Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[Ahadi]

The women on the coli tend to be different from the women most these brehs see.

Cause y'all experience and

The men u say u go after aren't stereotypical

But u also said this wasn't ur environment

That plays a part in ur outcome in life more than folks think

I will say there’s a generational aspect, because it is a bit different today.

Majority of the forum is Gen X? Or boomers? , I understand it, there was a higher level of black solidarity back in the day.

Today is a bit different; but I won’t say anything until I’ve traveled more completely. But I will say my results on hinge are usually high with BW. I’m just not pulling the ones I want.

I’ll admit that.

 

[010101]

women fold for aggression

if you are not from a family or environment who developed that in you you will be at a disadvantage

nikkas lose out on women that would be a great fit for them because they are p*ssy


most women getting their shyte clapped by nikkas they don't like at all because of aggression & pressure

it sounds wild because it is wild

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[horizon]

There's plenty of smart intelligent accomplished baddies that don't need nikkas doing dumb shyt to impress them however these types of women would never lower themselves to fukk with 97% of coli users so yall are left to deal with the birds that you squares aren't gonna pull for different reasons, it's a cold world I don't see a way out for many of you

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It's bigger than being a square or non-thug with a lot of bruhs on this site...

Many are just socially awkward and don't know how to approach or attract women of any kind.

I see Black women with all types of men from the fat bruhs, in shape bruhs, six figures, five figures, short, tall, corny, popular, nerdy, thugish, square, even bruhs with no job, etc, and the list goes on. The whole Black women only want thugs/etc is their excuse to cover up their failure as a man to gain a woman's interest.

Nikkas on this site probably never had a girlfriend (not just a girl to fuk but an actual girlfriend on the lovey dovey type of time) during their middle school and highschool years which is vital for every young boy growing up in terms of getting a taste of being in a relationship is like.

Not even on some simp shyt but the women ain't the problem it's these dudes for whatever reason it is keeping them in the dark from finding love.

It's a psychological issue.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!! Been sayin this shyt for years! Which is why some of these dudes get pippin hot at me.

 

[Jermio]

There's plenty of smart intelligent accomplished baddies that don't need nikkas doing dumb shyt to impress them however these types of women would never lower themselves to fukk with 97% of coli users so yall are left to deal with the birds that you squares aren't gonna pull for different reasons, it's a cold world I don't see a way out for many of you

I don't know if this is true. My college experience says different.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

This is weird as fukk to me let brehs air out whatever insecurities or personal anecdotes that lead to a broader conversation. It's the coli they don't have to 'pawg peacefully and keep brehettes out of it' I might not fully agree but they have good points sometimes, it's not that serious. Certain female posters getting way too comfortable putting down the nerds and weirdos who largely make up this site I don't get it.

if you, other Brehs, and the weirdos and nerds that you say make up this site, need to speak on bw just to get that inspiration to date out, then so be it. Whatever it takes to get more of you dating out maybe after a generation with many Brehs dating pawgs and many brehettes with brads for the same reasons, all those positive experiences will mean less discussions like this, less negative experiences and a reduction in the dysfunctional dynamics. One can hope.

He ends up smashing them but not entertaining them as long term partners/wives due to reasons stated.


Like I said, I've had good experiences with black women. It's just that the pickings are slimmer and it feels like searching for a needle in a haystack outside of certain cities where there's a critical mass of black people...and above a certain age.

Right off the bat black women have higher rates of being overweight & obese vs. any other demo. Then single mothers where the baby daddy had multiple other baby mamas before they started dating. Then values/expectations stuff. BW call for BM to improve all the time but we can't do the reverse? I'm someone who agrees with BW when they call out BM to do better, but that energy seems rarely returned.

I’m of the belief that Brehs and Brehettes who got deep issues with each other are actually just better off just dating out and Kim.

I just believe that once you do date out and have those better experiences, there really shouldn’t be a need to talk about the group of women and men your no longer fukking with.

But it seems like neither group is capable of doing that. Divestors stay talking about Brehs, and Brehs who date out or who want to can’t help talking about brehettes. I don’t get it, but I guess I wouldn’t…

 

[010101]

& this ain't about women wanting one type of man over the other

they want the one that makes them get down

& like i said it's 99.9% of the time if you come from the p's or adjacent you more likely to make her get down

where as nikkas that come from cul de sacs & environments that discourage aggression don't lay law

often times as i said it be the good nikka that's the better man in every way

he just is missing aggression & that's what wins with women

women are subject to the choices men make naturally for better or worse

good guys will never win until they up the aggression & violence

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[BobbyWojak]

There's plenty of smart intelligent accomplished baddies that don't need nikkas doing dumb shyt to impress them however these types of women would never lower themselves to fukk with 97% of coli users so yall are left to deal with the birds that you squares aren't gonna pull for different reasons, it's a cold world I don't see a way out for many of you

This post wasn't really about smart and accomplished black women though, it was about the 5-7/10 quirky 'girl next door' types which the average coli square could 100% get if they bettered themselves. The reality is if you're not very 'pro black' or political, settling for some corny white girl or other is a real alternative if you're not ugly or broke .

All this 'there are such and such million black women why can't you find one' rethoric is bullshyt if you live in a mixed or white environment. I rather wait as long as it takes to find a black women like me but I'm not gonna put someone down for having angst and wanting to vent about it.

 

[BobbyWojak]

if you, other Brehs, and the weirdos and nerds that you say make up this site, need to speak on bw just to get that inspiration to date out, then so be it. Whatever it takes to get more of you dating out maybe after a generation with many Brehs dating pawgs and many brehettes with brads for the same reasons, all those positive experiences will mean less discussions like this, less negative experiences and a reduction in the dysfunctional dynamics. One can hope.

I don't even date out it's just an observation, when people are feeling insecure or struggling with something it's not going to come out in conversation as pc as you want it to be. If you grew up without any kind of identity issue it's not something I'd expect you and other users to understand, so why not just stay out of it?

 

[010101]

one more

you can be a total goofy & a sap still win with women

a lot of the worst nikkas from the slums are some natural goofball comedians & stay in their feelings about everything hyper hoemotional

but again they have a criminal amount of aggression & propensity for violence that women fold for

you can be anyone you feel like if everyone knows that saying something is gonna come with consequences they are not comfortable with dealing with

"good guys" lose for being p*ssy that's the whole story

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[Bondye Vodou]

What's with all these ir threads today ?

Yeah there has been a strange influx.

 

[BlackJesus]

Just date out, y’all been making the same threads for the last 7 years about questioning whether to date out or not, due to this or that. Just do it, if you wanna PAWG, PAAG, PAHG, PAMG, PAABG, just do it.

It’s almost like their asking for permission

Btw What’s a PAHG or PAABG?

 

[Rekkapryde]

Also maybe a sidenote but I feel like it relates to this thread

A lot of you nikkas are still outdated in the way you find women. If your only spots are the club/lounge, approaching random bytches in the grocery store you're severely limiting your options

Some of you nikkas need some hobbies or to try some new activities. If you got art shows in your town and ain't hitting them up you're missing meals trust me

Are you good at anything besides your job? If not get good at something extracurricular. Join a yoga class, learn to sculpt, I don't fukkin know nikka point is a lot of you nikkas have been stuck in the chicken fingers/ice cream side of the buffet and have never seen the possibilities so you got this tunneled ass worldview. You probably barely even know what YOU like let alone females

If you truly get yourself together you can likely eat anywhere but your chances multiply exponentially when you expand your playing field past clubs and bars

Negged for schooling these goofy mufukkaz.

 

[Finesse]

you got nikkas listing their height and weight like its the combine

Yea that part of this thread threw me off

For a second nikkas was just coming in here randomly shouting out their height and hairline status

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

pawgs are for everybody