Is there really a shortage of black men for black women to date/married? OR

[Malik]

Um you kinda messing up your argument cause it sounds like you talking about Instagram type chick instead of normal everyday chicks. Of course them instagram chicks after Trey and the ballers that's what they do and if you surprised the jokes on you. It also comes off as some entitlement that we would crush chicks for. The ole I have a house, car, job, so I deserve a top 5 chick it just don't work that easy. You also doing another thing that at dislike hyping up whites like they don't do the same whining some dudes on here do about white women. Dudes that aren't winning going to complain period. That's how you can easily tell folks haven't been around other groups in any meaningful way cause if you have you'd saw people with the same complaints regardless of race.

How can you say this...

I think this is true to some extent because it stereotypically seems like more white women get it.

Then agree with the next post

All I made was an observation based on my experiences. Think about the baddest (non-celebrity) black woman you ever saw. Now think about the baddest (non-celebrity) white woman you ever saw. From my experience, that bad black chick will be out on the "scene" thinking like she's far too good for a regular office dude whereas that bad white chick will be married with some random cac from her college with 2 kids by the time she's 26.

 

[philmonroe]

How can you say this...



Then agree with the next post

All I made was an observation based on my experiences. Think about the baddest (non-celebrity) black woman you ever saw. Now think about the baddest (non-celebrity) white woman you ever saw. From my experience, that bad black chick will be out on the "scene" thinking like she's far too good for a regular office dude whereas that bad white chick will be married with some random cac from her college with 2 kids by the time she's 26.

The dualities mane lol. Yeah I understand why you would say what you did but to me they spoke on different things. Thats why I could see your point in one and disagree with the other.

 

[TMNT4000]

There's an academic paper by this black woman who wrote how black women are more likely than any other women to have more education and income than their interracial partner. White, Asian, and Hispanic women are more likely to marry up when going in Interracial relationship, while black women are likely to marry down when going in Interracial relationship.

Here's the link.
http://repository.tamu.edu/bitstrea...9-08-7028/SLATTON-DISSERTATION.pdf?sequence=2

 

[PartyHeart]

Its something that happens amongst both genders. Guys do it a lot too so I'm not sure why the focus is always on women. Look at how every post complaining about women's choices is not actually complaining about all women's choices but "dime" women's choices. A lot of people feel they should have standards that people can't mess with or question but want others to relinquish some of their standard to give them a chance.

 

[Nintendough]

There has never been a shortage of good men who work hard, however there has always been a surplus of women who expect the world handed to them just because they pee sitting down.

 

[mamba]

There has never been a shortage of good men who work hard, however there has always been a surplus of women who expect the world handed to them just because they pee sitting down.

Damn. That quote should be on a t-shirt!

"Expect the world to be handed to you because you pee sitting down, brehettes."

 

[filial_piety]

There's an academic paper by this black woman who wrote how black women are more likely than any other women to have more education and income than their interracial partner. White, Asian, and Hispanic women are more likely to marry up when going in Interracial relationship, while black women are likely to marry down when going in Interracial relationship.

Here's the link.
http://repository.tamu.edu/bitstrea...9-08-7028/SLATTON-DISSERTATION.pdf?sequence=2

Thanks, I'm saving this for future discussion.

I've known this for the LONGEST time, and I've mentioned quite a few times in other forums whenever the black women discuss this idea that their aren't enough black men on their "level" thereby making the average white male their premium choice.

Aside from that the fact this is statistically false, few people know that these white guys who are with black women, are actually scuz buckets and bottom dwellers themselves, and that we all assume Biff is "successful" because he ties a sweater around his shoulders and conjugates all of his verbs.

Well, the devil is always in the details, because when you get down to the nitty gritty of it all, these white dudes are always "planning" to finish college, "in between" jobs and have credit card debt up to their ears. Meanwhile the black women have a master's degree, or a number of letters around her name... a "good job with benefits"...and a car and home that they can call their own...the white male image just completes the picture that they've always wanted...his actual status be damned

 

[Nintendough]

Its something that happens amongst both genders. Guys do it a lot too so I'm not sure why the focus is always on women. Look at how every post complaining about women's choices is not actually complaining about all women's choices but "dime" women's choices. A lot of people feel they should have standards that people can't mess with or question but want others to relinquish some of their standard to give them a chance.

Cut the PC, everybody does it equal bullshyt. Both genders do this but women do it significantly more. The rest of your post is just feminist babel.

 

[pete clemenza]

Don't believe these talks shows and the panels brehs.. these women have options out here like crazy

 

[mamba]

I know a lot of what would be considered white "dimes" with "average" white dudes. It's the same with the Indian, Latino and other people I know. As long as dude is taking care of business as a man, has a career and ambition, the women fukk with them.

There is no shortage of good Black men for good Black women. Problem is most good Black women think they "deserve" a "GREAT" Black man as opposed to building with the "good" Black men. When they cannot snag a "GREAT" Black man, they complain about the lack of "good" Black men.

 

[Canon]

There's an academic paper by this black woman who wrote how black women are more likely than any other women to have more education and income than their interracial partner. White, Asian, and Hispanic women are more likely to marry up when going in Interracial relationship, while black women are likely to marry down when going in Interracial relationship.

Here's the link.
http://repository.tamu.edu/bitstrea...9-08-7028/SLATTON-DISSERTATION.pdf?sequence=2

bookmarked

 

[TMNT4000]

Thanks, I'm saving this for future discussion.

I've known this for the LONGEST time, and I've mentioned quite a few times in other forums whenever the black women discuss this idea that their aren't enough black men on their "level" thereby making the average white male their premium choice.

Aside from that the fact this is statistically false, few people know that these white guys who are with black women, are actually scuz buckets and bottom dwellers themselves, and that we all assume Biff is "successful" because he ties a sweater around his shoulders and conjugates all of his verbs.

Well, the devil is always in the details, because when you get down to the nitty gritty of it all, these white dudes are always "planning" to finish college, "in between" jobs and have credit card debt up to their ears. Meanwhile the black women have a master's degree, or a number of letters around her name... a "good job with benefits"...and a car and home that they can call their own...the white male image just completes the picture that they've always wanted...his actual status be damned

Yep, I have a cousin who is real smart and trying to become a doctor and she's likes white dudes.

Well she had a white boyfriend that she meet online, and that dude a small security job and never bushed his teeth(he always use gum).

He cheated on my cousin with another black girl, my cousin broke up with him, than got back together and broke up again(because he cheated on her with another black girl)

Now my cousin playing it safe by dating a Cuban that she meet online.

 

[mamba]

Yep, I have a cousin who is real smart and trying to become a doctor and she's likes white dudes.

Well she had a white boyfriend that she meet online, and that dude a small security job and never bushed his teeth(he always use gum).

He cheated on my cousin with another black girl, my cousin broke up with him, than got back together and broke up again(because he cheated on her with another black girl)

Now my cousin playing it safe by dating a Cuban that she meet online.

 

[filial_piety]

Yep, I have a cousin who is real smart and trying to become a doctor and she's likes white dudes.

Well she had a white boyfriend that she meet online, and that dude a small security job and never bushed his teeth(he always use gum).

He cheated on my cousin with another black girl, my cousin broke up with him, than got back together and broke up again(because he cheated on her with another black girl)

Now my cousin playing it safe by dating a Cuban that she meet online.

I've seen quite a few couples where at first glance...because of how we are programmed...anyone witnessing these couples would automatically come to the conclusion that the white guy is banking or has his ducks in order simply because he wears his pants up, slicks his hair back and wears his button down tucked in...

But once you actually get to know them....dude is usually unemployed, unskilled, and uneducated while the sista is "helping him get back on track."

 

[Richard Wright]

As much as our type of black man likes to front on tyler perry - his diary of a mad black woman is a masterpiece.

A woman will love, put up with, and be abused by any nikka(or cac ) who fulfills her hypergamic requirements, but will turn around and tell the brother who having a strong woman would actually benefit that he is 'thirsty' or not good enough.

Most good black men will disproportionately to the us population date at least 1/2 black women

Its time for us to hop on the no affirmative action for black women tip. If black women are 1/8 of the population dont be surprised when theyre 1/8 who I date