convince yourselves that you're a victim of neglect when the truth is, you're not innocent, neither am I, a lot of you and possibly even myself are just as responsible for the state of the community but are not emotionally capable of accepting part of the burden because mentally it's too much to bare.

Black women are not the reason why I or even some of you, maybe many of you are in the current situations in life that you are in today, the day when Black men decide to stop running from themselves and face these internal issues from within, will be the day when many can finally have a clear conscience and build for their community, their families, etc.



I typed a couple paragraphs about this reply and subsequently you and possibly your mother…but then I erased it just to ask this instead:




In your first full paragraph, you describe this thread as “spew(ing) disparaging manifestations about your counterpart, Black Women.”





If you believe that is what’s happening, then what’s wrong with that?
Because all it means to present “manifestations” is to show evidence or proof.

How can it be wrong or bad (in your opinion) for us to point out what has become “manifest”?
 

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Reported for anti Sistahood babble :mjpls:
Clearly that man manipulated her and lied about being a responsible and reputable citizen to get that sista. As soon as he got her, he flipped the script :mjpls:

Where did you even find this? Y’all just love to hate black women. The BW I know never pick these guys:mjpls:
One thing I will say is that in a way this is unfair in the sense that Black Men with good jobs ain’t really trying to floss bytches with blonde wigs like that.

Shorty is a hood chick and dating a hood nikka in her class.

I think the problem is people are equating Black people and nikkas in the same group. Professional Black women are a problem and are the main consumers of Divestor content but the Sexxy Redds of the world don’t want Professonal Black Men and Professional Black Men don’t want her.

Really we’re talking about two different types of people.
 

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I typed a couple paragraphs about this reply and subsequently you and possibly your mother…but then I erased it just to ask this instead:




In your first full paragraph, you describe this thread as “spew(ing) disparaging manifestations about your counterpart, Black Women.”





If you believe that is what’s happening, then what’s wrong with that?
Because all it means to present “manifestations” is to show evidence or proof.

How can it be wrong or bad (in your opinion) for us to point out what has become “manifest”?
It also is not flipped by the very many situations where Black women have vented their frustrations with Black Men

But some how that doesn’t matter.

Actually I do know why it doesn’t matter because deep down homie thinks everything women say is cap and hoe babble

so essentially he’s saying that what Black women say is not to be taken seriously but what we say is of the utmost importance
 
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Soooooo, her appearance didn’t tell you she’s bad news?

A woman who looks like this, and embodies the aesthetic of the streets, is going to want a street dude. Everybody isn’t for everybody. This woman isn’t going to fit in at your corporate Christmas party. She would have nothing of substance to talk about. There are always going to be people who can’t be saved.
 

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Soooooo, her appearance didn’t tell you she’s bad news?

A woman who looks like this, and embodies the aesthetic of the streets, is going to want a street dude. Everybody isn’t for everybody. This woman isn’t going to fit in at your corporate Christmas party. She would have nothing of substance to talk about. There are always going to be people who can’t be saved.
We agree.

I think she’s cute but it would be hard for me to be Pro Black and concerned with Black people’s image and take her around with me.

Again it’s the Blond weave. If she had a tasteful Black bussdown I could rock but not a Blonde weave. That would say something about me if I was standing with her.

Hood and not I never fukked with a girl who had a blonde weave not while she was wearing one.

Just a total difference in outlook. I can’t take women who eat pork seriously a blonde weave wouldn’t even be for recreational use for me.
 

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:laff: Webster’s dictionary head ass

You aren’t really capturing the spirit of the word by going by the textbook definition—-Yet it still checks the box

The distasteful part is ego. It makes perfect sense. Black women—-as an over-correction to their own self esteem issues—-now have this very off putting arrogance and damn near God complex masked as self love. ‘The black woman is god’ :scust: Or, ‘There nothing harder than being a black woman’ . Word?! Like, nothing else at all on earth? Idk Being a muslim woman in the Middle East might like a word :mjtf:

Or, go on IG when did it become acceptable for people to give themselves the compliment. ‘Damn Im so pretty’. I only see black women do that cringey low self esteem shyt. They goofy :heh: And yes any man feeding into that and calling it ‘encouraging to see themselves positively’ is the textbook definition of pandering



50 percent truth 50 percent tether babble.
 
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