Let's Discuss: Between 40-60% of Black Women have been Sexually Abused before the Age of 18

[Poitier]

This is case for most rape reports, or recalling memory in general.

No this is not the norm for teens and adults.

Hell, I can implant a childhood memory in you as an adult that never happened through the power of suggestion. The human brain is very fallible.

And it would get tossed out just like an adult realizing they were raped 10 years after the fact UNLESS it was a serial rapist.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

I respectfully disagree with this statement. I'm not sure if there's been cases of children being blamed for their own abuse in a sexual manner. If this was about domestic abuse, I would find this more plausible; however sexual abuse I'm having a hard time with. Just my opinion!

I've seen tons of young girls being labeled as "fast in the ass" and other shyt like that, meanwhile they look at the grown men oogling the child like

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

And it would get tossed out just like an adult realizing they were raped 10 years after the fact UNLESS it was a serial rapist.

Problem is that it shouldn't get tossed out because
1) some people don't realized they were raped until they are adults and find out what that adult did to them was wrong
2) you make the assumption that every parents has the "no no zone" talk with their children. A lot of parents don't.

 

[agnosticlady]

That falls into a lot of black children growing up in homes with a single mother, and the value they learn of a woman is only sexual. nikkas in and out of the house, etc etc. A good chunk of the black women I know who were molested as kids it happened at the hands of nikkas their moms were fukking with. Black children that grow up in a home where the mother only sees herself having valuable if men want to have sex with her crosses over to both the boys and the girls. The girls only see themselves as sexual objects, and their self esteem being dependent on how many boys/men want to fukk them, and boys see women as sexual objects to acquire and dominate, and if you are exposed to girls as young as 10 acting that way as a young boy, when you reach manhood they use that to justify pursuing young girls sexually.

This reminds me of Blac Chyna and her mother. A lot of mothers try to live vicariously through their daughters.

 

[Poitier]

1) some people don't realized they were raped until they are adults and find out what that adult did to them was wrong

Sure it should. Its not reliable.

2) you make the assumption that every parents has the "no no zone" talk with their children. A lot of parents don't.

Thats my exact point Not that it is a solution to prosecuting child rape due to reliability.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

How many young girls are called "fast" when they reveal that they have been sexual relationships whether consensual or not with adult males? That's just one example.


Actually you're correct about that. I didn't look at that more throughly, I was looking through the prism of younger girls being sexual harassed. I didn't expand to over 13 years old. I give you that one. My apologies!

 

[FTBS]

I believe it. Go spend some time at a facility or home for at-risk girls, you will think the numbers are even higher. I've gotten to the point where I can pretty much spot a chick that has been abused. I am also very aware of predatory traits as well. It's some really sick fukks out here and you have to be extremely careful and vigilant in regards to who you leave your children around. As crazy as it may sound, it's even worse for boys. It may not be everybody, but somebody is gonna listen with care and empathy to a young lady that has been abused. Nobody is trying to hear about a male being abused, and certainly not in a supportive and understanding way.

 

[Poitier]

I believe it. Go spend some time at a facility or home for at-risk girls, you will think the numbers are even higher. I've gotten to the point where I can pretty much spot a chick that has been abused. I am also very aware of predatory traits as well. It's some really sick fukks out here and you have to be extremely careful and vigilant in regards to who you leave your children around. As crazy as it may sound, it's even worse for boys. It may not be everybody, but somebody is gonna listen with care and empathy to a young lady that has been abused. Nobody is trying to hear about a male being abused, and certainly not in a supportive and understanding way.

Most of us men don't realize it until well after. Some never do.

 

[FTBS]

I've seen tons of young girls being labeled as "fast in the ass" and other shyt like that, meanwhile they look at the grown men oogling the child like

Based on my experience, I think this actually comes first but I am not challenging your overall point though.

 

[FTBS]

Most of us men don't realize it until well after. Some never do.

Thing is, I have encountered some young cats that know exactly what happened and they are shamed into being "tough" and a "real man" and therefore acting like it didn't happen.

 

[agnosticlady]

I respectfully disagree with this statement. I'm not sure if there's been cases of children being blamed for their own abuse in a sexual manner. If this was about domestic abuse, I would find this more plausible; however sexual abuse I'm having a hard time with. Just my opinion!

A lot of children (I'm willing to bet over 70%) are ignored and/or blamed if they are being sexually abused. This goes back to me posting earlier that people have the thought that a rapist is a man who just hides in the corner and jumps on their child. I'm willing to bet that many parents/guardians are willing to hurt to go after some random person who hurt their child than someone in the family. People who live around you and are in your circle have access to your schedule, life, and etc. They more than likely have your every move down to the tea. My family friend was sexually molested by her next door neighbors when she was 5 and 9. Those boys were int heir teens (14/17) when they molested.The 14 year old was later killed because he got caught molesting someones young daughter. He was shot in the head by the uncle. When they reported being molested/rape they are dismissed, called fast, liars, told that they just hate that family member, to pray about it, and etc.

 

[Poitier]

Thing is, I have encountered some young cats that know exactly what happened and they are shamed into being "tough" and a "real man" and therefore acting like it didn't happen.

I don't know. Usually many wear it like a badge of honor. FYI only talking female-male rape, Eddie Long type stuff is another can of worms.

 

[agnosticlady]

Thing is, I have encountered some young cats that know exactly what happened and they are shamed into being "tough" and a "real man" and therefore acting like it didn't happen.

Yep...I have seen several cases where a young boy is either molested by a female his age or older and those around him or in the comment section (if it is public news) will say things like, "He is a p*ssy for speaking up", "I would have kept my mouth shut", "He is a bytch nikka for not liking it", "I wish someone was touching me at 8 years old", and the list goes on. Then there are some who like it. The problem with this is not realizing the error and then going to inflict that type of abuse on others.

 

[Poitier]

A lot of children (I'm willing to bet over 70%) are ignored and/or blamed if they are being sexually abused.

 

[agnosticlady]

Problem?