If ur under 30...engaged or thinkin bout gettin married... DONT DO IT

[brickfare]

i'm 30 and still can't see myself getting married, maybe if i was in a better place financially and had more success with women in my 20s...even now i come up with more reasons not to marry than for marriage

 

[MikelArteta]

The most scary thing in marriage you can do everything right and still lose.

People change all the time

women i thought were hot 5 years ago, are not what i consider hot now. Things I valued 5 years ago I don';t value now.

you can be the best father, best husband, be faithful hard working set time aside for your wife and kids and she can be like eh i dont love you anymore and go.

 

[Easy-E]

how about just have a girl that you make your life partner and just dont have kids?

Thats an idea, but, Im not about premarital sex, shackin up life

 

[a murda]

Here's the real issue young fellas. The real reason grown ass married or divorced men tell you not to get married has almost everything to do with sex. As a married dude for 7 years, I know that's what @a murda was getting at.

Sex in marriage for most husbands (not all) is a real problem. I know you think you are stroking your girl now, she's moaning like a porn start and it's going to be all good when you get married because your pipe game is nice. Think again brehs.

Women are thirsty out there for a ring especially if their baby father is not in the picture. But once they get it, it's like their p*ssy starts to dry up like well done steaks. They don't need to throw that p*ssy at you any longer because they got what they wanted. She suddenly ain't in the mood to try new stuff, watch porn or give head. So now you gotta put in work for that ass.


There's a lot of benefits of marriage. To me the benefits outweigh the negatives. But decreasing sex is a real problem and it gets much worse when you have children.

Real talk.

 

[GoPro]

Here's the real issue young fellas. The real reason grown ass married or divorced men tell you not to get married has almost everything to do with sex. As a married dude for 7 years, I know that's what @a murda was getting at.

Sex in marriage for most husbands (not all) is a real problem. I know you think you are stroking your girl now, she's moaning like a porn star and it's going to be all good when you get married because your pipe game is nice. Think again brehs.

Women are thirsty out there for a ring especially if their baby father is not in the picture. But once they get it, it's like their p*ssy starts to dry up like well done steaks. They don't need to throw that p*ssy at you any longer because they got what they wanted. She suddenly ain't in the mood to try new stuff, watch porn or give head. So now you gotta put in work for that ass.

There's a lot of benefits of marriage. To me the benefits outweigh the negatives. But decreasing sex is a real problem and it gets much worse when you have children.

Real talk.

Dry puss, holding out.

 

[LebronsHairline]

Thats an idea, but, Im not about premarital sex, shackin up life

Oh well then you know what must be done then

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I do agree that marrying young carries a HUGE risk but people should do what's best for them.

If you got your shyt together you'll always have women to choose from. But the only problem with waiting until later is that NOBODY knows you well anymore. shyt sucks. You'll meet a good chick but have no idea about her history and she won't know shyt about the version of you that was pre-success. This is my biggest problem at the moment. Plenty of beautiful chicks but they wasn't with me shooting at the gym ya dig?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I do agree that marrying young carries a HUGE risk but people should do what's best for them.

If you got your shyt together you'll always have women to choose from. But the only problem with waiting until later is that NOBODY knows you well anymore. shyt sucks. You'll meet a good chick but have no idea about her history and she won't know shyt about the version of you that was pre-success. This is my biggest problem at the moment. Plenty of beautiful chicks but they wasn't with me shooting at the gym ya dig?

Great Point

 

[Easy-E]

Oh well then you know what must be done then

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[Paisley Darts]

As with everything, it's pros and cons with marriage. Marriage is the #1 wealth indicator. Divorce is the #1 poverty indicator.

IMO..its about experiencing life with a partner, creating/having a family and passing on knowledge/wealth to your seed. Marriage is hard work and problems will arise..but it's about finding somebody that's worth putting up with the BS. With all that said, I plan to get married..I'm 30 and I've been dating my GF for almost 2 years..But best believe an iron clad pre-nup will be on deck

 

[MikelArteta]

I do agree that marrying young carries a HUGE risk but people should do what's best for them.

If you got your shyt together you'll always have women to choose from. But the only problem with waiting until later is that NOBODY knows you well anymore. shyt sucks. You'll meet a good chick but have no idea about her history and she won't know shyt about the version of you that was pre-success. This is my biggest problem at the moment. Plenty of beautiful chicks but they wasn't with me shooting at the gym ya dig?

or by waiting you may just be the settler, the starter husband for these broads. They don't really love you, but you 6 foot have a car, a house, a job you'll do for now

 

[Chris.B]

Marriage is a lottery at this point.

Most women IMO have an average of 50 dikks on them before they meet their husband

 

[Illuminatos]

The most scary thing in marriage you can do everything right and still lose.

People change all the time

women i thought were hot 5 years ago, are not what i consider hot now. Things I valued 5 years ago I don';t value now.

you can be the best father, best husband, be faithful hard working set time aside for your wife and kids and she can be like eh i dont love you anymore and go.

Men can change too.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Honestly if your young and you KNOW you have a good one then get married. Otherwise, if your late 20's or early 30's then I say just forget that shyt...the chances of you finding a decent chick without 150 thousand miles on her in NONE.

Just smash hella chicks and stack paper till you get tired of that and WANT to settle down (but be careful)...don't settle down because someone is pressuring you to. Embrace being by yourself you bytches...it's a blessing because it will allow you to pick up a skill, research shyt, or stack paper.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Marriage is a lottery at this point.

Most women IMO have an average of 50 dikks on them before they meet their husband

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