I would never wish a bad person on Black women or say Black women are better because they "keep their mouth shut".
But this whole passive aggressive thing and knowing they can weaponize their lies/tears to move society against you is a White woman conceit. I had a older mentor Black female lawyer warn me about this years ago...the number of quiet settled cases of sexual harassment on flimsy grounds WW would bring against BM in the workplace. That's why I tell dudes to never shyt where you eat but ESPECIALLY leave WW in the workplace alone. Not that there aren't douchebags in our community but the false flag risk is much lower if you deal with your own, it is what it is