Let's Discuss: Between 40-60% of Black Women have been Sexually Abused before the Age of 18

[agnosticlady]

Even though you started with immediately taking shots, so tit for tat on this dikk. If you wanted a productive conversation then you shouldnt have made that post.

Point being for everyone else that's interested in a discussion, I know quite a few black women who were molested by women who didn't see it as molestation until they were adults because their rapist was a woman.

Yes this ia true. When I was a child the person that tried to molest me was a fanily fenale friend who was watching my siblings and I while my mother gave birth.I know several other men and women who were molested by women. Also the sexual abuse of black children by other black children often goes unheard. Many kids are imitating what they saw.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Thread turned south kinda fast. Thats a shame.

Derailers have been reported, so it should be back on track soon enough.

 

[Poitier]

I disagree, but that's not what the comment you quoted was about, nor was that what my response was about.

You said something completely untrue so your comment isn't about anything.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

Also the sexual abuse of black children by other black children often goes unheard.

Very true. That's usually hidden under the guise of "playing doctor" or whatever, but it also assumes willingness on the parts of the participants due to similarities in age, but from talking with both men and women it isn't always the case.

 

[bcrusaderw]

You said something completely untrue so your comment isn't about anything.

Children are OFTEN blamed for being abused. You clearly have no insight to this discussion.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

Also, I think is a big factor is the forced silence on black children. You get instilled from a young age, "children are to be seen and not heard" in a lot of black families, so when a situation does happen, you don't think you can tell anyone because "I cant interrupt adults", "I can't tell on an adult", and "the person who molested me says we will both get in trouble and I dont want to get in trouble."

 

[agnosticlady]

Very true. That's usually hidden under the guise of "playing doctor" or whatever, but it also assumes willingness on the parts of the participants due to similarities in age, but from talking with both men and women it isn't always the case.

All of this makes me SMH. I do not see myself leaving my kids around others when I have them, because I am afraid of what can happen. Babies have it the worst because they have no idea what is going on. I feel like more parents need to talk to their children and their body at a young age.

 

[Blackout]

It should be talked about more and not a topic that gets avoided until it actually happens.

 

[RC998]

i pray for those women who have to deal with this disgusting abuse

anybody who has the nerve to sexually touch a young girl and knows that this can mess her up mentally needs to die, cause you are one sick motherfukker forreal.

i heard some crazy ass stories of girls back in school who had issues with their families cause their father or other relative rapes them, this shyt needs to end in our community man.

 

[Poitier]

Children are OFTEN blamed for being abused.

Children aren't refusing to come out due to fear of victim blaming. Maybe try reading up on the subject.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

All of this makes me SMH. I do not see myself leaving my kids around others when I have them, because I am afraid of what can happen. Babies have it the worst because they have no idea what is going on. I feel like more parents need to talk to their children and their body at a young age.

Black parents are notoriously terrible at having this discussion for a variety of reasons, from religious to the fact they don't know their own bodies as grown ass adults.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Children aren't refusing to come out due to fear of victim blaming. Maybe try reading up on the subject.

You truly are a moron.

 

[agnosticlady]

Also, I think is a big factor is the forced silence on black children. You get instilled from a young age, "children are to be seen and not heard" in a lot of black families, so when a situation does happen, you don't think you can tell anyone because "I cant interrupt adults", "I can't tell on an adult", and "the person who molested me says we will both get in trouble and I dont want to get in trouble."

This is true. The parents do not keep an open line for discussions so that their child can come to them whenever. Also there are parents who do ignore the child and deflect instead of taking on the person who abused them. They may say something like, "Oh what are you doing talking to them in the first place", " You are lying...So and so is good people. I know what they are capable of!" . People do not realize the impact that can have on a child.

 

[bcrusaderw]

i pray for those women who have to deal with this disgusting abuse

anybody who has the nerve to sexually touch a young girl and knows that this can mess her up mentally needs to die, cause you are one sick motherfukker forreal.

i heard some crazy ass stories of girls back in school who had issues with their families cause their father or other relative rapes them, this shyt needs to end in our community man.

Though not the topic of discussion people who abuse male children deserve the same.

 

[Poitier]

You truly are a moron.

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