I'm not bent outta shape. I already said men like you are the type of men BW should avoid. That’s really the end of the conversation with me. You're the one going back and forth with 5 people trying to defend your right to swirl and trying to make swirling the pinnacle of self love.
"Look Marie and Ming Lee look at me even though I'm Black. I'm special!"
Well, i mean if only your race is looking at you then yeah...that'd be an issue. Everyone should be.