Who exactly are you talking about models and actresses or everyday women?
When you see a dime white chick with an average looking white dude you better believe he is paid or has good dikk because relationships are about what people are bring in to the table. The women is brining her looks and what would the man be bringing.... a kind heart

Let's face it in this world that not an even exchange.
As for your second point most black men are not ready pre 30 to get married and start a family so this leaves black women who want to marry young at a disadvantage unless they start to look for other racial options.
I don't know any young black women that find hardworking black men boring unless they are teenage girls, and/or hood rats, so stop the bull shyt.