Ladies I Have A Very Important Dating Question To Ask...

[Crayola Coyote]

fukk outta here, I bet you got a nappy weave and a case of cat fish syndrome down there. How you gonna diss the brehs like that?

How you gonna even shyt on home boy like that when he knows you and I don't know you.

You see this is why I'm gonna start going on dutch when dating The mentality of some females fam, it's crazy.

Women are in the "beggars position" n have the audacity to be arrogant calling dudes "fukk Bois" . You whores need to squad up and approach men instead of bytching that ugly dudes are hollering at y'all.

 

[Taadow]

Because of some things in my upbringing, finances when it comes to men is very important to me,

ROFLMAO

 

[Guvnor]

ROFLMAO

When you slow that down that comment does make you laugh I ain't peep that she said that.

Salute @Rawhigh, That doesn't mean what I think it does though right?

 

[VFib]

I'm not speaking of IG models though, regular women have simps throwing themselves at them and that creates the kind of dynamic im speaking of where women would play a man and why you have to be careful as a man in today's dating world. There are some great women out there but they are the minority, at least based on my experience.

I mean cmon, your acting like men don't be thirsty as hell in girls dm's or facebook messages trying to holler.

Thirsty men will always exist.

Date in a way that is comfortable for you. If you would prefer going dutch the first few outings, let her know. If she says no, move on the the next.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I've never had a man request a dutch style date with me but there were 2 dates that I turned into dutch dates due to his behavior/manners/expectations...
In instances like this, as a woman, it's best not to accept money/gifts from men.

*My male friends, relatives, & coworkers pay for food all the time with no problem.

 

[Guvnor]

I've never had a man request a dutch style date with me but there were 2 dates that I turned into dutch dates due to his behavior/manners/expectations...
In instances like this, as a woman, it's best not to accept money/gifts from men.

*My male friends, relatives, & coworkers pay for food all the time with no problem.

So the two dates that you turned into dutch dates where dudes you curved cause you wasn't feeling them in other words Was it that it wasn't a connection or something worse?

 

[Lady.Libra.]

So the two dates that you turned into dutch dates where dudes you curved cause you wasn't feeling them in other words Was it that it wasn't a connection or something worse?

I was initially attracted to & interested in both men until 1. The conversation went too far left or 2. He became too familiar, too quickly. (I could've been wrong but I got the impression that he expected sex after dinner...)

If I can't be bothered or patient enough to work through misunderstandings or the (mental/sexual) attraction was snuffed out due to unwanted touching/speaking too much about sex then I cut ties and move on...cleanly. For me, that was done by paying for my own dinner.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

How you know there is somebody that is willing to do it? Why you think some of these women and even some men die old and alone

50 percent of marriages end in divorce and many people end up being alone. Maybe they should have went dating dutch in the beginning, just a thought.

Because I know men and women. And I know what it means to be into someone. When u are truly into someone or attracted to them, paying for a date is nothing. Spending time with them is something u look forward to. You enjoy the process of courtship and being courted.

Ur not thinking of Jigsaw traps and ways to get out of being generous and studies show that generosity is a key element in good relationships.

As for divorce rates I think it's the opposite of what ur proposing. I think the absence of courtship is what weakens these marriages. Courtship isn't just for men to prove themselves as protector/provider to women, it's also for women to prove themselves worthy of that man's time through the time it takes to get to know her.

Most guys these days aren't willing to invest that time or resources into the women they are dating anymore b/c of easy p*ssy. At first it seems like a win for guys, but their lack of patience turns on them b/c they outchea literally wifing hoes they didn't vet properly b/c they get p*ssy whipped too early on.
So u see a bunch of unworthy chicks in marriages that barely work and these chicks end these marriages quick. Maybe these guys should have been less concerned about getting away with "chicken wings and fries we don't go on dates" and more concerned with getting to know a potential life partner. And getting to know any potential woman will require a small amount of funds b/c any woman worth a damn will want to court you and be courted in return.

 

[Guvnor]

Because I know men and women. And I know what it means to be into someone. When u are truly into someone or attracted to them, paying for a date is nothing. Spending time with them is something u look forward to. You enjoy the process of courtship and being courted.

Ur not thinking of Jigsaw traps and ways to get out of being generous and studies show that generosity is a key element in good relationships.

As for divorce rates I think it's the opposite of what ur proposing. I think the absence of courtship is what weakens these marriages. Courtship isn't just for men to prove themselves as protector/provider to women, it's also for women to prove themselves worthy of that man's time through the time it takes to get to know her.

Most guys these days aren't willing to invest that time or resources into the women they are dating anymore b/c of easy p*ssy. At first it seems like a win for guys, but their lack of patience turns on them b/c they outchea literally wifing hoes they didn't vet properly b/c they get p*ssy whipped too early on.
So u see a bunch of unworthy chicks in marriages that barely work and these chicks end these marriages quick. Maybe these guys should have been less concerned about getting away with "chicken wings and fries we don't go on dates" and more concerned with getting to know a potential life partner. And getting to know any potential woman will require a small amount of funds b/c any woman worth a damn will want to court you and be courted in return.

I hear you bro and agree that courting a women and being generous is important. Howeve I am only talking about the first few dates where you are trying to decide if you fukk with the person like that or nah. Only in situations where you don't know the women too well and want to get to know her. I am also not saying not to be generous, in the OP I mentioned paying the tip and also I feel a man should still be chivalrous and pull out the women's chair and things like that as well.

As for divorce rates I feel you are wrong because in most marriages the male paid for the women's food due to social conditioning in the start of the relationship and they ended in failure. The man married her and found out he was with a greedy no good spoiled women who complained too much or worse and that's why they ended up getting divorced. If he didn't pay for her food in the beginning maybe he would have seen her character flaws and how she carried on cause she had to pay fer her own food and he would have not went down that road. Just a theory.

I like the future line you threw in your post though lmao Future said it the best.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I hear you bro and agree that courting a women and being generous is important. Howeve I am only talking about the first few dates where you are trying to decide if you fukk with the person like that or nah. Only in situations where you don't know the women too well and want to get to know her. I am also not saying not to be generous, in the OP I mentioned paying the tip and also I feel a man should still be chivalrous and pull out the women's chair and things like that as well.

As for divorce rates I feel you are wrong because in most marriages the male paid for the women's food due to social conditioning in the start of the relationship and they ended in failure. The man married her and found out he was with a greedy no good spoiled women who complained too much or worse and that's why they ended up getting divorced. If he didn't pay for her food in the beginning maybe he would have seen her character flaws and how she carried on cause she had to pay fer her own food and he would have not went down that road. Just a theory.

I like the future line you threw in your post though lmao Future said it the best.

I don't think men should pay much on the first bit of courting either but I also don't think women should be fukking

 

[L. Murphy]

Going Dutch is very off putting in my opinion. I'm old fashioned in the sense that when I'm asked out on a date, I expect to be out with a gentleman. Hold doors, help take off my coat, and yes pay for dinner. Others may disagree but that's my opinion.

 

[queenblaq]

If a guy asks me out he should pay it's basic chivalry
I see going dutch sometimes, if you're in an actual relationship

 

[Guvnor]

Going Dutch is very off putting in my opinion. I'm old fashioned in the sense that when I'm asked out on a date, I expect to be out with a gentleman. Hold doors, help take off my coat, and yes pay for dinner. Others may disagree but that's my opinion.

If a guy asks me out he should pay it's basic chivalry
I see going dutch sometimes, if you're in an actual relationship

Why is that though? Like why do you feel that is, Is it mere social conditioning and because of the way women are programmed to think or does it say something about the guy?

I think women don't like the dutch thing because they only want free food and wanna be cheap

 

[Dwolf]

How do the coli brehettes feel about going dutch?

You would be very hard pressed to find a woman ok with spending money on a date. And if you do, the chances are high you getting bushed not to long after.
The game is rigged out chea fam. Be safe

 

[Guvnor]

You would be very hard pressed to find a woman ok with spending money on a date. And if you do, the chances are high you getting bushed not to long after.
The game is rigged out chea fam. Be safe

Indeed fam.