Is Receiving Male Attention For Women Really That Serious?

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Everybody likes attention but only women get demonized for wanting it as with a lot of things.

But more to the point tho I think one of two extremes can cause attention whoredom. If ur so accustomed to attention and you are narcisstic then you crave it. If you've never had what u seem to be enuff, then it's that deep. But most normal women don't sweat it. They generally only want it from the dude's they're into. People with lives are too busy to sweat stuff like this.
 

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Everybody likes attention but only women get demonized for wanting it as with a lot of things.

But more to the point tho I think one of two extremes can cause attention whoredom. If ur so accustomed to attention and you are narcisstic then you crave it. If you've never had what u seem to be enuff, then it's that deep. But most normal women don't sweat it. They generally only want it from the dude's they're into. People with lives are too busy to sweat stuff like this.
That's not true. There is nothing wrong with wanting attention, it's a necessity for humans and most if not all living things. But when you start to feel depressed because you aren't getting romantic attention from the opposite sex than it is a problem.

What about Kent, Jamil, Savvyguy, etc and all those so-called true forced loneliness youtubers? They get demonized everyday for wanting female attention. Women get more sympathy than them for the exact same things. Point me to an article about men complaining and whining that they no longer get the amount of attention from women that they used to? But you can hundreds of articles from women about it.
 

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She has very low self esteem, your worth shouldn't be dependent on a male's attention, she's the type of chick you wouldn't want to wife up, she'd constantly have new "male friends" and always have a few nikkas texting her and calling her every other day to chit chat

One of my exes was like this.This was way back in 2010. She never cheated on me but was constantly on twitter saying how awkward she was and really had a self depreciating personality. She always had the comfort from other dudes on how beautiful and funny she was etc, etc,. Those same dudes would be texting her and one these dudes was calling her while we were fukking.:martin: shortly after we broke up because she definitely has some depression issues and to this day she's still single and still getting that male attention.
 
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One of my exes was like this.This was way back in 2010. She never cheated on me but was constantly on twitter saying awkward and really had a self depreciating personality. She always had the comfort from other dudes on how beautiful and funny she was etc, etc,. Those same dudes would be texting her and one these dudes was calling her while we were fukking.:martin: shortly after we broke up because she definitely has some depression issues and to this day she's still single and still getting that male attention.

Had a similar experience in high school, but I think my girl actually cheated, so now the biggest thing I look for in women is a sense of self and confidence
 

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I think it is, if they're not used to getting it. Women that get male attn regularly probably dont care.
This isn't true.

Ex. My sister is pretty and she has always gotten male attention, so she is used to it. She def notices when she isn't getting as much attention as usual and comments on it. If you have pple complimenting you all of the time, acting thirsty trying to get with you, you'll def notice if/when it stops.

I guess it's fine to flirt and get attention when you're single, but you shouldn't do it while your in a relationship.

Everyone likes attention, especially from certain pple in their lives. Everyone isn't desperate for it though, an attention whore. That would be a problem.
 

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Some women put attention from men/affection from men as a priority in life. Their lives revolve around men. These women can be dangerous because they can let other facets of their lives fall at the waist side because they just need a man around or a man giving them attention. Men will be their downfall and their accomplishment. They will put men before their kids. Bring random boyfriends around their kids. Feel depressed if men don't give them attention. It can also make them jealous of female friends/family, who get attention from men or have men, if these women are single. They can be catty toward other women.








And the men who feed off of this,usually abuse her.
 

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Yeah. Women cannot live without us. Men attention is currency for women.
 
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Not necessarily true. There is a difference for a need for human interaction and needless attention. Men don't use women for attention whereas women do. Women will have guys in their life that they use solely for attention. Those PUA and TFL dudes want to either get laid or get girlfriends. Plus they aren't the average dudes.Most of them are below average, socially awkward, or average but don't have that it factor to attract a lot of women. And some can, but the women they want don't want them, and the women taht want them they don't notice or don't want.

Men don't put women in the friendzone because they like the attention, someone admiring them etc whereas women do. Those are the differences.

THIS. Threads like this do not need women input.
 

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Everybody likes attention but only women get demonized for wanting it as with a lot of things.

But more to the point tho I think one of two extremes can cause attention whoredom. If ur so accustomed to attention and you are narcisstic then you crave it. If you've never had what u seem to be enuff, then it's that deep. But most normal women don't sweat it. They generally only want it from the dude's they're into. People with lives are too busy to sweat stuff like this.

Women deserve to be demonized for it because they take attention from men that they do not like.
 

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Some women put attention from men/affection from men as a priority in life. Their lives revolve around men. These women can be dangerous because they can let other facets of their lives fall at the waist side because they just need a man around or a man giving them attention. Men will be their downfall and their accomplishment. They will put men before their kids. Bring random boyfriends around their kids. Feel depressed if men don't give them attention. It can also make them jealous of female friends/family, who get attention from men or have men, if these women are single. They can be catty toward other women.

Society ingrains in girls heads that male attention is important.
Your self worth is heavily measured by men.
How you look.
If you can give a man a family.
If a man will marry you.

I don’t know why you got banned but it’s a shame. You offer many words of wisdom.
 
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