Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[HARLEM AL]

I don’t think black men can be just goofy with any woman of any nationality.

 

[Dave24]

& this ain't about women wanting one type of man over the other

they want the one that makes them get down

& like i said it's 99.9% of the time if you come from the p's or adjacent you more likely to make her get down

where as nikkas that come from cul de sacs & environments that discourage aggression don't lay law

often times as i said it be the good nikka that's the better man in every way

he just is missing aggression & that's what wins with women

women are subject to the choices men make naturally for better or worse

good guys will never win until they up the aggression & violence

*

How do you up your aggression and violence?

 

[filial_piety]

man the responses from BM are a complete 180 from what's on LSA when the question is reversed lol....ask BW the same thing and they start calling BM "conquered", colorist, defeated and everything else and dap each other up...ask BM that question about BW and they put the onus on the problem being with men themselves...you'd never see that in a 1000 years from a group of BW....they'de adopt Neo-Nazi talking points before they'd point the finger at themselves...

but it's honestly even remotely hard to have this conversation....BW imo disproportionately have a completely different warped opinion about how to define "masculinity"...and it's so much more glaringly different from women of other races define it...alot of them prefer "thugs" and "thug-wanna be" like behaviors...we can deny it, but it without a doubt contributes to some brehs feeling rejected...and it doesn't surprise me when those same men end up with women of other races

 

[O.G Bobby Johnson]

Black men will be given standards while other races will not. It is what it is.

 

[Shadow King]

You know the answer

 

[Remy LeBreh]

19 pages HELLA quick goddamn

 

[010101]

How do you up your aggression and violence?

do your family pedigree over

but really seeing as that is impossible be real about where you stand & who you are prepared to face as competition

you can't be a pure breed poodle tryna sniff around the same coochie as the wolves

better find some women that the wolves are not getting at

a large part of the issue is entitlement to p*ssy

there is more than enough but you have to appreciate what is for you

stop lusting after the portions set for the top of the hierarchy knowing you are not built for that

nature deals you your hand at conception if you don't make peace with it you will suffer

*

 

[Shadow King]

Nope, Brehs can’t be that way with bw.

Why not?

 

[Finesse]

one more

you can be a total goofy & a sap still win with women

a lot of the worst nikkas from the slums are some natural goofball comedians & stay in their feelings about everything hyper hoemotional

but again they have a criminal amount of aggression & propensity for violence that women fold for

you can be anyone you feel like if everyone knows that saying something is gonna come with consequences they are not comfortable with dealing with

"good guys" lose for being p*ssy that's the whole story

*

See all this fly shyt you are kicking is true. But why do all that. When you can just do THIS?




Got these nikkas out here asking you how they can be tougher

Mannnnn if you dont sit yo ass down and go grab you a Rebecca and stop tryin to be a crash test dummy

nikkas gotta just get in where they fit in. If that street shyt aint natural for ya just play ya lane.

 

[SteakAndKoolaid]

The sooner you guys accept the facts that

A. The reason you don’t get good looking black women is cuz you’re not good looking yourself, and you don’t have anything (money, style, personality, clout, etc.) to make up for it
B. You’re not getting good looking white women either

The sooner you will be at peace

Dudes who have their shyt together looks wise or money wise and are not complete weirdos/Borderline psychopaths do not have the issues that y’all have

Thank you.

Dudes will come up with every reason under the sun as to why they cant get women before admitting it's their looks.

There's this male model named Broderick Hunter and all kinds of black women thirst over him because he looks good. Dude would get called a cornball here because of his mannerisms and soft spoken speech.

I've accepted I'm ugly so I just go to the DR and trick every few months. It is what it is.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

He ends up smashing them but not entertaining them as long term partners/wives due to reasons stated.

Gotcha. I thought you were originally saying they curved him. This makes more sense.

 

[Shadow King]

I usually jus scrolI and sigh goin thru some of these threads, but I gotta keep it a stack. Y’all not fun no more lol.. I be wanting to really engage and push around some ideas/thoughts because at the root of these silly topics there’s some real shyt that needs to be discussed.. but y’all psycho mfs cloud everything with so much bias.. no context, no nuance.. narrow minded and stubborn.. on top of being slow as hell ..
Jus look at the shyt y’all asking.. come on now

If you were really going to "push around ideas" you would've done it

 

[010101]

See all this fly shyt you are kicking is true. But why do all that. When you can just do THIS?




Got these nikkas out here asking you how they can be tougher .

Mannnnn if you ass dont sit down and go grab you a Rebecca and stop tryin to be a crash test dummy

nikkas gotta just get in where they fit in. If that street shyt aint natural for ya just play ya lane.

that's exposing the truth

it's not about women

it's about the men unhappy with the position they occupy in the natural hierarchy fussing

it's p*ssy for every type of nikka in existence

but you gotta know your place

*

 

[Houston911]

I will say there’s a generational aspect, because it is a bit different today.

Majority of the forum is Gen X? Or boomers? , I understand it, there was a higher level of black solidarity back in the day.

Today is a bit different; but I won’t say anything until I’ve traveled more completely. But I will say my results on hinge are usually high with BW. I’m just not pulling the ones I want.

I’ll admit that.

All they can really go off on the apps is looks. Are you physically on par with the chicks on hinge that you want? Respectfully

And lmaoooo. There are no boomers on the forum and there are probably very few gen x. Majority of the forum is millennials

 

[Shadow King]

What kind of women are you encountering?! No decent woman would EVER mention City Girls even if they were their favorite act lmao