The only thing worse than superficial bytches obsessed with height are superficial bytches categorizing men according to the car that they drive.
Isn't there a stat that says there are less father's than mothers in our community or something like that?Trust me, if a lot of you men knew your other half’s ideal type, most of you would jump in front of a train. The reality is brutal.
I appreciate Elle trying to alleviate what she said but let’s keep it real. There’s a reason why you see so many baby mamas. A lot of women would rather fukk the same guy who’s wanted by 100s than settle with a guy on their level. (Hypergamy).
They won’t admit it but you can see it all around you. Don’t just take my word for it. You see the baby daddy’s of most women, that was their type. Then you look at the guy they settled down with after getting knocked up.... it tells you all you need to know.
I know some women will come in here and dispute what I’m saying but the evidence is all around you.
And that’s why I’m single. I’ve only been in relationships with women I’m genuinely attracted to inside and out... but I guess the narcissist in me believes I can always do better.
Its not anything profound, its rather simple.
We do not live in complete and brutal honesty with our S/O. If we did, every marriage would end in divorce.
We have to placate, maneuver, pacify, and sometimes straight up lie to keep a relationship going. Its unnatural but its necessary.
You let him know this, he will factor it in on many occasions... even some occasions where you aren't considering it all.
and this is not about him being insecure, its about you not playing the game of relationships fairly
You feel no ways that your husband’s ideal doesn’t look anything like youWhen did I say I had a height "requirement"...and the requirement would be for what, exactly? To grab my attention, to give him a date, to have sex with him, to marry him....could you clarify?
As far as being disrespectful, I see this word thrown around a lot on here, especially with regards to ladies. I must be honest and say I don't know how it applies here.
Let's try this - if my husband had told me Halle Berry or Kelly Rowland types were his ideal, should I have felt disrespected by that? From what I've seen on here, many young men believe they warrant the same type of lady and will actually end up with one...do you think they will?
My husband's physical ideal is actually this:
Guess what...I look nothing like this...lol not even close.
Now, based on your assertion, I should feel disrespected, as his wife, correct? Is it because I don't look like her or because he actually told me? I've been in this body for nearly 40 years, and he knew what he was getting.
All it tells me is he must have married me for a reason deeper than my looks. Do you think I walk around daily lamenting I don't have a body like Ms. Cowell and resenting my husband for it?
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You feel no ways that your husband’s ideal doesn’t look anything like you
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I dont know you, but my inclination is to believe you are lying. If you’re not, I find that strange but whatever makes your marriage work.
