You simply want to be able to talk down on black women and be supported in your BS, while not being introspective or offering / being apart of the solution.
You have had an echo chamber right here on TheColi for YEARS. It's still not enough hence you creating the same thread for the 75th time.
You don't ever consider Cause & Effect and seem to think that everything happens in a vacuum.
You have free will & agency over your mind (if you don't give way to toxic group-think and echo chambers) and your body (if you don't desire fat, single black women then don't entertain them on ANY level...then shut up about them because they are none of your concern or business.) If you want / date others then GO do it and shut the hell up about black women.
You have a good-hearted, good-natured, loving, wholesome girl whose only negative is wanting to "be up under you too much" and you reward her how? By being a cheating skunk INSTEAD of setting up & enforcing boundaries, defining the parameters of the relationship to sensibly meet both of your needs, communicating honestly with her, etc. or releasing her if she can't align herself with you. You chose to get on a message board and air her out instead of communicating your expectations and desires honestly & succinctly to her. The irony - You get a good woman and you give her the same ol' nasty you while butt-aching about the bad women who simply don't want and are sick & tired to death of the same ol' nasty you(s).
News flash - Via mico and macro aggressions black women are told all about their asses everyday - in her mind, in her formative years, in her broken home, in her peer group, in the music she listens to calling her bytches & hoes like it's her first and last name, on the television, on the job / pay, her image, in the marriage stats, etc, etc, etc.
The short of it all is be accountable and check yourself FIRST. Then after that laborious, on- going effort don't have shyt to say about black women if you are not actively wanting to honestly address and assist with issues. Otherwise, you are just being judgemental, hateful, and yapping about black women...and not much else.
PS - I am black first then a woman.
PPS - Good morning, Coli.
You have had an echo chamber right here on TheColi for YEARS. It's still not enough hence you creating the same thread for the 75th time.
You don't ever consider Cause & Effect and seem to think that everything happens in a vacuum.
You have free will & agency over your mind (if you don't give way to toxic group-think and echo chambers) and your body (if you don't desire fat, single black women then don't entertain them on ANY level...then shut up about them because they are none of your concern or business.) If you want / date others then GO do it and shut the hell up about black women.
You have a good-hearted, good-natured, loving, wholesome girl whose only negative is wanting to "be up under you too much" and you reward her how? By being a cheating skunk INSTEAD of setting up & enforcing boundaries, defining the parameters of the relationship to sensibly meet both of your needs, communicating honestly with her, etc. or releasing her if she can't align herself with you. You chose to get on a message board and air her out instead of communicating your expectations and desires honestly & succinctly to her. The irony - You get a good woman and you give her the same ol' nasty you while butt-aching about the bad women who simply don't want and are sick & tired to death of the same ol' nasty you(s).
News flash - Via mico and macro aggressions black women are told all about their asses everyday - in her mind, in her formative years, in her broken home, in her peer group, in the music she listens to calling her bytches & hoes like it's her first and last name, on the television, on the job / pay, her image, in the marriage stats, etc, etc, etc.
The short of it all is be accountable and check yourself FIRST. Then after that laborious, on- going effort don't have shyt to say about black women if you are not actively wanting to honestly address and assist with issues. Otherwise, you are just being judgemental, hateful, and yapping about black women...and not much else.
PS - I am black first then a woman.
PPS - Good morning, Coli.
