If ur under 30...engaged or thinkin bout gettin married... DONT DO IT

[raw613]

im not anti marriage and it might work young for some and i don't knock it, but being closer to 30 than 20 myself im not gonna rush myself due to societal pressures. Admittedly I started off on the wrong path and didn't get my shyt together until my mid 20's, that being said I am tryin to enjoy the oppurtunities on the horizon and not rush things. When I meet a woman I feel like im meant to be with forever I will act on it, but im not putting a artificial timeline on it prior to that.

 

[LebronsHairline]

@ me waiting for you to grow up while my eggs go rotten

That put a terrible image in my mind inno. Thank you

 

[innocentdevil]

That put a terrible image in my mind inno. Thank you

You're welcome

 

[raw613]

@ me waiting for you to grow up while my eggs go rotten

LOL i feel you but its better for a dude to wait than be in a situation where he is unfaithful or not living up to his responsibilities.

 

[innocentdevil]

LOL i feel you but its better for a dude to wait than be in a situation where he is unfaithful or not living up to his responsibilities.

I don't want my husband being when we have children either...I'll stick to the guys my age that don't have the behavior of most guys my age. lol

 

[MBwithadream]

and even when u guys reach 30 and especially in this day and age are u going to be able to find a woman who doesn't have kids already. i even meet women in the professional level who has kids and be like

are u willing to married a woman who has a child? are u ready for that?

no, that's why any women under 25 & not bestie, i'm gonna

 

[raw613]

I don't want my husband being when we have children either...I'll stick to the guys my age that don't have the behavior of most guys my age. lol

understood which is why if i get married i have to allow for some degree of baggage as long as it doesn't surpass mine lol

 

[Malik]

N*ggas really think they gonna be 35 and knocking down college chicks Listen bro, if you got your shyt together in your 30s, you become attractive to chicks who're ready to settle down (27 yo - 35 yo age range). You not about to have a buffet of hot, fresh 22 year old girls unless you're ready to trick. They fresh out of college. They still on the club circuit with her friends. They don't give a fukk about settling down yet. What she want with your old azz? They still being young. A 22 year old girl might date that fly 27 year old lawyer. Your 35 year old azz though? She only want you for one reason, B

 

[Entropy Fan]

Depends on who you are

For alot of men their value wont peak til mid 30s

For some (hs qb types) , they may be washed up by 30 and should lock down what they can while they still have value

For women... they should cash in their chips by 23 at the latest, after that its downhill fast


All about recognizing when you are at your peak and cashing in accordingly

fixed.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Yeah, the last thing you want is your wife to divorce you and take your imaginary billions.

ya kids aint imaginary

 

[YouMadd?]

I am 26 and I am not even THINKING about anything marriage related until I am AT LEAST 33-34 years old... Kids won't come until atleast 36-37...

To many experiences to be had, and too much money to be spent on shyt I WANT before I have to start worrying about other people

 

[Illuminatos]

Its all about marrying a young chick

A 35 yr old is desirable to a 24 yr old

In what world?

 

[Ashley Banks]

I don't want my husband being when we have children either...I'll stick to the guys my age that don't have the behavior of most guys my age. lol

ikr, older dads mean there's a higher chance of the child having autism and schizophrenia

"Older men are more likely than younger ones to have children with autism or schizophrenia, and a new genetic study points to why: compared with younger dads, older fathers pass on significantly more random genetic mutations to their offspring that increase the risk for these conditions."


"And when compared to the genetic contributions of the mother, older fathers are responsible for nearly all of a child’s random genetic mutations: a father’s age at conception may account for 97% of the new, or de novo, mutations found in his offspring"

"The study found that a 20-year-old dad passes on an average of 25 new genetic mutations to his child, while a 40-year-old passes 65."

Read more: http://healthland.time.com/2012/08/...-autism-and-schizophrenia-risk/#ixzz2d3M3ZmEr

 

[Malik]

In what world?

duckberg

 

[innocentdevil]

ikr, older dads mean there's a higher chance of the child having autism and schizophrenia