I said IMOLink?
If ur under 30...engaged or thinkin bout gettin married... DONT DO IT
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Brehs, I'm never gettin' married, huh?
in simple terms, if u are admittedly a selfish person who values his or her personal time and money, then marriage just isnt for u. when i say selfish i dont mean it entirely in a bad way, some people can be selfish and still be good people, just not very generous.
if u care about ur legacy and family values and having a stable of children and grandchildren someday along with a wife who is also ur right hand and has ur back like no other, then give marriage a shot.
in my opinion, marriage fails when there is 1 or 2 selfish people involved. sometimes, the selfish man really does love his woman but she is forcing his hand at marriage and he gives in leading to a life of resentment and infidelity or the 2 selfish people get married because they want to lock the other down or the simp man marries the selfish woman thinking it will change her whorish ways.
marriage can only work between 2 selfless and committed people with the same dreams and goals of a family. thats all. we tend to overcomplicate shyt like this because its scary to jump into the unknown and the future is never fully known. just ask urself what u want out of ur time here. nonstop fun, or an ongoing legacy. find somebody with a similar answer and proceed in a cautiously optimistic manner.
if u care about ur legacy and family values and having a stable of children and grandchildren someday along with a wife who is also ur right hand and has ur back like no other, then give marriage a shot.
in my opinion, marriage fails when there is 1 or 2 selfish people involved. sometimes, the selfish man really does love his woman but she is forcing his hand at marriage and he gives in leading to a life of resentment and infidelity or the 2 selfish people get married because they want to lock the other down or the simp man marries the selfish woman thinking it will change her whorish ways.
marriage can only work between 2 selfless and committed people with the same dreams and goals of a family. thats all. we tend to overcomplicate shyt like this because its scary to jump into the unknown and the future is never fully known. just ask urself what u want out of ur time here. nonstop fun, or an ongoing legacy. find somebody with a similar answer and proceed in a cautiously optimistic manner.
Are you sayin'...get...ma...ma...married, to us brehs?
im saying if you want to go down that path then do it your young, or you'll be left with cat ladies, bipolar ladies, single moms, divorcees
I can be 30 and marry a 23 year old....
HookersandIceCream
#TeamOrange
Too late 
i said not to old, 30 is not old for a male.
As a man the women you marry imo should be between 24-28
surely marriage can't be that bad?Too late
AZBeauty
Stop lyin' nicca.
I'm going to agree with this even though I got married in my early 20's. This is the time when you get to know what you like and don't, what type of relationship/marriage you want to have, better yourself and position yourself in your career etc. 28 and up is a good time to start thinking about marriage
hes gotta be a white boy troll...theres no way a nikka actually can be as stupid as him...he ever been on that tinychat shyt, cuz dudes statements sometimes.@BrothaZay has become one of the most controversial posters on here.....I fux with that. ..... .
That's good marriage advice, breh.