Lying and Pandering to Black Women is part of Black Culture and it has ruined them.

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You simply want to be able to talk down on black women and be supported in your BS, while not being introspective or offering / being apart of the solution.
You have had an echo chamber right here on TheColi for YEARS. It's still not enough hence you creating the same thread for the 75th time.

You don't ever consider Cause & Effect and seem to think that everything happens in a vacuum.
You have free will & agency over your mind (if you don't give way to toxic group-think and echo chambers) and your body (if you don't desire fat, single black women then don't entertain them on ANY level...then shut up about them because they are none of your concern or business.) If you want / date others then GO do it and shut the hell up about black women.

You have a good-hearted, good-natured, loving, wholesome girl whose only negative is wanting to "be up under you too much" and you reward her how? By being a cheating skunk INSTEAD of setting up & enforcing boundaries, defining the parameters of the relationship to sensibly meet both of your needs, communicating honestly with her, etc. or releasing her if she can't align herself with you. You chose to get on a message board and air her out instead of communicating your expectations and desires honestly & succinctly to her. The irony - You get a good woman and you give her the same ol' nasty you while butt-aching about the bad women who simply don't want and are sick & tired to death of the same ol' nasty you(s).

News flash - Via mico and macro aggressions black women are told all about their asses everyday - in her mind, in her formative years, in her broken home, in her peer group, in the music she listens to calling her bytches & hoes like it's her first and last name, on the television, on the job / pay, her image, in the marriage stats, etc, etc, etc.

The short of it all is be accountable and check yourself FIRST. Then after that laborious, on- going effort don't have shyt to say about black women if you are not actively wanting to honestly address and assist with issues. Otherwise, you are just being judgemental, hateful, and yapping about black women...and not much else.

PS - I am black first then a woman.

PPS - Good morning, Coli.
The anger in this post :huhldup:





A cheating skunk:mjlol:





She ain't even replying to nobody (I could be wrong I ain't reading this whole thread) she's responding from a broken heart. Must've happened recently






:mjlol:
 

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Rise up!
The anger in this post :huhldup:





A cheating skunk:mjlol:





She ain't even replying to nobody (I could be wrong I ain't reading this whole thread) she's responding from a broken heart. Must've happened recently






:mjlol:
I hope nobody read that drivel bc I didn’t. Hit dogs certainly hollering :umad:

She can take it up with the dudes that wronged her :yeshrug:
 

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The problem is as a COLLECTIVE Black men do not really have a the power to put Black women 'in check' unless that changes it won't reverse itself in any meaningfuk way.
They got a co-sign from Goldman Sachs that involves REAL capital

Brehs that dap nikkas all day infront of gas stations cant put shyt like that on check with “game”. You’re gonna need working organized institutions that pull resources up from the ground and feed bellies
 

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Lying is a Human past time. Every group gets lied to or lied on, and all of them are full of people who prefer the beautiful lies to the unvarnished Truth. This is not something unique to our communitie, this is a problem that we as a collective human species possess.

That lies, bamboozling, pandering, and desires of such has slowed the emotional maturity development of mankind down, even though overall mankind is pushing upwards towards a greater mental maturity. It is just unfortunate that it is at a snails pace, compared to what it could be if we were actual lovers of the Truth, instead of purveyors of "My Truths".

So no, you can't lay this only at the feet of our community or look at it only as something that has affected our sisters (or in the reverse our brothers). We have to see the whole picture and accept that what is happening happens to us all. No group is free of this problem, because the problem is endemic to all mankind.

Edit: Though, as it pertains to the circumstances of my ethnicity here in the US, I do believe we can't afford the comfortable lies if we want to better our position.
 

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The anger in this post :huhldup:





A cheating skunk:mjlol:





She ain't even replying to nobody (I could be wrong I ain't reading this whole thread) she's responding from a broken heart. Must've happened recently






:mjlol:
I was thinking she was talking to @Stuntone
Maybe because she knows him

I didnt even address that wild if she channeled her emotions about person situation in this thread.

That would be like me bringing up my rape accusation and blaming it on Black women generally

In my situation even though I never choose her I chose wrong
 

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I don’t post weird shyt I see on the internet here but this is ...


A Popular TikTok Couple's Relationship Takes a Tragic Turn
They’re starting with the data. According to United StatesCensus data, Black wife - white husband marriages have the lowest rates of divorce, being 44 percent less likely to split up than other groups – something TikToker @sultanofsavageshared online.





And there are plenty of real-life examples on social media.
There’s Bria, who shares her adventures with her love Simon with her over 56,000 TikTok followers.


“Me in 2025 in Jesus mighty name 🙏🏽,” wrote a hopeful commenter who hopes to find her Simon on one of her posts.



And there’s Praise & Jake who received over 17,000 likes on their TikTok post encouraging people to “love who you choose to.”
“I’m a Black woman married to a white man. It doesn’t mean I don’t like my own race. It just means I wouldn’t let race get in the way of my happiness,” reads the text over their post.



And there’s @34jakethemenace34, who shared his love for Black women on his page.
“Overall, I truly believe no woman will ever have your back like a Black woman,” he says in his post.



But ladies, if you decide to give white guys a try, dating coach Anwar White has some advice.


In a clip he posted on TikTok, he suggests Italian men, Jewish

https://www.theroot.com/everyone-has-a-say-on-why-black-women-and-white-men-mak-1851722090
https://kotaku.com/black-myth-wukong-the-game-awards-winner-1851721695
There was no pushback yet massive concern when a breh dates out.

But nah Black women don’t like white boys...

https://kotaku.com/marvel-rivals-hero-shooter-free-skins-ps5-psplus-1851721614
https://kotaku.com/silo-apple-tv-renewed-season-2-fallout-amazon-1851721881

https://kotaku.com/marvel-rivals-jeff-shark-free-skin-christmas-update-ps5-1851722111
 

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You're not wrong but not just BW themselves but the whole culture. We've been following their lead and overall we're weaker for it because young women know nothing but emotion and are trifling and females in general hide behind femininity and don't like to take accountability.
 

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You got sex workers , strippers, and thots giving relationship advice and being at the forefront for many bw. Bitter single moms are raising boys to hate themselves and not be leaders.

And we got a group of men who are in their 40-50s that are still 19 mentally.
 
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You simply want to be able to talk down on black women and be supported in your BS, while not being introspective or offering / being apart of the solution.
You have had an echo chamber right here on TheColi for YEARS. It's still not enough hence you creating the same thread for the 75th time.

You don't ever consider Cause & Effect and seem to think that everything happens in a vacuum.
You have free will & agency over your mind (if you don't give way to toxic group-think and echo chambers) and your body (if you don't desire fat, single black women then don't entertain them on ANY level...then shut up about them because they are none of your concern or business.) If you want / date others then GO do it and shut the hell up about black women.

You have a good-hearted, good-natured, loving, wholesome girl whose only negative is wanting to "be up under you too much" and you reward her how? By being a cheating skunk INSTEAD of setting up & enforcing boundaries, defining the parameters of the relationship to sensibly meet both of your needs, communicating honestly with her, etc. or releasing her if she can't align herself with you. You chose to get on a message board and air her out instead of communicating your expectations and desires honestly & succinctly to her. The irony - You get a good woman and you give her the same ol' nasty you while butt-aching about the bad women who simply don't want and are sick & tired to death of the same ol' nasty you(s).

News flash - Via mico and macro aggressions black women are told all about their asses everyday - in her mind, in her formative years, in her broken home, in her peer group, in the music she listens to calling her bytches & hoes like it's her first and last name, on the television, on the job / pay, her image, in the marriage stats, etc, etc, etc.

The short of it all is be accountable and check yourself FIRST. Then after that laborious, on- going effort don't have shyt to say about black women if you are not actively wanting to honestly address and assist with issues. Otherwise, you are just being judgemental, hateful, and yapping about black women...and not much else.

PS - I am black first then a woman.

PPS - Good morning, Coli.
Hope you saved this cause this will by far be the last time you need to use it.... You had time today.. :salute:
 
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