Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[BobbyWojak]

This is an exageration.

Back people are the most open group to IR relationship.

Absolutely, but there is still a stigma and light jokes to exclusion is a not an exaggeration. It's pretty reasonable.

 

[African Peasant]

Absolutely, but there is still a stigma and light jokes to exclusion is a not an exaggeration. It's pretty reasonable.

It's an exaggeration.

The average black man dating out is not getting excluded. In some cases, he's even being praised...

Non black partners of black people are globally well received and treated by black families and friends, contrary to what happen when it's the other way around.

Dating out is safe business for black people.

 

[BobbyWojak]

It's an exaggeration.

The average black man dating out is not getting excluded. In some cases, he's even being praised...

Non black partners of black people are globally well received and treated by black families and friends, contrary to what happen when it's the other way around.

Dating out is safe business for black people.

I wouldn't consider us average and I can only speak on my anecdotal experiences, my family isn't American so fair enough

 

[African Peasant]

I wouldn't consider us average and I can only speak on my anecdotal experiences, my family isn't American so fair enough

Yep, it's an anecdote.

Black men dating out are getting pressured by non black, not black people. Umar does not count.

 

[Serious]

Contrary to popular belief, not everyone is ran thru by thugs...


























They're run thru by athletes and businessmen too...

@NaijaProdigy Redux

 

[Jazzy B.]

I DON'T GET IT EITHER. CATS TRY TO DATE WOMEN FROM THE CLUB AND GET MAD BECAUSE THEY WANT TO GO OUT TO THE CLUB. MIND BE BLOWN.

I don't get it either.

They'll be the same ones clowning the likes of Will and PJ for choosing birds and getting played and embarrassed. But then in the next sentence they''' be upset when a bird says she only wants certain type of men which is the complete opposite of them

 

[Stuntone]

My younger brother grew up spoiled, never cared about clothing, shoes, haircuts. He married a white girl.

 

[Uno Venova]

Some nerves were touched

not getting p*ssy does that to these brehs

 

[Ahadi]

Yeah, being from Brooklyn, it was always natural for me to be fly. I got voted best dressed in 8th grade and am known for my style even today. This thread is making me realize how big of a factor your fashion plays in the specific types of women you attract. It seems like the “square” label has more to do with a non-fashionable/trendy/urban appearance than whether you work a 9-5

1000%

Dress who you want to address.

Suit swag doesn’t hit unless you’re partying with Diddy, at a well known black tastemaker function aka Ghost.

That trendy style above represents “black” to some of them.

 

[Finesse]

My younger brother grew up spoiled, never cared about clothing, shoes, haircuts. He married a white girl.

Nature's way

 

[Th3G3ntleman]

I don't know why its so hard for people to grasp that the kind of women you want will be found at the kinds of locations where you congregate around something you like.

If you like to get silly, you go to an improv night and you'll find black women there laughing along at the same things.

If you like to get philosophical, you'll find the black women who will do that with you at TED talks and other speaking events.

If you like astronomy, and want to kick it with women who will throw out theories about sci fi and faster than light travel, you'll see them at planetariums and sci fi conventions.

Black women aren't a monolith. So many of you so called 'brehs' seem to think that most black women are like the ones you see on social media chasing clout. Free your mind.

This is damn near the only post in this thread worth a damn thing. 100% facts here. The social media depictions of certain kinds of black women have these cats in here fully convinced that there is one archetype of black women and all these anecdotes, rules, and generalities apply to all of them.

 

[Finesse]

This is damn near the only post in this thread worth a damn thing. 100% facts here. The social media depictions of certain kinds of black women have these cats in here fully convinced that there is one archetype of black women and all these anecdotes, rules, and generalities apply to all of them.

It aint social media.

Alot of brothers in here are going off experience. Experiences that occurred way before Social Media was a thing. This a life thing, not a internet thing.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Damn thread went Diamond in a day. 24 pages

 

[Thanos]

A lot of the stuff you say about BW, it saying more about how you feel about yourself than about them. "Talking about BW only date thugs, the other men get chances cause the money etc", you ain't seeing the big picture, You lame not just as a potential partner, but just as a person. Not even nikkas with healthy relationships want to be around you. If you don't unhunch your back, and help your mama w/ grocery nikka.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Being engaging, having a humorous outlook life and being cool are universally respected and admired.

The dating world nowadays is a hoax because of fraudulent behavior entitlement and paranoia. Too much impressing not enough expressing.