I turned 30 last month, the month before that I married the mother of my child. It's amazing how so many of my HS friends & a few undergrad friends are still acting they are in their early 20s. Going to the same clubs, sleeping with different women. I mean I use to do it too & I always said I would NEVER get married. I guess for me, our test came when she had our son when we were 23 still in school & we were broke & frustrated with a baby.
I always knew I was gonna marry her but I had to get my finances in order & so far it's great, I've been a pharmacist for a few years now making A+ money, she has a great career too & I would rather be married & bored(sometimes) vs single & lonely. I mean how much sex with different women can one man have with different women?
I just never wanted to be that "old man" in the club looking for love. The allure & temptation for multiple women is always there because I practice in a hospital but it's not worth it & I would never consider having a "gumar". In my opinion if you're with someone that you truly love & you have your money right, I think it will work out.
I went through months of pre-marital counseling, I think that's good for engaged couples to decide if they should marry....
I always knew I was gonna marry her but I had to get my finances in order & so far it's great, I've been a pharmacist for a few years now making A+ money, she has a great career too & I would rather be married & bored(sometimes) vs single & lonely. I mean how much sex with different women can one man have with different women?
I just never wanted to be that "old man" in the club looking for love. The allure & temptation for multiple women is always there because I practice in a hospital but it's not worth it & I would never consider having a "gumar". In my opinion if you're with someone that you truly love & you have your money right, I think it will work out.
I went through months of pre-marital counseling, I think that's good for engaged couples to decide if they should marry....