I got 3 kids brah. My daughter can shoot and when my twins get older they will shoot. I don't have to sleep with it but I do. I also don't have to go anywhere with it ...but I do...legally. I'm surgical with all my guns folk. What I shoot at I'm hitting...same with wifey. She got a revolver that stays In her purse and I make sure she can use itI take it you dont have children together.
Maybe you should work on your perimeter security so you dont have to sleep with your hand on a trigger and have time to get to your gun.
Going to sleep next to a woman with a firearm. o young man nononononoNO!