Guvnor
Da Speculative Spectacle®
Actually, no I am not in the minority. If all you are coming across are women who are using you for food (), it's time to take a hard look at yourself and figure out how to improve your vetting process. It's not hard to figure out if a woman isn't really interested if you do more than just text her and like a few of her IG pics. Pick up the phone, call her. If she is barely speaking and not very engaging, you will figure out your answer.
Yes you are in the minority, you don't understand how hard it is out here It's not that I come across women who are using my for food but their is a lot of "low quality" women out here. IG has some women's ego on 100,000, it's to the point where many of them are using men and things are different on the dating scene. Too many hoes are out here and I'm just trying to find me a good woman and settle down. I'm not trying to be one of those suckers paying for a mannys and pedis and all that kind of foolishness while she fukking homeboy the weed man for free.
No thanks
A lot of ghetto trash.
If I'm paying for my own meal it's not a date, simple as that.
That's all psychological programming. Open your mind, why you can't pay and have a date. If someone you like is with you then it's a date It's the simple.
I mean their are times when a man may will forget his wallet or something and the women pays. That's still a date.
Only reason I'm considering asking a women to go dutch in the future is because think about it, if I don't know you why am I buying you food like that. I have to know a women's character after that I don't mind paying at that point.