Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[semicko82]

Yes if not, they enable/commend it.

No I have to disagree. Y'all watch too much TV.

 

[13473]

so yall are seeing random black couples and assuming the dude is a thug since she's with him?

 

[Nokids]

Had my share of tatted, red head baddies that suck ya dikk with two hands while demonic music is in the background but they are boring and are easily turnt off due to not knowing a real man is one with emotions and not some ass nikka.

I really just started messing with black girls that grew up around white people and they’re fun as fukk to be around. Another 1b is bw that went to college they also are dope to be around. Just make sure her friends she left in the hood aren’t ratchets who got scammer nikkas willing to buy whatever all it takes is one night out with them and she’s gone forever

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

when i (rarely) wear my shadow’s or my 5s i get the “you got moneyyy” thing
a lot more stares instantly.

but when i wear my dirty forces the tide shifts back to equilibrium


i run observational studies on these hoes on purpose for my own satisfaction cause idc anymore.. but idk why our community is set up so extra like this. hyper materialistic. the shallowness/tackiness makes me itch

What is a shadow and a 5 and how do they signify money? Jordan 5s, really?

 

[africngiant]

What is a shadow and a 5 and how do they signify money? Jordan 5s, really?

im college aged around gen z chicks and they can’t see past immediate impressions. i usually dress street casual but flex culture got them all on a leash. it’s dudes that buy $500 shoes just to wear for one post cause they know the clout and respect that comes from it. im built now so idrc like i used to. our community puts it on the pedestal the most it’s a lil weird to me to see the depths nikkas will go

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

You're not the first person to come on here and pretend that black women are the problem and all you gotta do is date out.

htl[QUOTE="semicko82, post: 4645641...hat it No one said they only date hood dudes

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

im college aged around gen z chicks and they can’t see past immediate impressions. i usually dress street casual but flex culture got them all on a leash. it’s dudes that buy $500 shoes just to wear for one post cause they know the clout and respect that comes from it. im built now so idrc like i used to. our community puts it on the pedestal the most it’s a lil weird to me to see the depths nikkas will go

I understand what you saying. Makes sense.

Still don't know what a "shadow" is though.

 

[africngiant]

I understand what you saying. Makes sense.

Still don't know what a "shadow" is though.

it’s one of the valuable Jordan 1 releases. i can’t do the continuous keeping up with the joneses anymore, it’s a never ending loop. i don’t even wear the shyt anymore but the resale is like $550.

i rock dirty ones like the white girls do now

it’s obviously still good enough for them

 

[Rell Lauren]

All you can do is be yourself. If women can't accept you for that, then they're not for you.

 

[Braman]

You could argue black men can't afford to be goofy at all, ever. There's very little margin for error for a black man in America and most of us aren't afforded second chances in life. Women are looking for people who can protect them. I don't blame black women for not wanting to be around that shyt

Man gtfoh with this. My goodness. I used to lurk back in the day took a break and came back and mfers don’t even talk the same. Yll really been corrupted with that ‘whoa is me’ female energy. That victim shyt is not what we do

“It’s hard to even step out my house as black man …the weight of oppression opens the door and pushes me back in” head ass

 

[semicko82]

Man gtfoh with this. My goodness. I used to lurk back in the day took a break and came back and mfers don’t even talk the same. Yll really been corrupted with that ‘whoa is me’ female energy. That victim shyt is not what we do

“It’s hard to even step out my house as black man …the weight of oppression opens the door and pushes me back in” head ass

Yea shyt is getting dark around here. The energy is off

 

[Braman]

If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is

This is gospel.

Perfect example I have a friend who’s a DJ, so he’s def not a typical “square”. Dude looks younger than his age, in shape but he’s not really from the culture. Typical Cali dude who grew up around white folk. So he messes with white or Latina chicks. His new gf is a BAD Latina joint, he’s 35 she’s 25 slim thick, quiet, all she do is laugh and look around amazed when we all cuttin up. Like the perfect play the background and stfu chick.

Ffwd he comes to the city the biggest lounge in town, all the pretentious nightlife vibes, cats don’t do button ups no more everyone dressed like a D boy. And that’s what chicks going after. He’s got a collar shirt dressed like he goin to the frat party. …but he got the baddest joint in there. Like once you strip away the designer and makeup and pretentiousness , his chick badder than all of em. Plus he’s a DJ unbeknownst to them he the one with connections, etc. He looked like a fish outta water tho. That’s the culture in a nutshell.

 

[Carlton Banks]

This is honestly a very important question and discussion that needs to be taken more seriously

 

[Carlton Banks]

Makes me not respect them, honestly. Grown men sitting around justifying their choices, answering to folks. It's weak af.

But don't women spend their time actively questioning black men on their choices tho?