Bugatti Biceps
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"peaceful section"
"I want a productive conversation."
This is a serious topic to discuss, but you are woefully unprepared to have it if this is your idea of "productive".
Let's Discuss: Between 40-60% of Black Women have been Sexually Abused before the Age of 18
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"peaceful section"
"I want a productive conversation."
This is a serious topic to discuss, but you are woefully unprepared to have it if this is your idea of "productive".
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
I think religion is a big factor and the fact that people automatically relate the body to sex. I can say vagina and people may start thinking about sex when there are many things associated with the vagina like child birth. You'd be surprised at how many grown adults do not know how to wipe their butts. Also there is this whole, "Don't come home pregnant or don't get a woman pregnant" but no talk about sex, STD's/STI's, raising children, safe sex, birth control, and etc.
@bcrusaderw that's true, honestly anybody who does this to kids whether the kids are male or female deserves to die. i can't understand what goes through people's heads man, they sick and need to be in a mental institute son.
Bugatti Biceps
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Exactly. A lot of black people are on the same tip as Sarah Palin or were raised by families with that mentality and don't even realize it. Sex education is sorely lacking, as is the whole "its incumbent on the child to show more sense than the rapist adult" shyt, plus the "I don't want to believe that the family friend/person I'm fukking would do this to my child". Denial is much easier than actually facing the issue, so its no surprise that's the route a lot of parents take.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
i pray for those women who have to deal with this disgusting abuse
anybody who has the nerve to sexually touch a young girl and knows that this can mess her up mentally needs to die, cause you are one sick motherfukker forreal.
i heard some crazy ass stories of girls back in school who had issues with their families cause their father or other relative rapes them, this shyt needs to end in our community man.
One thing that I know from experience about family incest is that 9 times out 10 the parents or gaurdian knows, but ignore it. A childhood friend of mine was being molested by her step father. She used to tell me things like how big her step fathers penis is. I would think, "
thats your step father. ". There is no way a child is being molested a parent and the other parent is in the house but does not know. When thwy do find out they either ignore it take action. You would be surprised at how many ignore it.
Create threads on subjects you have surface level knowledge of
Just stop. You have absolutely nothing insightful to add. A quick Google search would point you to a plethora of articles studying childhood psychology and abuse. When you've properly educated yourself on the subject feel free to add something to the discussion.
"peaceful section"
"I want a productive conversation."
This is a serious topic to discuss, but you are woefully unprepared to have it if this is your idea of "productive".
Or the courses I took from world leading researchers on the topic
Reported for derailing.
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Bugatti Biceps
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You derailed your own topic in the 3rd post. Did you report yourself as well or nah?
@Poitier there are tons of reports about victim blaming when it comes to rape at any age, this is a known fact. With adults its more overt "what were you wearing" but in children its far more covert, with "you sure that's what happened?" and "stop telling stories, you could get someone in trouble". With children its less malicious and more denial due to the severity of it. A lot of parents rather stick their heads in the sand than actually have to deal with it, because then its police, court dates, child has to keep reliving the trauma, family might disown you if its a well liked relative, and if it was a boyfriend or girlfriend, folks are going to blame you for allowing them access to your children. It's really just a huge huge mess.
This topic is so far reaching. You bring up another important point about mental illness. Mental illness is already treated poorly in most of America, but in our community it's even more overlooked. People who need treatment are not getting it. Though I'm not sure of my opinion on the ability to treat sex offenders. I believe that I read somewhere that they have lower recidivism rates than the general popp., so that should be taken into consideration when deciding how to punish them.
I'd like to know how they're defining "abuse." These figures seem grossly inflated to me, tbh. They strike me as not dissimilar to the incredibly dubious statistic of "1 in 4 women being raped on college campuses."
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Reported for derailing. I cannot derail my own thread as I decide it's premise and direction. Stop derailing this thread.
Ok and? Thats not why the majority of child abuse isn't punished. Recognition, emotional trauma and reliability are. This is basic 101 stuff.
Bugatti Biceps
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You seem to only want to address me and not address the topic nor any of the points I bring up. So that means if you can't derail the topic, but decide the direction, by choosing to address my gripe and myself instead of the points I bring up in relation to the topic, my responses to your personal attacks can't be derailment. That's how logic works. You want this to end? Address my points about the topic and stop addressing me, also admitting your 3rd post was fukkery would go a long way as well.
Bugatti Biceps
Supreme Hacker
Let's discuss the second 2 points.
Yes, most parents don't want to subject their child to repeated emotional trauma. But they do that by falling back on denial, and then when questioned about why they deny it, they inevitably blame the child using your third point, reliability. The human mind isn't reliable period, but for someone not to believe a young child about something like that (when the child wouldn't contain knowledge of sexual actions any other way), seems weird as shyt to me.