Keke Palmer’s Boyfriend Slut Shames her Outfit: “It’s the outfit… You a Mom”

[Marlow Stanfield]

that's why they are yall's chicks and why keke is that gworl. know the difference

she aint gotta answer to the supervisor at the call center to keep the baby fed.
she aint gotta do what her man "let's her" do in order to have a roof over head

#bars

 

[Coco Loco]

All because he hit reply all instead of just sending it to her

 

[KidJSoul]

The issue is him saying "you're a mom"

When you do that, the conversation switches from her crossing the line with Usher, to you telling her how to dress...

He fukked up...

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Yall know good and damn well this was not about the dress. That man is just jealous. A simple Google search will show you that Keke dressed like this during the entire relationship, and he had no problem

This is why women do not want to date a man who makes less than them. It never fails, the man will always try to humble you just because he feels inadequate. What man goes online and publicly humiliates his “wife”, when he has her phone number, and they live together? I’m not saying that he can have an opinion about the dress. He’s entitled to not be feeling it, and that’s cool.

Also, public humiliation is a tactic that abusers use to manipulate their partner into doing/acting how they want but

 

[KidJSoul]

Outfit doesn't bother me and I haven't seen any vids of Usher outright disrespecting her (he's not slapping her ass, grabbing her neck, kissing her, etc). If that outfit bothered me as a spouse or boyfriend I sure as fukk wouldn't air it out on twitter, even worse yet criticizing the mother of my child publicly. That's not how you should operate, period.

The thing that's more interesting - and quite telling - are the responses from women. I'm fine with "she can dress like that." Cool, whatever, the outfit doesn't look outrageous to me. But apparently as the breadwinner, Keke is in charge and what she says goes according to multiple viral reactions. And he should be happy playing the background and no one should know his name. And all this is coming from the brigade of women who say a man being friendly to another woman is a turnoff. A man smiling at another woman is disrespectful. A man liking women's pictures on social media is wrong. And it's disrespectful when the media describes a successful man's non-celeb wife as just "[insert name of man]'s wife," so she should get her own thing going too because you go girl.

My point is simple and two-fold: many women inherently understand traditional concepts of submissiveness when the roles are reversed, and many women are either lying about boundaries or believe they only exist for men in a relationship. Might be a good idea to figure all this out before you get into a committed relationship, fellas.

One of the great posts I've read on this subject

Women can just as full of shyt as they say men are

 

[International Playa]

Women telling him "You haven't married her tho"

 

[Matt504]

The issue is him saying "you're a mom"

When you do that, the conversation switches from her crossing the line with Usher, to you telling her how to dress...

He fukked up...

He didn't fukk up, he was being cowardly.

He knew exactly what his issue with this situation was and decided to pretend it was about another thing.

 

[Braman]

All because he hit reply all instead of just sending it to her

That ‘something went wrong, try again’ prophetic af

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

"CyberWarrior52" is tripping

"If these brothers can get disrespected than any of us can."
"You dont see white women embarrassing their mates"

Those comments



The rest of that sub





/r/blackmen has more male feminists simps than here.

 

[Lord_nikon]

I suspect sperm donor berh gone kevin federline keke

 

[Trav]

Am I crazy for viewing it like this?

Nah, you not.

TheColi.com in here being hyperbolic as hell per usual talking about she was always for the streets and shyt (which she might be but not cuz of this) lol

If ya girl, sister, cousin, momma, grandmomma ain't never fangirled over any of these mfs (Usher, Breezy, Johnny Gil, Keith Sweat, The R), well then, their significant others and them just been too broke to make it to a concert cuz they all experience it at some point lol.

Like you said, check it in private (and that's IF it get too extra) and keep it moving.

 

[Uchiha God]

Yall know good and damn well this was not about the dress. That man is just jealous. A simple Google search will show you that Keke dressed like this during the entire relationship, and he had no problem

This is why women do not want to date a man who makes less than them. It never fails, the man will always try to humble you just because he feels inadequate. What man goes online and publicly humiliates his “wife”, when he has her phone number, and they live together? I’m not saying that he can have an opinion about the dress. He’s entitled to not be feeling it, and that’s cool.

Also, public humiliation is a tactic that abusers use to manipulate their partner into doing/acting how they want but

I agree that he should have kept it private - and I also agree that this was more about the interaction with Usher than the dress per se - but why are people surmising this is rooted on him supposedly making less money than her?

I’m so lost - is a breh supposed to just be cool with his girl doing 360 spins to show her ass for a dude singing to her? “He feels inadequate because he makes less than her” - you mean to tell me he wouldn’t have an issue if he made more and all would be good?

also, there are brehs that make less than their spouse but are still the providers in the household - as in, they pay for everything.

Lastly, Keke posted a video of her thirsting after Usher, as well as all the antics at the show - all in public. Is that not her humiliating him publicly? Again, I think he should have kept it private - but people keep harping about he was trying to abuse/humiliate her by doing this in public - what about her actions? Brehs is human - he got in his feelings and let that shyt fly on Twitter but the talking points people are using got me confused.

 

[Uchiha God]

 

[Braman]

This is why nggas cheat

This man clearly is not entertaining other options. It’s the nastiest dirtiest secret there is and I wish I had an explanation for it but it’s true: when you’re 100% faithful to a woman (or the wrong woman) you’re vulnerable, you’re a lil more on edge, hang onto her actions and words a lil more, your insecurities come out. And you yourself are a lil more ‘safe’, domesticated, dare we say boring. All the things women dislike or become bored with

When you got other bytches? You stay on your game, you more confident, you care LESS, you more liable to just laugh off her dumb shyt. You remain the type of man she got with, you literally are a better bf bc of it. bytches be in happy relationships and don’t know the real reason why …

Again, I cannot explain this phenomenon and I’m not advising dudes to cheat on their s/o, but

 

[Dynamite James]