Ladies I Have A Very Important Dating Question To Ask...

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Actually, no I am not in the minority. If all you are coming across are women who are using you for food (:mjlol:), it's time to take a hard look at yourself and figure out how to improve your vetting process. It's not hard to figure out if a woman isn't really interested if you do more than just text her and like a few of her IG pics. Pick up the phone, call her. If she is barely speaking and not very engaging, you will figure out your answer.

Yes you are in the minority, you don't understand how hard it is out here :mjcry:It's not that I come across women who are using my for food but their is a lot of "low quality" women out here. IG has some women's ego on 100,000, it's to the point where many of them are using men and things are different on the dating scene. Too many hoes are out here and I'm just trying to find me a good woman and settle down. I'm not trying to be one of those suckers paying for a mannys and pedis and all that kind of foolishness while she fukking homeboy the weed man for free.

No thanks :rudy:

A lot of ghetto trash.


If I'm paying for my own meal it's not a date, simple as that.

That's all psychological programming. Open your mind, why you can't pay and have a date. If someone you like is with you then it's a date :francis: It's the simple.

I mean their are times when a man may will forget his wallet or something and the women pays. That's still a date.

Only reason I'm considering asking a women to go dutch in the future is because think about it, if I don't know you why am I buying you food like that. I have to know a women's character after that I don't mind paying at that point.
 

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Yes you are in the minority, you don't understand how hard it is out here :mjcry:It's not that I come across women who are using my for food but their is a lot of "low quality" women out here. IG has some women's ego on 100,000, it's to the point where many of them are using men and things are different on the dating scene. Too many hoes are out here and I'm just trying to find me a good woman and settle down. I'm not trying to be one of those suckers paying for a mannys and pedis and all that kind of foolishness while she fukking homeboy the weed man for free.

No thanks :rudy:

A lot of ghetto trash.




That's all psychological programming. Open your mind, why you can't pay and have a date. If someone you like is with you then it's a date :francis: It's the simple.

I mean their are times when a man may will forget his wallet or something and the women pays. That's still a date.

Only reason I'm considering asking a women to go dutch in the future is because think about it, if I don't know you why am I buying you food like that. I have to know a women's character after that I don't mind paying at that point.
Stop chasing IG “models”.
There are plenty of “high quality” women out there, you just aren’t seeing them because you are focusing on women who are posing for the gram.

That being said, there are plenty of women who are willing to split the check as well as pay for the entire date. They are out there. They just aren’t these IG models you speak of.

If I am paying for any part of it, it is not considered a date. We are friends and you will get a nice hug at the end before we go our separate ways.

Thank goodness I have never had to deal with this BS.
 

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Stop chasing IG “models”.
There are plenty of “high quality” women out there, you just aren’t seeing them because you are focusing on women who are posing for the gram.

That being said, there are plenty of women who are willing to split the check as well as pay for the entire date. They are out there. They just aren’t these IG models you speak of.

If I am paying for any part of it, it is not considered a date. We are friends and you will get a nice hug at the end before we go our separate ways.

Thank goodness I have never had to deal with this BS.

Women says the dumbest shyt on here:mjlol:
 

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Yes you are in the minority, you don't understand how hard it is out here :mjcry:It's not that I come across women who are using my for food but their is a lot of "low quality" women out here. IG has some women's ego on 100,000, it's to the point where many of them are using men and things are different on the dating scene. Too many hoes are out here and I'm just trying to find me a good woman and settle down. I'm not trying to be one of those suckers paying for a mannys and pedis and all that kind of foolishness while she fukking homeboy the weed man for free.

No thanks :rudy:

A lot of ghetto trash.




That's all psychological programming. Open your mind, why you can't pay and have a date. If someone you like is with you then it's a date :francis: It's the simple.

I mean their are times when a man may will forget his wallet or something and the women pays. That's still a date.

Only reason I'm considering asking a women to go dutch in the future is because think about it, if I don't know you why am I buying you food like that. I have to know a women's character after that I don't mind paying at that point.

THIS
 

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Yes you are in the minority, you don't understand how hard it is out here :mjcry:It's not that I come across women who are using my for food but their is a lot of "low quality" women out here. IG has some women's ego on 100,000, it's to the point where many of them are using men and things are different on the dating scene. Too many hoes are out here and I'm just trying to find me a good woman and settle down. I'm not trying to be one of those suckers paying for a mannys and pedis and all that kind of foolishness while she fukking homeboy the weed man for free.

No thanks :rudy:

A lot of ghetto trash.




That's all psychological programming. Open your mind, why you can't pay and have a date. If someone you like is with you then it's a date :francis: It's the simple.

I mean their are times when a man may will forget his wallet or something and the women pays. That's still a date.

Only reason I'm considering asking a women to go dutch in the future is because think about it, if I don't know you why am I buying you food like that. I have to know a women's character after that I don't mind paying at that point.

THIS
 

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My thing is I don't date women that haven't shown a strong interest in me, so if I do choose to take her out, I don't mind paying.

When I was just trying to go out with any decent looking chick, is when I was on that dutch/cheap date tip.
 

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Look at all chicks in their feelings when you tell them that they should bring their own money on a date. If a man paying for the date you should give him sex. :pachaha:

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol: You somewhat telling the truth though fam. Paying for the date should be a down payment.

My thing is I don't date women that haven't shown a strong interest in me, so if I do choose to take her out, I don't mind paying.

When I was just trying to go out with any decent looking chick, is when I was on that dutch/cheap date tip.

See I could respect that. These are women that you know and that you know have a genuine interest and you probably share some kind of bond before the date. I would have no problem dating in a situation like that.

However when you don't know the girl like that and it's just a date I say it's best to go dutch.
 

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Stop chasing IG “models”.
There are plenty of “high quality” women out there, you just aren’t seeing them because you are focusing on women who are posing for the gram.

That being said, there are plenty of women who are willing to split the check as well as pay for the entire date. They are out there. They just aren’t these IG models you speak of.

If I am paying for any part of it, it is not considered a date. We are friends and you will get a nice hug at the end before we go our separate ways.

Thank goodness I have never had to deal with this BS.

I'm not speaking of IG models though, regular women have simps throwing themselves at them and that creates the kind of dynamic im speaking of where women would play a man and why you have to be careful as a man in today's dating world. There are some great women out there but they are the minority, at least based on my experience.

I mean cmon, your acting like men don't be thirsty as hell in girls dm's or facebook messages trying to holler.

Wow wtf, the moment I click this thread the last guy I went Dutch with text me...

:ohhh: That’s some spooky shyt!!

You see, that's a sign from the universe. Give home boy a chance because he is rational and he cares about you :youngsabo:I'm telling you
 

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I'm not speaking of IG models though, regular women have simps throwing themselves at them and that creates the kind of dynamic im speaking of where women would play a man and why you have to be careful as a man in today's dating world. There are some great women out there but they are the minority, at least based on my experience.

I mean cmon, your acting like men don't be thirsty as hell in girls dm's or facebook messages trying to holler.



You see, that's a sign from the universe. Give home boy a chance because he is rational and he cares about you :youngsabo:I'm telling you

Nah he’s a fukk boi, just a coli dude but irl.
 

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Nah he’s a fukk boi, just a coli dude but irl.
:gucci:fukk outta here, I bet you got a nappy weave and a case of cat fish syndrome down there. How you gonna diss the brehs like that?

:scust: How you gonna even shyt on home boy like that when he knows you and I don't know you.

You see this is why I'm gonna start going on dutch when dating :mjlol: The mentality of some females fam, it's crazy.
 
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