Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[Gloxina]

Yes the hell you r out of touch

You think these chicks move with shame of liking city girls

These bytches r unapologetic and let it be known from their social media, talking, copycatting off them they like that THOT shyt

Espescially women who r say above avg looking(7-straight dimes) they bank on the fact that a nikka wants them cause they bad/fine andwe'll overlook that flaw

Y’all are talking about a certain class of women. That’s my point. You can be pretty and attempt to get by on your looks and not be a City Girls fan. I’m saying there’s a certain class of woman who knows when to tuck certain things away.

YES, way more of our girls are unfortunately being influenced by social media, but young women who actually have some sense and are at least a bit concerned about their future aren’t this dumb.

Trust- I disgusted my family with the crazy long nails, stiletto nails, various hair styles (they HATE weaves), etc when I started undergrad. That was my way of experimenting with my look and “rebelling” because I was locked in prep school my whole life. Guess what? I got it out of my system and started looking preppy again within a few years. Why? Because I realized it was time to put that stuff away, and because other girls came to the same realization and the other girls were walking around looking classic and preppy too.

Y’all are talking about women who are stuck in that phase because that’s actually who they are. It isn’t a phase. There are 50YO women probably listening to CG too. And those would be old hoodrats. 20 years ago they were the 30 year olds listening to Lil Kim when all the other women had already stopped. The women you’re talking about will be the old birds of tomorrow.

 

[Gloxina]

I DON'T GET IT EITHER. CATS TRY TO DATE WOMEN FROM THE CLUB AND GET MAD BECAUSE THEY WANT TO GO OUT TO THE CLUB. MIND BE BLOWN.

Thank.You.

 

[Gloxina]

Negged for schooling these goofy mufukkaz.

How I feel when ppl school some women lol

 

[Will Ross]

No, we can't, especially brothers that live in poor areas.

 

[Peauxboy]

Some of you brehs PATHETIC!!


Question for corny gang.

What happens when stylish, handsome and/or charismatic gang, crash y’all lil anime convention you thought you was about to eat at?

Some of the goofy anime pawgs be thicc too….and oblivious to it

Spoiler

Edit: Seriously though, start putting yourselves out there. BE YOURSELF, CONFIDENTLY and you’ll eat. If you got them laughing with you and not at you, you got their attention. Use it while you have it.

 

[Gloxina]

I don’t know a single black man with his shyt together that is lacking in high quality options.

I really don’t understand how you all think it’s that bad out there unless you have nothing going for you.

Dating in NYC whether you want top shelf black women or other races is easy as fukk.

I’m saying. Quality men have options on top of options! It’s not even funny

 

[Houston911]

I don’t know a single black man with his shyt together that is lacking in high quality options.

I really don’t understand how you all think it’s that bad out there unless you have nothing going for you.

Dating in NYC whether you want top shelf black women or other races is easy as fukk.

Dudes be telling on themselves

If you can’t get women then YOU’RE the problem big dawg

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I don't know why its so hard for people to grasp that the kind of women you want will be found at the kinds of locations where you congregate around something you like.

If you like to get silly, you go to an improv night and you'll find black women there laughing along at the same things.

If you like to get philosophical, you'll find the black women who will do that with you at TED talks and other speaking events.

If you like astronomy, and want to kick it with women who will throw out theories about sci fi and faster than light travel, you'll see them at planetariums and sci fi conventions.

Black women aren't a monolith. So many of you so called 'brehs' seem to think that most black women are like the ones you see on social media chasing clout. Free your mind.

This is a very good post.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

I'm just here for the easily triggered militant posts. I didn't even skim the photos. If pawg is in the title they will show up like flies on shyt.

 

[Leao2005]

If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is

Thread

 

[Concerned Citizen]

We need a “c00n Alley” sub where we can dump the IR dating appreciation posts, PAWG/PAAG/Latina posts, and IR dating think pieces cause a lot of y’all brehs are ODing on that shyt…

 

[jerzboy]

No, we can't, especially brothers that live in poor areas.

Not true... I’ve seen dudes from all demos pull all types of women. Honestly, I’ve seen what folks identify as Instagram models pulled by dudes who most would classify as poor. Charisma and confidence go a long way with women. Having conversations is key and you, whatever you identify as, can pull a lot of women from all demos with that. Honestly a lot, of dudes don’t recognize signals women give... women be open, but folks don’t catch the signals...

 

[jerzboy]

A lot of y’all are sheltered and/or haven’t experienced life. It’s funny cause a lot of the girls y’all consider dimes end up dating/marrying what most would define as corny, goofy funny.

Again, it really comes down to confidence and feeling protected. U master that and your good. Not saying ur going to pull every dime you see, cause the dudes y’all would define as cool don’t even do tgst, but it’s a numbers game and eventually you will find what u like.... also get ur money up

 

[Killer Instinct]

Brothas who pawg may have a higher earning potential and life expectancy

 

[jerzboy]

Correct.

White bytches never gave a fukk about my outfit...I could get a white bytch with jesus sandals on.

But black women go crazyyyyyy when they see me drippin lmfaoooooo

Not true, or maybe it just applies to me, not ugly gang, but I always had a different style then what was popular/common, and women loved it. Currently have a rock style and the women in la love it. Everybody dressed in ‘drip’, mg shyt is regular and I get looks/approached by women of all races (Black women highly included). In fact, if I’m having lunch with a woman who isn’t black, the girls get bad looks from them. I highly believe it’s confidence, personality, and the ability to hold conversations.