Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[Gloxina]

Most preppy black people have spent their lives running away from blackness, or weren't raised to have any in the first place

This is the side effect of black people moving to the suburbs and raising their kid around white people, but that's another thread

 

[Raphaello]

Dudes come here and complain about a subset of black women that don’t give a damn about your life. They ain’t checking for you because they don’t want you. It’s really that simple. Have some self respect and stop worrying about people who don’t know you exist.

 

[filial_piety]

Of course. That's what's behind all of these comments. Nikkas don't want other black men walking away It's kinda Un-Harlem to be honest. The more nikkas that check out as competition in the black dating world should mean more black women for them. So.....they should be happy. But the reality is they know deep down that if too many of us start dropping out, that spells trouble for the whole community. They can't criticize the women though because that wouldn't be pro-black so they gotta gaslight the men. Also, to show how confused these nikkas are....they calling everybody in here lame but, also revered Kevin Samuels as the next prophet of Muhammad when the nikka said the same thing.

everything you said was spot on but the bolded was ...i think alot what you said contributes to the fact that the BC is largely a matriarchy...and within society BP really never hold black women's feet to the fire...but people are quick to critique the men while protecting the "backbone" of the community at all costs and for alot of BM that is some way of proving that they are super "pro-black"...but for some odd reason, entertaining the views of BM isn't really held in the same light..

from what I've noticed...the trend has been pretty consistent on all platforms...if a BW complains about the lack of eligible black men, then the validity of black male (across the board) underachievement, "colorism", and our problems regarding infidelity are discussed as real problems from both genders...people take these discussions seriously and a lot of posters genuinely believe that there needs to be a change.....BUT the second a few BM begin to discuss BW having a preference for thugs...then we get lectures about how they are complaining and need to work on themselves lol.

Black men complain about black women wanting thugs and threfore have a problem getting dates gets this reaction...



Black women calls black men unemployed, colorist junkies and criminals...leading to her lack of dating prospects and everyone goes...

 

[Wild self]

Hi

Hiphop culture has been a stain on the Black community

That shyt permeates through every level of Black life when you’re young, and if you don’t have the right people around you, you may be taking all of your cues from the media as you age.

I applaud the parents who are strict and keep their kids away from mainstream Black culture. It's sad to say, but entertainment really does lead our community.

The (real) preachers and community organizers are supposed to lead (after your own parents/family, of course).

ratchet culture been pushed to black kids as the norm and is vulgar and explicit, even among adults.

 

[African Peasant]

Just date out. No need to find reasons.

Nobody gonna do anything to you.

 

[Manolo]

The ones who say that "all black women want thugs" probably want this type of girl:

Those types usually want guys similar to this:

I look like a darker version of this nikka on the left. I guess, based on this post, that explains why I don’t relate to this site’s struggles with black women. I’m educated but I don’t get called square and I guess that’s because of my “look”

 

[Henri Christophe]

I’m educated but I don’t get called square and I guess that’s because of my “look”

I dropped out of college, but I come from an excellent family.

Never had problems with hoes cause I always been well dressed since 14 years old.

Being poorly-dressed would get you roasted in school & from the older men in my family.

My dress code always been my cheat code.... walk in the room and the hoes pay attention.

 

[Manolo]

I dropped out of college, but I come from an excellent family.

Never had problems with hoes cause I always been well dressed since 14 years old.

Being poorly-dressed would get you roasted in school & from the older men in my family.

My dress code always been my cheat code.... walk in the room and the hoes pay attention.

Yeah, being from Brooklyn, it was always natural for me to be fly. I got voted best dressed in 8th grade and am known for my style even today. This thread is making me realize how big of a factor your fashion plays in the specific types of women you attract. It seems like the “square” label has more to do with a non-fashionable/trendy/urban appearance than whether you work a 9-5

 

[Henri Christophe]

It seems like the “square” label has more to do with a non-fashionable/trendy/urban appearance

Correct.

White bytches never gave a fukk about my outfit...I could get a white bytch with jesus sandals on.

But black women go crazyyyyyy when they see me drippin lmfaoooooo

 

[CopiousX]

See all this fly shyt you are kicking is true. But why do all that. When you can just do THIS?




Got these nikkas out here asking you how they can be tougher

Mannnnn if you dont sit yo ass down and go grab you a Rebecca and stop tryin to be a crash test dummy

nikkas gotta just get in where they fit in. If that street shyt aint natural for ya just play ya lane.

This gotta be the official coli PAWG gif

 

[timeless]

Of course! There's someone for everyone, and you don't have to date outside of your race to find them... Unless you want to. ❤

 

[CopiousX]

hungarian?

I thought the h meant hawaian...




I dont even know what the last acronym is referring to. Just Looks like a TV serial number to me.

 

[CHICAGO]

THIS SUB FORUM HAS
OFFICIALLY JUMPED THE SHARK.



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[BobbyWojak]

Just date out. No need to find reasons.

Nobody gonna do anything to you.

People will definitely treat you differently, I've seen it, from light jokes to social exclusion especially if your social circle is Black.

 

[African Peasant]

People will definitely treat you differently, I've seen it, from light jokes to social exclusion especially if your social circle is Black.

This is an exageration.

Back people are the most open group to IR relationship.