Ladies, How Would You React If You Found Out

[The Mad Titan]

IMO, you should always date multiple people. Not have sex with multiple people but date. One guy might like hiking, one for museums, maybe one is a foodie. The one you want will be the one you share the most in common with, the one with values similar to yours. That's why you date them...to see who's right for you. You should be upfront with them from the start and they should be up front with you. If you don't like it...move along. It's not wasting time, it is getting to know someone better and having fun while doing so. Emotionally, it also gives you an opportunity to really evaluate how you feel about a person and how they feel about you. If they are throwing up red flags, then you aren't as concerned about bushing them, because you have other eggs in that basket.

It is also okay to be single and date one person at a time. If that's you...that's you.

This is lame, imo.


You dont need to date or talk to more than one person. Women do it because its convenient safe and easy. Men do it for more options at sex and now to protect themselves from getting played.


It should be pick one and go, instead its, ahhh I kinda like this person. But I kinda like this about this person, buttttt me and this person really vibe together.

 

[mcdivit85]

Coli chicks don't fukk until they are in a committed relationship?

I can't think of a single time in the last 11 years of my life, where a woman I was dating withheld sex because we weren't in a committed relationship.

Forget just having sex...chicks don't even require condoms before relationships

Peace

 

[StickStickly]

What do you mean by seeing or dating? If it's exclusive yeah that's a deal breaker.

Even if we weren't I have to be honest it would be a bit of a turn off.

 

[1thouwow]

We wouldn't. He isn't my man.

 

[mcdivit85]

It ain't even just that, it's also the fact that I'm putting my energy and attention to all these women and it seems like it would be exhausting. Putting energy into one chick is already enough.

How much energy you put into a chick you just met and isn't even your girl?

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

I can only speak for myself but I always told the guys I dated that I was dating more than one guy and that If one of them wanted to be exclusive, I would stop talking to the other guys for that guy. I would keep their numbers or keep them on reserve (lol). but I'm not going all in for a guy unless he does it first, I have more to lose than he does.

Fellas

 

[wickedsm]

Don't mind me as I roll in this recliner and tray of snacks

scootch over

 

[The ADD]

scootch over

No double dipping on the chips and salsa fam

 

[#SOG_soldier]

I always assume men are dating/screwing/entertaining other women. Even if he didn't say so, until we are exclusive then I am doing it too.

Damn I thought @PeridotPuss was the only thot on this site.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Fellas

I meant wouldn't

 

[Colicat]

I used to be a one man at a time type. It took me ONE time to learn from that bullshyt. As long as I am not in a committed relationship, I will not pass up getting to know other men. I also know fairly quickly if I want to take it further with you, so it's not like I go out 10 dates with someone I don't see myself with.

This is incongruous so maybe you can help me understand it some more...

I am getting that you don't go out on dates with someone that you don't see yourself with...

Then you say you won't pass up getting to know other men if you are not committed....

Why aren't you committed to someone that you can see yourself with?

And to be fair, I am scrutinizing this post because I don't agree with the dating other people idea...

I'm stingy, somewhat jealous and don't like to share.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Damn I thought @PeridotPuss was the only thot on this site.

What's your malfunction besides being a certified pussified thot that can't contain his issues?

 

[mcdivit85]

A relationship is more than just smashing. I didn't want the expectations that come with a relationship, that simple. I do my thing she does hers. We fukked when convenient. What's wrong w/ that?

There's nothing wrong it. I just don't understand the point of being monogamous with someone you're not in a relationship with. Especially considering the fact that you two swapped STD test results and were honest with each other. You could've done the same without making it monogamous. Then you can have more than one if you choose....since you two aren't in a relationship anyway.

In my estimation, the point of having a chick designated as f#ck buddy is:

A. She's not relationship material for whatever reason
B. But I still want to smash
C. Since she's not relationship material, I don't feel an obligation to be concerned about her feelings about me dating/smashing others, having a girlfriend

In my mind, monogamy is a gift. A gift you give to someone you deem valuable enough to be in a relationship with. So for me, I find it hard to understand giving that to someone I don't value in that way. I've heard other dudes having similar arrangements with f#ck buddies, jumpoffs.

I have no issue with it. I just don't understand it.

Peace

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The dude you were seeing and dating is also talking to and dating other women? What if he hasn't had sex with any of the women including you yet, would that change the dynamic?

How many of you communicate, date, or have sexual relations with multiple dudes at once?

What would you do if you confront him about it and he says he needs to exercise his options in case you or any of the other women he's seeing start acting funny, flaking on dates, playing games, etc?

He can do what he wants if we aren't official.

 

[mcdivit85]

I meant wouldn't

Sure