Mountain
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That's not single parent household issues, its a problem of mothers who happen to be single parents, there is a difference
When you say single parent (which really means women) can't show her child what authority is, that is crazy to me. Authority is Authority regardless of gender. The only time a child won't respect a certain gender's authority is because of something between the parents. A woman who instills a child to not respect male authority is a man hater, and the child issues come from that, not single parent households.
A lot of women are single parents, but not by choice, then there are women who CAN'T be in relationships due to how they are as people, so they become single parents. Unfortunately, that means all those issues that made her not be able to maintain a relationship will express itself in her children. Hating male authority would be the first thing seen because the mother would express her hate of the childs father, and the child will feel that towards other males if the mother has the same attitude towards other males in their environment. I seen this growing up, I just never understood it until i got older.
The child is basically an extension of the mother. Its hard to find a woman like that in two parent homes, but there are some men who take that shyt, these men tend to be "just there", and the mother is the main power in the household
Ok its an issue prevalent in single mother households, that's fine I didnt think id have to qualify such an obvious point but alright.
The point is that J is looking to address a very multifaceted issue that we both acknowledge partially stems from single mother households, why is that a problem?
But the fact that he can articulate losing 92 bricks better than this is a gotdamn travesty. Since he deciding to open his mouth of inequalities and inequities with blacks and police, it's his job to make sure that it is pitch perfect because of who he is, his voice gets amplified louder. All of this is haphazard drivel. As far as I know, we are the only race where far and wide, our parents have the 'talk' with them about police. Once my wife was lamenting the fact that black people have to do it and it would be nice when we could break the cycle. That's cool and all but just like I told her, we'll break ours when they break theirs. Our actions in regards to law enforcement is one of defense, to be reactive. I grew up in a single parent household and I was very respectful to people that held positions of authority. Just because Gloria Carter bought that nikka a radio 'to keep him close' and thought it was enough show lack of structure in their household. My mom knew who my friends were, knew their parents, had phone numbers, call and check in, street lights, all that shyt. Basically, foot on neck season with me and i'm better for it. This nikka shot his own brother, fukk he talking about with family structure. I do a good job usually separating from the art from the artist but this is getting to me. Your head should never allow you unsee what his eyes has surely seen. How many ________ while Black things have we seen in recent years. When statistics bare themselves out time and time and time again with police treatment of us black people and he's out here promoting this bullshyt but his people won't call him out because he is hip-hop's first billionaire and many people would suck his dikk for a feature still. As a fan of his talent and what I thought to be his views towards social commentary, this is beyond disheartening, he needs to get stole on. Ain't nobody above an ass-whipping and he's due for one thinking like this. I lead a life that by most people metrics, is wildly successful. That still doesn't change the fact that I'm a black man, born in Detroit, Michigan, raised in a single parent household. Those sensibilities should never leave you as they make me what I am and it is with those sensibilities that while I know all cops aren't crooked, I know that enough of them are and that fact is enough for me to take a guilty until proven innocent approach with them, similar to how many of them do us.
I respect that, yea he left out the abuse of police authority and really theres no excuse it like you said, he needs to be more careful and paint a the bigger picture. But lets not act like single motherhood isnt a general problem in our communities.
Ice let me ask you this, should we promote single motherhood or admonish it?