Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[Ozymandeas]

For square black men, you get called a clown for talking about your issues dating in the BC (call you ugly, lame, broke, say you wanted someone above your level, etc.), you get called a clown for doing what works for you, you get called a clown once you're with someone non-black, you get called a clown for not dating the women that dissed you years ago now that they're washed, you get called a clown for still caring about black issues....then the same nikkas will turn around and accuse you later of not caring about the black community when they just spent months/years calling you a clown.

You can't win.

That's why the last and final level is to be

I don't understand. If anything, these nikkas should be happy. More black men dropping out means more black women for them....right? Make it make sense. I know somebody gonna say its because yall want to see more black families but, if all these nikkas are...as you say....lame, ugly and whack, wouldn't the black community be better off without them

 

[Wink Beaufield]

OP got the plat thread formula down to the units and decimal places

Can't miss

The reason these threads go plat is cuz dudes is hurt man.

Sucks to see their own women not choose them for being themselves


Still doesn't compare to Asian dudes watching their women literally throw their entire race out the window for a chance at a white boy

I asked some Asian girls "why don't u see so-and-so like that?" "who him? that's like dating my brother or cousin it's weird"


Tragic

Some of this comes from fukked upbringings. Some brehs were raised up by fukked up moms, aunties and sisters and they project that hatred towards all black women. Saw this shyt happen with a childhood friend who's moms used to constantly beat the shyt out of him. Dude cut his family off, joined the military and now he out in OP Kansas married with a Becky.

 

[Wild self]

For square black men, you get called a clown for talking about your issues dating in the BC (call you ugly, lame, broke, say you wanted someone above your level, etc.), you get called a clown for doing what works for you, you get called a clown once you're with someone non-black, you get called a clown for not dating the women that dissed you years ago now that they're washed, you get called a clown for still caring about black issues....then the same nikkas will turn around and accuse you later of not caring about the black community when they just spent months/years calling you a clown.

You can't win.

That's why the last and final level is to be

I don't understand. If anything, these nikkas should be happy. More black men dropping out means more black women for them....right? Make it make sense. I know somebody gonna say its because yall want to see more black families but, if all these nikkas are...as you say....lame, ugly and whack, wouldn't the black community be better off without them

@mamba

The Black community cannot go on with the superficial requirements such as "swag" and money for suitable relationships as a foundation. Not a single marriage that lasted in the modern day black scene is based on swag, clout, etc.

If black women require all black men to be Chris Brown, Tupac, or some entertainer or some extra BS, then the black race is doomed.

Luckily, there are "pick me" black women that speak out against this dysfunctional dynamic. Even the thorough brehs that smash the top notch black women and have kids with them, are dealing with child support issues and broken down family structures.

 

[010101]

The violence part will land you in jail or homelessness in the 21st century American way of life. I agree with the aggression and assertiveness.

true but it doesn't escalate when it's a wolf & a yorkie nose to nose over some cut

the yorkie gonna tuck tail

the jail shyte gonna happen in the hood because that's the jungle & nikkas on the same type time

the women just move from harem to harem of who is out on the streets in the freeworld at the moment

ha


*

 

[Henri Christophe]

These hoes for everybody.

All these hoes goofy.

The black man is the original man.

Who cares what a bytch think?

 

[Paradoxx]

If a Black woman has ever said the word “periodt” she’s a city girl fan whether she realizes it or not.


That bird culture is everywhere and everyone in this thread is like

Cuz they don’t wanna be called a cac00n

This the funniest thread in like 3 days for all the wrong reasons

Period what? How is that even pronounced? The English language is already fukked up…

 

[Paradoxx]

It’s almost like their asking for permission

Btw What’s a PAHG or PAABG?

Phat Ass Hispanic Girl and Phat Ass Arabic Girl

 

[Henri Christophe]

women fold for aggression

if you are not from a family or environment who developed that in you you will be at a disadvantage

women are subject to the choices men make naturally for better or worse

a criminal amount of aggression & propensity for violence that women fold for

 

[Wild self]

true but it doesn't escalate when it's a wolf & a yorkie nose to nose over some cut

the yorkie gonna tuck tail

the jail shyte gonna happen in the hood because that's the jungle & nikkas on the same type time

the women just move from harem to harem of who is out on the streets in the freeworld at the moment

ha


*

Blame the Crack Era. Them bytches should be jailed too for provoking violence.

 

[010101]

Blame the Crack Era. Them bytches should be jailed too for provoking violence.

nah this just the way reality is

it's all physical

always will be until it ends & begins again

*

 

[BobbyWojak]

I see different variations of this argument/statement a lot, not every guy prefers those hoodrat esque Instagram models though. I’d say Tara Davis is a 10/10 for me. She’s my exact type, athletic, pretty, slim, preppy. I’d take her over Nicki Minaj any day. Guess who’s she’s with though? A white guy. I go on Instagram and every black woman that has that athletic and preppy/valley aesthetic is with a white guy.

I’m not using that as an excuse to date out though. This has just been bothering me all thread and I felt like it needed to be said.

Exactly, I don't know why it's so hard for some of us to have an honest discussion about this, we're not putting anyone down.

 

[O.Red]

How do you up your aggression and violence?

Not to speak for him but a lot of nikkas don't have or never learned assertiveness. Meaning usually in their language they don't say what they mean, they let shyt slide because they're scared to lose the bytch, or they apologize too much.

Aggresiveness mostly comes from being 1000% unapologetically you. If you like anime or whatever own that shyt. Some of them same "thugs" y'all hate like nerd shyt too, they just have other elements you lack. There's plenty of nikkas that play 2K for hours and discuss that shyt seriously in real life and they ain't lackin women. If a woman sees you nervous or insecure about your own shyt you shark food

Be more direct and stop beating around the bush with women and you'll see a different look in their eyes

Violence can be misinterpreted. You don't have to be a crash dummy(and if that's what she wants move on nikka please ) but a woman has to know that you're capable of violence. And in most cases it just takes one good time where she sees that "Oh he'll take it there if need be" it is what it ishowever you gotta make it known is up to you but that's pure nature at work right there

 

[The Burger King]

why you and others trying to deny a nikka the space to get shyt off? why deny experiences that you arent having? yall get off on telling nikkas how to deal with insecurities and issues. makes no sense to be on some negative shyt.

just seems like yall stay on some showboat high school cafeteria time instead of having real conversations.

saying just date out is one of the laziest arguments to dismiss someone and honestly feminine. I expect that from the brehettes on here but the nikkas

I hope yall fukking off of this message board bravado

Exactly. Personally, I think the “black women like thugs” argument is overblown to some degree BUT a lot of dudes basically come in these threads to showboat and brag.

And that’s fine. I understood a long time ago that nobody wants to hear a man, especially a black man, complain.

But if a black male celebrity commits suicide, then some of these same people will virtue signal and talk about how black men need to “open up” and be “more vulnerable”.

Our community is losing in every metric that matters. Our families and neighborhoods have disintegrated.

Clearly there’s something wrong with the current dynamic between black men and black women but these goofy ass nikkas wanna keep their heads in the sand and act like they don’t smell smoke.

EDIT: some dude in here really bragged about talking to women who have gang tattoos about anime and comic books like that shyt is normal.

 

[Gloxina]

If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is

My first neg

Thanks boo

 

[Dave24]

Not to speak for him but a lot of nikkas don't have or never learned assertiveness. Meaning usually in their language they don't say what they mean, they let shyt slide because they're scared to lose the bytch, or they apologize too much.

Aggresiveness mostly comes from being 1000% unapologetically you. If you like anime or whatever own that shyt. Some of them same "thugs" y'all hate like nerd shyt too, they just have other elements you lack. If a woman sees you nervous or insecure about your own shyt you shark food

Violence can be misinterpreted. You don't have to be a crash dummy(and if that's what she wants move on nikka please ) but a woman has to know that you're capable of violence. And in most cases it just takes one good time where she sees that "Oh he'll take it there if need be" it is what it ishowever you gotta make it known is up to you but that's pure nature at work right there

Good post and points! What is an example of something you did to show a woman you are capable of violence?