Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[ShaneTheRogue]

Nobodies lying

BM who complain about feminism amongst BW say the same for WW

Your preaching to the choir, the BM who hate feminism the most don't glorify WW. Most SYSBM typs glorify Asuan and Latin women hence why you had a legion of BM and still today flock to Latin countries like

DR
Columbia
Brazil


Nobody is flocking to European countries, or worshipping White bytches

People are in this thread insinuating if not outright stating that quality Black men have no choice but to date out as BW don't like squares and nerds.

To suggest such a thing is basically on par with White woman worship.

But either way my ultimate point is blaming all or even most the women in your own race for your shortcomings without so much as attempting to look in the mirror is classic narcissism at best.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Nah you’ve literally said this site was full of the dregs of society and weirdos don’t make me pull the receipts.

nikka thinks this site is all losers but he’s racked up 30k posts with us losers

What you looking a wife/sex/girlfriend?

most men seek sex
there are at least a thousand women who are prettier and sexier than megan stallion selling poosy for a few hundred or less
in your area

why not do that?

 

[The D-List Vet]

My word, that thread!

Breh Chris b was HATED mods and the owners help exposed that bedbuck.. his email that he used to sign up was given out all I can say

 

[Gloxina]

You sounding out of touch here


City Girls are very much "in" with Black Women under 27

No, I’m not out of touch.

IIIIIIIIII rock with their music ()

I said no DECENT WOMAN would actually ADMIT that, specifically to a man she wants to impress. Imagine going to dinner in a nice restaurant saying that you spend time listening to City Girls and Meg. Lol That would show a lack of awareness. Those are things you slowly release as you’re getting to know someone and they have met your “representative”. Lol

That’d be like some breh talking about his favorite artists are Lil Durk and Pooh Shiesty or something. It’s not a good look when trying to impress someone.

After 25 or so you realize these things, UNLESS you are in that hood/club culture, which would bring us full circle when discussing certain types of women

 

[Cadillac]

People are in this thread insinuating if not outright stating that quality Black men have no choice but to date out as BW don't like squares and nerds.

To suggest such a thing is basically on par with White woman worship.

But either way my ultimate point is blaming all or even most the women in your own race for your shortcomings without so much as attempting to look in the mirror is classic narcissism at best.

Your taking a troll thread seriously, you lost just off that

But there is a gripe to be had with how some BW go about in the dating world.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I hope someday I'll be able to do this with a woman....

 

[Gloxina]

Nothing to do with social media


City girls popped off about 4-5 years ago. Their main base are 18-23 year olds.

The women who were 22/23 will be 26/27 now.

They're in with black women in that age bracket.

You realize there were young black women who didn’t rock with Lil Kim, Nicki, or City Girls, right? Or if they DID listen to them, they matured and weren’t necessarily listening to them at 26/27.

You do realize that, right?

 

[Cadillac]

No, I’m not out of touch.

IIIIIIIIII rock with their music ()

I said no DECENT WOMAN would actually ADMIT that, specifically to a man she wants to impress. Imagine going to dinner in a nice restaurant saying that you spend time listening to City Girls and Meg. Lol That would show a lack of awareness. Those are things you slowly release as you’re getting to know someone and they have met your “representative”. Lol

That’d be like some breh talking about his favorite artists are Lil Durk and Pooh Shiesty or something. It’s not a good look when trying to impress someone.

After 25 or so you realize these things, UNLESS you are in that hood/club culture, which would bring us full circle when discussing certain types of women

Yes the hell you r out of touch

You think these chicks move with shame of liking city girls

These bytches r unapologetic and let it be known from their social media, talking, copycatting off them they like that THOT shyt

Espescially women who r say above avg looking(7-straight dimes) they bank on the fact that a nikka wants them cause they bad/fine andwe'll overlook that flaw

 

[BobbyWojak]

If you have better experiences with WW then be with WW. All I want is for y’all to pawg peacefully and stop talking about brehettes.

These threads are strange because rather than just focusing solely on why y’all love dating WW, and the perks, it’s like y’all don’t know how to talk about it without bringing up bw and doing this little compare/contrast to ww, and then the negative generalizations, and negative stereotypes.

Y’all gotta find a way to stop making bw the reason y’all date out. If y’all can see WW as individuals, excusing the WW who are racists, Karens, and who on average don’t even date Brehs (90% something of ww who marry actually marry wm) then y’all should also be able to focus on the individual experiences you each have dating these pawgs in these threads. And you should be able to do so without even bringing bw up.


Like I said these threads are usually devoid of specific personal experiences from Brehs and are almost always centered on negative generalizations about bw in comparison to positive generalizations about ww, and social media examples.

This is weird as fukk to me let brehs air out whatever insecurities or personal anecdotes that lead to a broader conversation. It's the coli they don't have to 'pawg peacefully and keep brehettes out of it' I might not fully agree but they have good points sometimes, it's not that serious. Certain female posters getting way too comfortable putting down the nerds and weirdos who largely make up this site I don't get it.

 

[FukyourFort]

This is weird as fukk to me let brehs air out whatever insecurities or personal anecdotes that lead to a broader conversation. It's the coli they don't have to 'pawg peacefully and keep breheettes out of it' I might not fully agree but they have good points sometimes, it's not that serious. Certain female posters getting way too comfortable putting down the nerds and weirdos who largely make up this site I don't get it.

You got dudes who do the same shyt so it doesn't stop.

why cant people get their shyt off? Do we always gotta make fun of some shyt to impress some online females your not fukkin?


you got nikkas listing their height and weight like its the combine

 

[Ziggiy]

Black men can be whatever the hell they want alongside black women.

At the end of the day, there are 22 MILLION Black females alive in the United States today. Of that 22 million, roughly 50% are in 18-35 age range compared to their black male counterparts (males are at 49%) 53% are from ages 36-64.

So the bottom line is, is that if you are anywhere between the ages of 18-60 and cannot find a BLACK woman who accepts the part of you that is goofy or vulnerable or likes Anime, or likes comic books, or likes video games, or likes Kung Fu, or cries when you see bunnies hop, or giggles at Meg Ryan Rom Coms, or philosophizes on the meaning of Van Gogh’s Starry Night whilst visiting the High Museum; then guess what?

YOU are the problem!


Tired of hearing all of this”Black men can’t be this or that with black women” whilst positioning white women as some sort of great alternative. These are the SAME women who cheered when their white fathers, brothers and uncles LYNCHED you and set you on fire. The SAME white women who call the cops on you and brag about them killing you. The SAME white women who interrogate you when your walking down the street in “Their” neighborhoods. The SAME white women who walk into your apartment and murder you.


The fukk is wrong with you nikkas?

 

[Rekkapryde]

The sooner you guys accept the facts that

A. The reason you don’t get good looking black women is cuz you’re not good looking yourself, and you don’t have anything (money, style, personality, clout, etc.) to make up for it
B. You’re not getting good looking white women either

The sooner you will be at peace

Dudes who have their shyt together looks wise or money wise and are not complete weirdos/Borderline psychopaths do not have the issues that y’all have

All my college friends married black women. And they are just regular nikkaz with varying levels of "goofiness".

Internet has REALLY fukked the game up for insecure mufukkaz on both ends.

End of the day, whoever makes you happy and give you peace, do that. But when you posting your shyt on SM, be prepared for the backlash from the insecure crowd of women and men.

 

[Houston911]

All my college friends married black women. And they are just regular nikkaz with varying levels of "goofiness".

Internet has REALLY fukked the game up for insecure mufukkaz on both ends.

End of the day, whoever makes you happy and give you peace, do that. But when you posting your shyt on SM, be prepared for the backlash from the insecure crowd of women and men.

Hearing this from a dude who went to an elite engineering school is hilarious

Cuz we got dudes on here who can barely read talking about “women don’t like me cuz I’m nerdy”

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

Your taking a troll thread seriously, you lost just off that

But there is a gripe to be had with how some BW go about in the dating world.

No offense breh you seem like a good poster for the most part and prolly a decent man but this reply you gave me here is pretty weak.

I say this because how are you gonna dismiss my thoughts in this thread because it's a troll but still get your shyt in at the end there.

And regardless if the topic was made in bad faith it sparked genuine discussion and the real convos in this thread isn't negated by the original intention.

A lot of the views in this thread were passed off as "trolling" or "playing around" until it wasn't. We can't let self haters get off their anti-Black rhetoric without pushback at least some of the time.

And there is a gripe to be had with how some BW go about the dating world but that's not exactly the full discussion being had. The discussion includes whether or not non-BW have those same issues and whether or not successful, law-abiding BM are better off choosing non-Black partners.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Hearing this from a dude who went to an elite engineering school is hilarious

Cuz we got dudes on here who can barely read talking about “women don’t like me cuz I’m nerdy”

and each one of em are engineers too

but that's not the narrative that attracts "conversation" due to insecurity projections that we see all day on the internet.

shyt is jokes fam.


insecurities drive conversation in this day and age more than ever. and don't even get into accountability.

people make shytty decisions in who they fukk with and then blame and generalize the whole groups when it goes bad.