Let me give yall some real advice on this topic. dont look down on females who have a child. But you want somebody that is mature and is financially responsible. that means her child is taken care of whether you are there or not. Dating gets hard once you get in your late 20s early 30s to find a woman with no kids. My main thing is this. THINGS WILL CHANGE ONCE YOU HAVE YOUR OWN KID. if you have been helping a mother raise her kids and then you have your own with her, its a new ballgame. i know a lot of yall say, well im a treat em equally. Ill love em the same. Bull freaking crap. once you have a seed of your own, responsibilities change. no matter what, ur tied to that child for the next 18 years and more. if you and the mom break up, you still got financial responsibilites to your seed. U have no responsibilites to the child that isnt yours. once the new baby comes, u look at things differently. like the stepchild eating all the food in the house. the money you spent on stepkids could be put away for your biological childs college fund.
why do people say this?
when now more than ever at every age demograpic there are more CHILDLESS FEMALES than ever before.